Post: #1

Not having a gf or fuck buddy, my source for sex are ons atm. I have praticed nofap, but that just leaves me with a bad temper.
These days I jerk off about 2-3 times per week.
Problem is that jerking off is nothing like fucking a girl. You are moving your hand back and forth, not thrusting inside a vagina. This leaves me a bit off when I do fuck a girl, because the sensation and pratice is so much diffrent from jerking off, and I sometimes have to work really hard to cum because of it.
I've been thinking about getting a fleshlight to keep my movements in check, since that way I'll be using the same muscles as if I was having sex.
Any thoughts?

Post: #2

fleshlite is jrking off. jk. srlsly.

Post: #3

Edge yourself.
Jerk off but do not cum.
Its the best of both worlds if you aren't having the amount of sex you want.

Post: #4

Wtf lol rotfl lmao..

Post: #5

Pretend it's real and get the best of both worlds. Buy a card board cut out of your favorite porn star/celebrity. Fuck the flesh light pull it out beat off and give the cut out a facial.

Post: #6

There's a solution: talk dirty to yourself while jerking off.

Post: #7

I prefer the stranger: sit on your left hand until it becomes numb and you can't feel it, then rub one out.

Post: #8

PM me your address and I'll mail you mine so you can try before you buy.

Aloha!

Post: #9

You are jerking off with a vice grip. Learn to jerk off normally or you'll kill the nerves in your dick.

Don't tell you me can't find a nice 6 to bang on the regular. Find one and stop jerking altogether.

Post: #10

Dead men tell no tales. Neither do sheep.

Look for job openings at mortuarys or slaughterhouses.

Thank me later, and don't forget to do a datasheet.

Post: #11

(09-17-2017 11:28 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  Dead men tell no tales. Neither do sheep.

Look for job openings at mortuarys or slaughterhouses.

Thank me later, and don't forget to do a datasheet.

Wow. That's a poem. Good job.

Aloha!

Post: #12

(09-17-2017 05:09 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  This leaves me a bit off when I do fuck a girl, because the sensation and pratice is so much diffrent from jerking off, and I sometimes have to work really hard to cum because of it.

I don't understand why that is problem. Don't you like hammering chicks?

Post: #13

(09-18-2017 12:30 AM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  

(09-17-2017 05:09 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  This leaves me a bit off when I do fuck a girl, because the sensation and pratice is so much diffrent from jerking off, and I sometimes have to work really hard to cum because of it.

I don't understand why that is problem. Don't you like hammering chicks?

A death grip and constant jacking off desensitize you and condition your body to come from jerking off and not having sex with a girl.

Combined with porn and you pretty much have damn near self-induced ED.

G

Post: #14

(09-18-2017 01:16 AM)Geomann180 Wrote:  

(09-18-2017 12:30 AM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  

(09-17-2017 05:09 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  This leaves me a bit off when I do fuck a girl, because the sensation and pratice is so much diffrent from jerking off, and I sometimes have to work really hard to cum because of it.

I don't understand why that is problem. Don't you like hammering chicks?

A death grip and constant jacking off desensitize you and condition your body to come from jerking off and not having sex with a girl.

Combined with porn and you pretty much have damn near self-induced ED.

G

Oh...

I understand OP's problem now.

I guess the fleshlight is the lesser of the two evils in this instance.

Post: #15

(09-17-2017 05:09 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  Not having a gf or fuck buddy, my source for sex are ons atm. I have praticed nofap, but that just leaves me with a bad temper.
These days I jerk off about 2-3 times per week.
Problem is that jerking off is nothing like fucking a girl. You are moving your hand back and forth, not thrusting inside a vagina. This leaves me a bit off when I do fuck a girl, because the sensation and pratice is so much diffrent from jerking off, and I sometimes have to work really hard to cum because of it.
I've been thinking about getting a fleshlight to keep my movements in check, since that way I'll be using the same muscles as if I was having sex.
Any thoughts?

And the winner is /thread-12879.html

Post: #16

Yes, fleshlight is more forgiving and will not get you deathgrip even if you fap too much. If that was your case, I would recomend to cure your fap adiction first.


That being said, once you fap a healthy amount (a few days per week), fleslights are an amazing tool. Sex with real women definitely feels much better since I edge with a fleshlight (erection quality improved, more in touch with how my dick feels, and so on).

You can't compare it to edging with your hand, fleslight is x10000 times more effective. If you can afford it, I would say go for it, it was a game changer for me.

Post: #17

The world is full of double beds
And most delightful maidenheads,
Which being so, there's no excuse
For sodomy or self-abuse.

(Billoc)

Post: #18

(09-17-2017 09:20 PM)Suits Wrote:  There's a solution: talk dirty to yourself while jerking off.

Wow, knowing this is RVF approved is a relief. What about pinching your own nipples? Asking for a friend.

Post: #19

Don't slip a finger up your bum, that would be gay.

Post: #20

(09-17-2017 11:43 PM)Kona Wrote:  

(09-17-2017 11:28 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  Dead men tell no tales. Neither do sheep.

Look for job openings at mortuarys or slaughterhouses.

Thank me later, and don't forget to do a datasheet.

Wow. That's a poem. Good job.

Aloha!

Really more of a limerick, isn't it?

Post: #21

Post: #22

(09-18-2017 02:19 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  

(09-17-2017 09:20 PM)Suits Wrote:  There's a solution: talk dirty to yourself while jerking off.

Wow, knowing this is RVF approved is a relief. What about pinching your own nipples? Asking for a friend.

If you're not pinching your own nipples, you're doing it wrong.

Post: #23

(09-18-2017 05:57 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Don't slip a finger up your bum, that would be gay.

How are you supposed to get a finger in your bum if the fleshlight is already up there?







Shit, I think I've been using mine wrong.


.

Post: #24

The thing to remember about fleshlights, OP, is that they are like luxury vehicles. They say a sports car loses 20 to 30% of its value the moment you drive it off the lot for a first spin, and believe it or not, fleshlight depreciation is even more brutal. It makes no sense to buy new, especially if you don't have the cash to buy outright and have to finance. I'd recommend you look for a used fleshlight, preferably with no more than 1 or 2 previous owners, and for god's sake don't buy from a rental company! Rental fleshlights tend to have been used hard and, ah... put away wet.

Post: #25

It cannot be the first of the month already can it?