Post: #1

I'm wondering what RVF's take on this is.

I've got this friend, he's short, not traditionally good looking (though he is in good shape) and his game isn't even that good at all. He uses a lot of cheesy one liner type openers.

But he cleans up. These white chicks just seem to love his swarthy brown dick. I'm not a jealous type so I don't care about that, but when we go out together I can't seem to get any.

I should include that we used to hang out years ago during a dry period of my life, where I couldn't seem to score if I was in a whore house with a fistfull of hundreds...so maybe knowing that is somehow fucking me up?

We stopped hanging out after awhile and things went back to normal. We've recently starting hanging out again and I can see this pattern emerging again.

Is this in my head, and just something I need to "unfuck myself" about? Or is it a real phenomenon?

In any case, I'd like the input from the forum on how to get past this.

Post: #2

Is he a good friend?

If so, unfuck yourself and keep him around, instead of resorting to only running game with guys worse looking than you are. That's no way to live if you're in this for the long haul. You want to party with friends you enjoy being around. There's always going to be better looking guys than you are.

Have fun, have good friends, dance, pussy will follow.

Post: #3

(09-08-2017 02:12 PM)LINUX Wrote:  Is he a good friend?

If so, unfuck yourself and keep him around, instead of resorting to only running game with guys worse looking than you are. That's no way to live if you're in this for the long haul. You want to party with friends you enjoy being around. There's always going to be better looking guys than you are.

Have fun, have good friends, dance, pussy will follow.

The strange thing is I've had more success when out gaming with guys better looking than me, so it's not an issue of insecurity about looks.

As far as him being a good friend, we do have fun together but we kind of bring out the worst in each other when drinking. I'm not considering dropping him as a friend, but perhaps just flying solo when going out as I seem to be better at that.

Post: #4

Yeah I think it's all in your head.

Just go out and have fun. Don't make it a competition for who gets the most pussy. Surely there have been instances where you open a set of girls? He picks a target and you pick one?

If it's bothering you, perhaps talk to him about it? I know when we go out I always like seeing my friends have success with girls. But then again I wouldn't like coming home empty handed night after night either.

Besides family, true friendship is the strongest bond there is. Don't let females tarnish that.

Post: #5

I do fine with guys who look better than me.

What is relevant is that the guy I am with has Game - some have such anti-Game that it's better to go solo.

It may be in your head or there is another dynamic going on and this hinders you. I would not worry too much about it. Go out without him, unless you want to get to bottom of this and overcome the issue. I personally would not care - his Game and personality does not complement well with yours - this happens.

Seems like your buddy uses a very basic kind of Game that works for him, but I would not call him very Game aware - this can be problematic.