Post: #1

"Hey this has been a nice conversation and you seem cool, do you want to come back to my place and fuck?" probably isn't going to cut it even if the girl sopping wet and DTF. Easiest work around is "I just got a bottle of my favorite wine(ect) we should pop it open and continue this conversation at my place" or same with Kush ect. But what if you don't drink or smoke?

I'm looking for creative ideas for a bounce home where "can I use your bathroom?" isn't a thirty minute drive away. So far I'm considering Yoga or some fancy Meditation ritual. Any ideas or methods?

Post: #2

Herbal tea collection. She can't say no about caffeine, since they're caffeine free. You can mention the teas while talking about travel.. especially travel around Asia.

Post: #3

(08-20-2018 12:30 AM)SexAddictMgtow Wrote:  "Hey this has been a nice conversation and you seem cool, do you want to come back to my place and fuck?" probably isn't going to cut it even if the girl sopping wet and DTF. Easiest work around is "I just got a bottle of my favorite wine(ect) we should pop it open and continue this conversation at my place" or same with Kush ect. But what if you don't drink or smoke?

I'm looking for creative ideas for a bounce home where "can I use your bathroom?" isn't a thirty minute drive away. So far I'm considering Yoga or some fancy Meditation ritual. Any ideas or methods?

In my experience, if you reach the end of the date and you have hit all the right notes along the way - some light touching at the first venue, then venue change, then building comfort/making out at the second venue - the girl already knows if she wants to go home with you or wait to have sex for another night. You don't need to be a salesman. Just offer her a plausibly deniable excuse to go home with you so she doesn't feel like a slut.

"Do you like wine? I have a good one at my place. Want to try some?" (Pretty sure I stole this from a Roosh book but it is my go-to, and the best one I've found for a same-night lay.)

"I'm thinking about unwinding a little bit on my balcony and listening to some music. I just found this great [bluegrass/techno/Disco Polo/whatever type of music you and she have both discussed liking already] band that I think you'd really like. Do you want to join me?"

"I'm not ready to say goodnight to you yet. How about one cup of tea at my place?" (or "one more drink" for those who have been out drinking).

Or just be direct: "Do you want to come home with me/Do you want to come back to mine?" (this worked for me last night - no need to mention sex)

Post: #4

Like everything real estate related. logistics are about...location location location. The ideal "bounce" is one where your place is a two minute or less walk away from the venue.

If she's down then any excuse will do as long as you dont trigger her ASD.

"Wanna meet my dog?" works even if you dont have one. If her buying temperature is up she wont care and she now knows for sure that you and she both know whats up

If she asks you just say "I thought I did" and smirk. Go straight caveman from there

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Post: #5

I don't have something specific to propose plus the guys have already given some good examples. But I wanted to share what I've just watched which relates to the topic. In one of his videos, Todd was describing how women will choose a low-risk move over a more exciting one most of the time.

So according to that, whatever you decide to say you should make sure to throw in some kind of indication that she can leave whenever she wants, it's no big deal and there are no expectations. It will most likely work better than overselling something.

Post: #6

I bought 15 different bottles of wine for $89 from a Wall Street Journal offer. I took a picture of a few the bottles. I tell girls, you should come over, I have a few bottles of wine I’ve been dying to try, we can try a few different ones. It sounds sophisticated, plausible deny ability. Texting them a picture creates thirst and makes it real. For younger girls, a fruity cocktail is better bait. Of course it’s your special recipe so you can’t just order it at any bar

Post: #7

I have had a lot of success venue changing to my place, even when it was inconveniently located. Things that have worked.

1. Get them familiar early. On a second date, I asked to meetup at my place. The girl was reluctant to come up to my apartment, so I came down. However, I forgot my water bottle, so I had to go up and get it, she was comfortable coming with me at that point since I was well dressed and it was clear we were not just going to my apartment. If a girl goes in your house at the beginning of a date, it's way less of a big deal later in the date.

2. Venue change multiple times. The more you change venues, the more comfortable a person gets with you. On that same date, we met at my place, then went to a park for a walk, then went to a wine bar, then went back to my place. On a different date, we met downtown, I drove to another town, went to a dinner, went to a bar, went to another bar, and then drove home-- my home was between the last destination and her home, so stopping there was easy. With many venue changes, it feels much safer.

3. Create a narrative. One date I talked about cooking with a girl a few times, it lead to a discussion of one of my favorite things to cook, we then went to a grocery store to get the ingredients for it. It was only natural that we would go to my house after to cook. Wine collections, instruments, or a show you are watching. Talk about them early in the date, naturally come back to them a few times, and then invite to the attraction at the end.

4. Just go there. Kind of ballsy, but if you start the date at your place, or end it at her place, don't even talk about it and just go in, leaving the door open for her, and not doing any sort of goodbye signal.

Post: #8

Yeah, venue change and then just walk her to your apt and ask her to come upstairs for XYZ:

wine, music, smokes, art, need her opinion on a new shirt you bought, netflix & chill, check out the view, etc.