Post: #1

Fun guy: life of the party type of guy. can make her laugh and knows everybody

Intimidating guy: bad boy outlaw rebel type of guy that scares her a bit but intrigues her.

generally, which archetype do you think women are more sexually attracted to?

Post: #2

Depends on the girl.

Do you want a short girl with a petite frame and big titties, or a tall girl with long legs and a nice ass?

The better question is what archetype suits your personality more naturally. A lot will depend on your height, profession (i.e., do you have tattoos?), natural personality disposition, etc.

At 5'5, and as a lawyer, I would look retarded if I tried to dress up like an outlaw biker on the weekends talking about all the bar fights I'm in. I dress mostly "playboy" - nice clothes, docksiders, pastels, sweaters, scarves, etc. (alternatively, sometimes I dress a bit cowboy / construction worker depending on the type of stuff I'm doing).

However, one of my close friends is 6'3, a tattoo artist, and looks like a total intimidating badass in biker gear. He pulls some of the most unbelievable women.

It's all about amplifying what you have.

Post: #3

The law of the jungle doesn't care how many hilarious jokes you can crack.

Post: #4

Life of the party because that shows social power - and power/influence is probably more attractive to women.

Unless by fun guy you just mean a clown, but if a guy is the center of a social circle and everyone thinks hes the shit - then that will go way further than some dude dressed in leather.


If both don't have game, then the bad ass type would be better because that is visual attraction.

Post: #5

It's really not worth worrying about because you'll look foolish if you're a fake bad guy (ie even if it was better don't strive for it.) You have to live that life starting as a teen.

If it was a matter of a few tattoos then there wouldn't be so many tatted up obvious cucks homos and bitch boys.

Post: #6

Do what works for you.

When I first got into the game, I wanted to be that social butterfly or social chameleon who has a lot friends and can get hot girls. I used to go events almost every week, meeting a lot of people. My FB friend list added over hundred people each year. (2~4 years ago)

However, as I got older and realized that it's not for everybody, I adapted my own style of game of being aloof, nonchalant, blasé and little bit intimidating. (More recently last year and half)

It's like people are saying that they want to be entrepreneurs because that's how you get money and it's "cool" when they don't even think outside of think outside of the box, don't have thick skin, not interested in business and don't have the stubbornness of going from rejection after rejections. There are people who are just born to be B players and not A players. And there is nothing wrong with that...Sometimes being a B player in a huge company is better than trying to be a A player who fails miserably. Ex. FB investor in the early days who has net worth of several billions vs owning a small startup that fails.

Thus, self-awareness is crucial. It's one of the main key components of life.

Have your own style of game or way of interacting with other people that you feel congruent in and is effective to your life.

Post: #7

Fame game wins everytime.

Life of the party is fame. The bad boy guy will pull hot girls here and there but not have the abundance that that a "famous" promoter will have.

Post: #8

I will be the first to say that my game is weak. That being said I've had more success at fun guy game. Actually its probably how I pull most chicks. I've had girls also see me as an outlaw type or the mysterious guy. Don't forget to consider her perception.

Post: #9

There is more than one way to be intimidating. Don't let a stereotype wall you in.

On a second note, if you're not intimidating, don't try to be. It will likely appear very incongruent.

Post: #10

(01-09-2018 12:07 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Fame game wins everytime.

Life of the party is fame. The bad boy guy will pull hot girls here and there but not have the abundance that that a "famous" promoter will have.

Real fame game is not realistic for 99.999% of guys. I have no clue why people keep posting hypothetical about X actor.

To answer OP. Bad boy for sure in the west. The east will need to have mix of good and bad.

Post: #11

Looks. Money. Status.

Post: #12

Being a MAN.

Don't mean to sound so simple, but you'll have to define that for yourself.

A MAN is someone who is confident and has his shit together, financially and emotionally. Thus, your two options are only superficial descriptions of the core underneath.

If you're TRYING to be funny or intimidating, your CORE isn't manly and any hot girl will smell it. If you're just NATURALLY funny or intimidating, it will be authentic.

Authenticity isn't discussed much here on the forums but is key to actually having and maintaining relationships with hot girls as it's one thing to attract them and even bang them, but to keep them and have them fall in love with you, authenticity is key. Yes money, game and good looks help but if the girl is really hot enough, she'll have TONS of options and there will ALWAYS be someone who is richer, better looking, has tighter game on a particular night but it's that authentic connection you develop with the girl that will keep her around.

Note: It also depends if the girl has more of an S personality or M personality. If S, you really don't have a choice as she's the chooser so I've always had luck with M's as they EXPECT men to be the choosers but you've got to be that strong S man who leads, is confident and takes charge.

Good luck

Post: #13

Assuming everything else is equal.

Fun guy, of course. The fun guy is seen as uninhibited. Party at 3am on a Monday? The fun guy is down. Not confined by the rules of society.

Post: #14

Remember that the "com" part of rom com is there for a reason.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hum...he-bedroom

My opinion is that the stress relief of laughter has some similarities to sex. The problem is you don't want women to laugh at your expense nor do you want to make a joke about her looking fat in that dress. Humor that comes across as meanspirited or too self-deprecating.

Listening to music also has connections to sex, which is why being a musician is a bonus.

http://www.konbini.com/us/entertainment/...s-and-sex/

Post: #15

Being life of the party is shotgun game. Most women are into guys who can talk to people, have good social proof, and have a good time. Shows you're well liked, fun-loving, social, and callibrated.

Post: #16

(01-08-2018 07:03 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  Depends on the girl.

And very much on society as well. In western developed countries where girls (and people in general) feel safe 99% of the time, can walk around alone at night and have all of their basic needs met, the fun guy will do better on average.
In not so developed countries (especially the former eastern bloc and the Balkans which I am familiar with), it's still the badass huge dude that you don't wanna cross with that takes it (on average).

Post: #17

The funny one. I think that confidence is the key and that both can make them wet themselves at the same degree but the social one have all the girls looking lustfully at him and girls like to compete with each other.

Post: #18

(01-09-2018 01:28 AM)Putin Closes Wrote:  

(01-09-2018 12:07 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Fame game wins everytime.

Life of the party is fame. The bad boy guy will pull hot girls here and there but not have the abundance that that a "famous" promoter will have.

Real fame game is not realistic for 99.999% of guys. I have no clue why people keep posting hypothetical about X actor.

To answer OP. Bad boy for sure in the west. The east will need to have mix of good and bad.

Ok maybe mega hollywood level fame is not realistic, but on a "micro" level, fame game is very realistic for a lot of guys. There are different levels to this sh*t and there's no reason why guys shouldn't be enjoying the entry-levels of fame lol.

Post: #19

This question is poorly constructed because the options cancel one another.

What I mean is: you don't choose to become a tatted up criminal overnight; nor can you build your circle to become the life of the party from one day to the other. It's not as simple as dressing in a suit vs. flip flops.

Most likely those are profiles you develop over long periods of time and hundreds or thousands of choices.

Due to his choices, environment and character, a life of the party guy will hardly ever become the criminal; and vice-versa. Almost like "it" chooses you, not the other way around.

This type of speculation doesn't serve much purpose in real life.

The "archetype most women are attracted to" has elements of both. This is the guy women can't figure out and who kills it in the long term.

Post: #20

I find intimidation and mysterious works. However that's natural.

Post: #21

I'll have to ask Jon Bozzz

Post: #22

So, I read this question and ask myself... who gets laid more... Chris Brown or Jerry Seinfeld? Sure Kevin Hart gets laid, but I seriously doubt he can get laid like a gangsta rapper does. Dave Chapelle is good looking and funny... He can't get women like a dangerous man.

You don't have to dress like a stupid biker or have a bunch of tattoos to seem dangerous. Ted Bundy looked like a choir boy, but once he got sent to prison for rape and murder.... women would mail him nude photos and ask for sex. One woman even married him while in prison!

Women kind of get a picture in their minds what kind of dangerous man they want. Gangster Rappers are very popular because they mix this with financial affluence. I will tell you that the most intimidating scary men I know are in the US Army.

Post: #23

(01-12-2018 05:31 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  So, I read this question and ask myself... who gets laid more... Chris Brown or Jerry Seinfeld? Sure Kevin Hart gets laid, but I seriously doubt he can get laid like a gangsta rapper does. Dave Chapelle is good looking and funny... He can't get women like a dangerous man.

You don't have to dress like a stupid biker or have a bunch of tattoos to seem dangerous. Ted Bundy looked like a choir boy, but once he got sent to prison for rape and murder.... women would mail him nude photos and ask for sex. One woman even married him while in prison!

Women kind of get a picture in their minds what kind of dangerous man they want. Gangster Rappers are very popular because they mix this with financial affluence. I will tell you that the most intimidating scary men I know are in the US Army.

If you try to dress like a biker or get tattoos to look tough, then you just end up looking like these guys:




You can't fake it. REAL Dangerous works out well, but most women also want controlled dangerous: someone who can take care of shit and who can fuck the shit out of them without actually treating them like shit (fucked up chicks aside).