Post: #1

I want to start by saying that I’m in my mid 20’s, living in a big city (2million+ citizens) in Western Europe, always did night game and always liked to party, drink, stay out until late and have fun with my friends.

Lately, though, I find myself considering switching from nightgame to daygame (and social circle game) with increasing frequency.

The reason is that I find the competition during the night at clubs enormously higher than during the day.
I can walk around my city during the day and see girls looking at me, smiling and looking around I don’t see much of a competition from the average guy.

That all change during the night because in any decent club you’ll find tons of hot guys hanging out and approaching girls and the girls have all the attention for them. The ration girls/guys in my country is also very bad and that doesn’t help either.
It’s like normal guys you see during the day don’t even bother to go out and pay a cover (20€ where I live) to enter a good club, they prefer to have a beer with their friends at a local bar (especially recently) and meet girls through their social circle without having to deal with the harsh competition in clubs.
So it’s like in practice there is an auto-selection mechanism where only good looking dudes with high SMV go to clubs making your chances to hook up with a hot chick very low.
Online game isn’t much better….on Tinder especially where girls choose the guy to hook up with based on the hottest guy they can match with.

Of course there is much more potential to date cute girls in environment where the competition is less fierce, so day game and social circle game are without a doubt better options (also your budget would benefit by not having to spend on cover and drinks).

Day game is very nerve wrecking though because it’s not that socially accepted to hit on girls walking by or sitting in a cafe.

And social circle game is good but getting inside good social circle can be hard.

I’d like to know your perspective on this and, if you practiced both, how your results changed from night game to day game. I’m interested especially if you managed to date more beautiful girls and more traditional (less shallow and slutty).

Post: #2

If you don't see competition during the day it doesn't mean there is no competition. These girls have their social circles, their orbiters, guys in work/school and other guys hitting on them at different times so competition is the same but hidden.

Post: #3

The best is to combine

I hardly do night game, but use online/social circle and day game.
If you can combine, you will increase your pipeline, which will increase the chances of getting laid.

Worry less, and approach more
Good luck

Post: #4

Cold approach is random.

Whether you meet a girl in a day or at night it does not determine what kind of a girl she is. Party girl can go to a bookstore where you search for angels. Normal girl can go out to a loud dark nightclub once in a while. You cant know what is up until you find out

Post: #5

Forget about day game or night game. Just game where ever you go. HB in a club go for it. Cutey on the street, same same. Different but the same.

Post: #6

There doesn't have to be a contest with them. Night game will get you better at game quicker than day game because of the sheer number of approaches you can do in a night.

During day game competition isn't lower it's different. Your competing with time constraints, work, errands, etc. You have to be good enough to beat that competition.

Post: #7

Other guys don't matter when I'm going out to clubs. Why do some guys look at other guys as "competition"?

In a club out of every 100 guys I'd say about 10-20 are running beta shy game and getting rejected/frustrated.

Another 10 or so have came with their girl.

The MAIN problem in my city in terms of nightgaming women is finding venues where there are hot women milling about that AREN'T bottle service groupies isolated from the rest of the club.

I really can't do anything about "competing" against that if 15 to 20 groups of 4 or 5 guys splash a few 1000s on a night out for their sectioned off portion of the club with the hottest 7 - 9 looking girls and leaving the majority of the remainder of guys with low hanging fruit 4s - 6s they don't really want in the first place.

Post: #8

(06-28-2017 04:36 PM)StepUp Wrote:  I’d like to know your perspective on this

The answers that you seek, they can only be found in the physical action of day gaming.

Talking to pretty girls during the day is the greatest teacher.

Don't over think it. If you want to learn about it, just do it.

*Also, I sense that in person, face to face approaches are losing momentum and online persona is becoming increasingly important*