Post: #1

On Saturday I spend like 2h with girl in the club. She was interested although she did not let me escalate to much touch. I messaged her on Monday evening. She was keeping few hours spacing between SMSes so I was also sending messages with similar spacing. On Tuesday evening she agreed to have date on Saturday. After she agreed she suddenly become very chatty through messages. She sent messages immediately after I sent one and she began to send few messages in quick succession. I responded to few of them with slower timing then her (up to an hour) but I'm afraid to give her to much validation so I stopped after few messages and now I'm silent for about 14 hours (its 12:00 PM now).

I do not want to validate her to much but I do not want her to loose interest as well. How should I handle further communication. Should I send like 2 SMSes a day or keep silent until Saturday? What are your experiences in similar situations?

Post: #2

(05-10-2017 04:53 AM)EmotionalGeek Wrote:  On Saturday I spend like 2h with girl in the club. She was interested although she did not let me escalate to much touch. I messaged her on Monday evening. She was keeping few hours spacing between SMSes so I was also sending messages with similar spacing. On Tuesday evening she agreed to have date on Saturday. After she agreed she suddenly become very chatty through messages. She sent messages immediately after I sent one and she began to send few messages in quick succession. I responded to few of them with slower timing then her (up to an hour) but I'm afraid to give her to much validation so I stopped after few messages and now I'm silent for about 14 hours (its 12:00 PM now).

I do not want to validate her to much but I do not want her to loose interest as well. How should I handle further communication. Should I send like 2 SMSes a day or keep silent until Saturday? What are your experiences in similar situations?

Reply when you feel like replying is due - don't fall in her frame. Girls can steal it and derail conversation leading you around for no reason. If you set the date, just try to keep a little fire on the stove, sprinkle it with a little sexual innuendo but nothing serious, don't be too available - usually it is best to send at least one message before a girl goes to sleep so she thinks about you for a bit - priming effect.

Post: #3

There is no right answer to that.

Reply how YOU want to reply. Feel out when it is better to carry on texting and when to text nothing.