Post: #1

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/new...d=12063706

Fat chick gets banged out by athletic man and is shocked that he wants to keep it a secret.

The author:

Quote:Many years before I got together with my boyfriend, I had a sex thing with this guy that I thought was relationship-material.

He not only had an amazing body but a great personality as well. I was honest when I met him that I was looking for something more than just sex, and he led me to believe that was what he wanted, too.

Between having mind-blowing sex, we ordered home delivery, played video games, and watched movies — couple-y type things but without the label.

But when I tried to get him to go to a show or out to dinner with me, he refused. My frustration grew as the months went on, and one day I confronted him.

"Why don't we ever go anywhere?"

"We have everything we need here," he answered while simultaneously distracting me by caressing my shoulderblades.

"We actually don't," I said. "I'm hungry, let's check out that new Indian place around the corner."

"No! We might run into one of my buddies," he said moving his body further away from me. The underlining meaning was clear — he couldn't take the chance that someone he knew would see him with me.

He needed to keep our relationship on the down low so that no one would ever suspect that he enjoyed spending time with me … a fat woman.

He was super fit, so obviously that's the kind of woman that he wanted to be associated with, the kind he could be seen with at the Indian place.

When I realised that he was ashamed of being seen with me, I felt as if I had been punched in the stomach — a place where much of my pain already resided.

To him, I was f*ckable, but not datable, and he dumped me soon after that conversation.

He did me a favour by not continuing to lead me on. Otherwise, I might still be trying to prove to him that I was worth any sh*t he might have gotten from other people. If I was still his secret shame, I might not have met my boyfriend, so thanks, athletic-a**hole.

I had hoped that now, in this day and age of body positivity and acceptance, that men no longer need to hide their desires, and that being labelled as someone who likes fat women isn't the worst thing in the world.

But I was wrong.

Recently, Model and Fat Activist Tess Holliday posted on Instagram, "Y'all wanna have sex with a fat girl AND enjoy it … Y'all look at porn of fat women … BUT YALL DON'T WANNA DATE A Fat woman."


https://www.instagram.com/p/BfST_w9Bw5s/...e=ig_embed

With over 1100 comments, Tess's followers confirmed that the bigotry, misogyny, and fear of fat-shaming by association was still happening. Her words resonated with them, and they all shared the same truth.

It's just a sad fact: Many men who are sexually attracted to fat women are ashamed of it.

They're okay with banging a fat girl, but they don't want to hang out with her — someone might judge them for it. As fat women, we're forced to develop a thick skin because people already feel that it's their right to say anything to us. We're tough enough to handle it, but some men's egos are just too fragile, and they crumble.

It's one thing if you're not into fat women — everyone has their preferences and not every body type appeals to everyone. But if you find larger women hot and you want to have sex with them but don't want to be associated in public with them, then that's emotionally abusive.

If you're attracted to fat women but date thin women as a cover, that's just as screwed up as using people to fake your sexuality — it will hurt everyone involved. I knew a gay guy who hadn't come out to his family, so to keep his facade as a straight person, he'd date very conservative Christian women (Christian so that they wouldn't expect him to sleep with them). He didn't think he was doing anything wrong by dating them, but, in fact, he was using them and lying to himself.
Everyone should have the freedom to express their desires openly (as long as there's consent from both parties). If you modify your behaviour and wants to what you think will protect you from criticism and/or ridicule, then you need help, because that kind of self-loathing will only grow until it has destroyed you.

If a fat woman wants a purely sexual relationship, that's great, but it shouldn't be her only option. Some guys think that they're doing a fat woman a favour just by having sex with her — that we're beyond grateful for any attention whatsoever. Because we're fat, we're willing to do almost anything with anyone, and that there are no limits to what we'll do to please you.

The last paragraph shows a remarkable level of self awareness, and she seems to grudgingly admit that God put fat chicks on this Earth for a very specific purpose.

Post: #2

For some dudes, every hole's a goal

Post: #3

What was Matt Forney's article called? Fat girls don't deserve love or something like that ?

Post: #4

"being labelled as someone who likes fat women"

That's what she doesn't understand. He was using her as a low-effort easy lay but had little genuine attraction to her. So there is no "someone who likes fat women". It's someone who closes his eyes and pumps away thinking of a hotter woman.

Post: #5

No such thing as chubby chasing or justifying it with more cushion for the pushin'.
It's just a pump and dump and she would look better when the lights are off.
But it is simply a date where the intermediate process of courting is skipped right up to the fornication itself.
She has big ambitions I'll give her that.

Post: #6

No such thing as a "fat activist". WTF?

Lol.

Post: #7

The whole thing is funny also because its a choice to be fat. If she is unhappy with the treatment from men for being fat, just exercise and go on a diet. Obviously, I know women, especially fat women, expect men to just change their behavior and accept them for who they are, even if they deep down know that is not realistic.

Also, note the logic here: She is trying to shame men into feeling guilty for using fat women for sex, yet these men worry about the shame associated with being seen with fat women in public. I guess she doesn't understand which type of shame has more of a direct impact on the men.

Post: #8

Fat chicks don't understand normal men or at least men successful with women will automatically lose respect for a guy that is willing to be in a relationship with a heffer. Thus it will hurt the man on fronts other than just appearances. It'll likely reflect on his income, professional pursuits and social circle. If one of my employees introduced me to his fat girlfriend I'd likely be polite but it's unlikely I'll ever put him in a leadership role.

Post: #9

Fat chicks give new meaning to the phrase - "Do you even lift bro?".


As fit & athletic as I am for my age.
If I would have difficulty simply lifting a girl off her feet or holding her aloft for any extended period of time. It ain't happening.

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Post: #11

"Desperate men want sex with fat women, but don't want to date them"

Fixed it for you.

Post: #12

I'm sure we've all been guilty of banging a girl on the regular for the easy sexy who we wouldn't want to be seen with in public.
I had a plate for over a year who, while a skinny Asian girl rather than fatty, was still not attractive enough that l I'd want to be seen in public with but kept her around because she was would rock up to my house on command, we'd bang a couple of times and then she'd go home.

What fat girls do, and its typical of all girls, is apply their own values to guys. Girls will bang up but then date down, guys will bang down but date up. She thinks that because a guy will bang her then she is automatically girlfriend material because that is how she sees it, not realising that guys don't work the same way.

Post: #13

Quote:To him, I was f*ckable, but not datable, and he dumped me soon after that conversation

And she was still the one who was dumped

Post: #14

Yet another article about a woman in the bottom 40% of the SMP who shows a remarkable sense of entitlement to the exclusive sexual and social attentions of a man in the top 20%.

Meanwhile men at her level are swinging incel ropes over a timber beam in preparation for the Tyburn Jig.

Post: #15

I want sex with fat women.

I would (short-term) date them.

I would never have a family with one.

Unhealthy body, Unhealthy mind. Something you don't need in your life or your future (fat) kids.

Post: #16

Title: Men get sex from fat women, and won't date them.

Post: #17

Fat girls are like mopeds. They're fun to ride, but you wouldn't want to be seen with one.

Post: #18

Off topic, but I subtlely shake my head whenever I see a fat husband and wife with fat kids in tow.

Tantamount to child abuse in my book.

Even more off topic, Veterinarians are quick to suggest that your animal be put on a more healthy/restricted diet to lose weight if they notice it’s packing it on, but doctors don’t do the same with humans, presumably because of “feelings”. Shaming (within reason) is most definitely a tool for the greater good and should be used often.

Post: #19

No - her lesson from all of this is all wrong.

The men fucked her not because they were into fat chicks, but because the sexual market is destroyed and they were easy lays.

In EE/FSU/Asia those guys would not touch her except for some strange fat-fetishists.

That those fatties even get in-shape men for the bang is a disgrace.

Quote:Comment: To the men who are attracted to fat women, but won't date them

No one is attracted to this fat on a visceral level. That is proven beyond any measure of doubt - get your head out of the KFC bucket.

Post: #20

Funny how it's exactly the other way round with men.

A man would take a low SMV woman to just have a quick ONS, but he wouldn't take her as a wife.
A woman would take a low SMV man as a provider husband, but she wouldn't just have a quick ONS with him.

Post: #21

Anglo guys are disgusting. How can you stoop so low?

Post: #22

The point of the article seems to basically be "guys are attracted to fat women, they just can't admit it because of a social construct." Same old neo Marxist propaganda: fatties good, men bad. Big is beautiful, men who don't agree are "emotionally abusive" lol. And simple laws of nature are "just an evil social construct".

In reality guys only bang fat women because it's far easier, also known as "dumpster diving". Not because being a fattie is sexy to anyone. Fat women can't even safely have babies... you can hardly have lower SMV than being so fat that your doctor warns you not to get pregnant without losing weight first.

Post: #23

Reasons to bang fatties

Not everyone starts at the top..(especially in ol USA)

Sometimes you gotta take one for the team.

One time I tried that no beating off forum thing.....did not end well. Beating off saves lives.

Post: #24

It's not only the point, it's actually written in the article.

"It's just a sad fact: Many men who are sexually attracted to fat women are ashamed of it."

Everybody knows the truth. Even the author and the fat model whose Instagram post she referenced.

What is the solution?

Lose weight.

Post: #25

(06-03-2018 10:01 AM)N°6 Wrote:  Yet another article about a woman in the bottom 40% of the SMP who shows a remarkable sense of entitlement to the exclusive sexual and social attentions of a man in the top 20%.

Meanwhile men at her level are swinging incel ropes over a timber beam in preparation for the Tyburn Jig.

Stuff like this makes me have some sympathy for the incels.

They can correctly see that the game is pretty much rigged against a bottom tier guy. While (to quote trump) "disgusting animals" like her can have an athletic guy come round to bang her in between tubs of Haagen Daz.

But unfortunately for the incels, while they were smart enough to see the injustice in the marketplace, they weren't quite enough sharp enough to realise their response to the situation is pretty dumb and will only hurt themselves in the end.