Post Reply 
Nothing to say when approaching
Author Message
sonderho Offline
Beta Orbiter
*

Posts: 82
Joined: Jan 2017
Reputation: 5
Post: #26
RE: Nothing to say when approaching
With daygame, if you always asking her for help in an indirect way as detailed in Roosh's Daybang you're going to put yourself in a position where you're talking about the task at hand. Pretend you're a salesman. Enjoy the process and be genuine/congruent about it. Once you run out of steam you can talk about the city, how easy/difficult it is to get help for what you've asked her about or something related. From experience if you've rambled a bit and asked her questions after 5-10 minutes you'll know whether she's interested in you/what you said instinctively. Either up your bait about yourself through experimentaiton to hook her into asking you questions, brainstorming beforehand, or move on to a girl that likes your look from the get go.

"What I had more than anyone else was drive. I was hungrier than anybody. I wanted it so badly it hurt."
- Arnold Schwarzenegger
10-20-2017 07:35 PM
Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
[-] The following 1 user Likes sonderho's post:
Built to Fade
captain_shane Offline
Alpha Male
****

Posts: 1,227
Joined: Mar 2015
Reputation: 12
Post: #27
RE: Nothing to say when approaching
(10-20-2017 07:24 PM)MKDAWUSS Wrote:  I struggle with this as well.

What am I supposed to do, ask how she's doing? She's doing fine. How do I know this? Because that's the standard response given to that question.
The weather? If we're outside we both know what the weather is. If we're inside, the window is right over there.
At an event? We both were there, we know what happened. Substitute tense as needed.


I'm a horrible conversationalist.

Because you're trying to impress her.

You can always think of something to say. A lot of men don't, because they're coming from a weak position and want something cool or impressive to say to the girl.

Switch it up and start coming from the mindset of self-amusement. Just say whats on your mind.
10-20-2017 07:39 PM
Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
[-] The following 1 user Likes captain_shane's post:
Built to Fade
redbeard Offline
True Player
*****
Gold Member

Posts: 2,811
Joined: Jan 2014
Reputation: 71
Post: #28
RE: Nothing to say when approaching
Lower the bar for how good what you have to say is.

Just say something. This video has helped me immensely...I've watched it at least 7 times.




1 Year NoFap Veteran --- No Days Off in Trump's America
10-21-2017 12:00 PM
Visit this user's website Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
[-] The following 3 users Like redbeard's post:
Cumlluminates, calidude, Built to Fade
Post Reply 


Possibly Related Threads...
Thread: Author Replies: Views: Last Post
  Approaching very Attractive women Sex Machine 25 2,815 04-17-2019 03:50 PM
Last Post: Trent W.
  Approaching: Eye contact or not? idane 13 1,724 12-18-2018 09:27 AM
Last Post: Heightcel
  Approaching when you barely speak the language NikoJC 9 1,771 04-28-2018 08:49 AM
Last Post: WomenLuvDeez

Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)

Contact Us | RooshV.com | Return to Top | Return to Content | Mobile Version | RSS Syndication