Post: #51

What about bringing girls home when Uber/Taxi is the way to go after dark.

Usually I choose a place close to the action as home base so I can just walk girls from the bar/venue/coffee shop and do the "I want to show you .../ I forgot smth ..." blablabla routine you know ... But I've never done this really when you basically should take the Uber directly from the bar to your airbnb. How do you guys deal with this? I was actually trying to invite girls directly to my apt (via online gaming) and while this might work sometimes, some girls insist on meeting in a public place first. So either I have to build comfort there and make them come with me in the cab which kind of disturbs the deniability for them somehow as the element of surprise is just not right there anymore ("ooohhh right here is my apt"). Or you have to go out with them once and then invite them a 2nd time to your place directly. Any hands-on advice is greatly appreciated anyways!

Post: #52

(02-04-2019 11:42 AM)EmilErlenmeyer Wrote:  What about bringing girls home when Uber/Taxi is the way to go after dark.

Usually I choose a place close to the action as home base so I can just walk girls from the bar/venue/coffee shop and do the "I want to show you .../ I forgot smth ..." blablabla routine you know ... But I've never done this really when you basically should take the Uber directly from the bar to your airbnb. How do you guys deal with this? I was actually trying to invite girls directly to my apt (via online gaming) and while this might work sometimes, some girls insist on meeting in a public place first. So either I have to build comfort there and make them come with me in the cab which kind of disturbs the deniability for them somehow as the element of surprise is just not right there anymore ("ooohhh right here is my apt"). Or you have to go out with them once and then invite them a 2nd time to your place directly. Any hands-on advice is greatly appreciated anyways!

Dont overthink i would say.

2 things to keep in mind: For one its Africa so Sex is not that big of a deal, fun and free. And second - depends a bit on the girl, but - more often than not your appartment is an upgrade to where they stay in terms of comfort, amendities, location & safety.

So what i usually do is just say lets go / lets go home. Its clear where we will be going and its also clear what will happen. In fact this acutually never did not work. Sometimes I got LMR at the app, but with some sweet-talking and flirting physically it seems just too hard for them to resist.

Edit: if during daytime you just say: let me show you my appartment, we can hangout and have some drinks. Kenyans like if your direct and honest, being a man. Dont invent some complicated story / or lie. The worst you can do is promise them something they like, and then you cannot hold it.

As rarely used secret weapon I would apply some amateurish batchata / salsa moves lol

Post: #53

Thanks for the datasheet. Going to Kenya in March for a safari, but in April I'll be going to Nairobi for a kizomba festival and will spend a week extra or so and than a week near the coast. Excited!

Post: #54

I'm here now, too. And I can just support the following things (Caucasian, average to athletic but below 6 feet):
Tinder is blowing up and you're white bonus is pretty good. This is still Africa, so do not expect to much in terms of infrastructure and the general environment. I have travelled to several countries all over the world but I just would have expected a little bit more from one of the most developed countries around here though I think once you're here for some days you'll just get used to it.

@rideandsmile: looks like you are right in the end... I worry too much but it almost feels too easy though.

I got some numbers from tinder game and just randomly hit up some girls and asked what they were doing and since onewas free I wanted us to go out. She(!) proposed my place since it was only 4pm and she didnt want to go to a bar already. So I ubered her over, we had some drinks and she was pretty uneducated (saying she's a makeup artist; which made me think of hookers the first time). She also brought some weed so we smoked had some drinks and the combination was not a good mixture for me, so overall it got really awkward and I saw the bang literally not happen cause I was messing it up. She was also fairly shy so in some crude high attempt I went weirdo-cavemen and she started sucking me and we banged. But after that the weed gave me the complete paranoia. She was saying some stuff about not coming and how she just comes sometimes and then about food and all of it sounded like "you'll pay for this now". I truthfully told her I was not feeling well and kind of kicked her out (called her an uber) which now makes me feel like a real dick ... Because she never did not ask for any money in the end. Also she was talking about her family, boys and girls she had before and that's stuff you wouldn't hear in p4p (although I can't know). She even txted me later if "I thought it was so bad" and asked why she couldn't spend the night here which did not sound hooker like at all anymore plus once I sobered up certain flags like "which pro brings free weed to a client" came up so I now cleared my mind and I am sure this was just a normal (uneducated) girl which maybe hoped I'd take her out to dinner or the club afterwards.

However, now the real question: I have even more matches kinda like this, showing off the intention to meet fast and possibly directly in private which is almost too good to be true. Damn it always feels like there's a catch... but they just like fucking and white guys are so special over there or what's the case???
I think I'll now try to take everyone out first anyway because even if she was not a hooker it was overall damn strange and not fun oriented and then see if the vibe is better at least plus maybe say it's a one-time thing but that's fairly hard to convey before the sex in my opinion.

Second really annoying thing is the guard writing down everyone that's coming in- and out. Even checked the ID of the girl. Makes me feel really like I am being watched.

Post: #55

They like sex, they like white guys, they like money. No matter how much they like you they are not going to stop liking money. We want to keep all these things separated, but their minds don't work like that.

If you want to reduce your chance of running into a hooker, I would recommend using Tagged or Afro instead of Tinder. Then you can talk to them a bit first and get a sense of what they're after.

Post: #56

(02-15-2019 04:50 PM)EmilErlenmeyer Wrote:  Second really annoying thing is the guard writing down everyone that's coming in- and out. Even checked the ID of the girl. Makes me feel really like I am being watched.

This is possibly one of my most annoying experiences.

Sometimes the guards forget that this is an apartment and they can be a bit extra with the name taking.

I decided not to give a shit in the end but i didn't like it as I like to be discreet with my activities.

You should hit up brew bistro my man... decent talent there and some expats as well. Runs pretty much every night. Its mostly busy on tue-sat. I banged an expat Canadian who works for a charity from brew bistro. Her face was an average 5.5 but lower body was built like a 10! Google porn star ryan conner... thats how her lower body was built...Incredible ass that made the black guys in the club stare at her non stop. I dance next to her and pretend to bump into her, say sorry and ask her for her name. She was receptive and just complimented my accent and arms a few times. 10 mins in were dancing, and she turns around and puts her back to me... her ass is now pressing against my crotch.... ouch i got an instant boner lol... took her home and banged. Banged once more 2 days later. Ive also noticed that Indian stick in their own groups usually and don't mix with the blacks that much. There's some real decent local Kenyan talent as well and they love foreigners. I banged a 2nd girl there who loved my UK accent. Banged her 3 more times before I left... she was just too good to fuck once.

Another club that is as good as Brew is Alchemists and Jays kitchen and bar... been to both once on Thursday and Friday respectively and the talent was good. Got 1 bang and 1 failed (long story).

Post: #57

Was reading through the original datasheet and comparing it to my first experience of Nairobi just over a year ago (very similar) and when you posted later that you were back there, it made me laugh.... because I also went straight back there within 6 months of my first visit.

You totally hit home with sensible choices reducing the risks of contracting HIV i.e. Educated and Good Family background (which you can pick up through Tinder conversations) and obviously using protection.

Personally, I've stayed just at the top side of CBD (top of Moi Avenue on the Westlands side) and found it super convenient and actually, even though you're in it, you're just outside the super hustle and bustle of traffic. Any Ubers you order to Westlands side etc. don't need to go through the traffic. Also, lots of food options around there - close to a lot of halal restaurants for any Muslim travellers (although there is an abundance of halal places in Nairobi anyway).

I suppose accommodation wise, it possibly depends on what you're trying to achieve. I got a hotel both times (the same one) as I'd pipelined so many girls from my previous visit (and Tinder in the few days leading up to the second visit) that I was just trying to roll through as many of them as I could. On arrival, both times, I explained the receptionist(s) that there's a chance that I would be bringing girls back. If I brought them back at night could they ring me a 7am saying "guests are not allowed to stay" and if I brought them back in the day could they ring me after 2 hours saying the same thing. They duly obliged, which made it so easy and non-confrontational to get rid of chicks. I think when getting an apartment, it makes that release a bit more awkward as it's all on you and your excuses.

I would also get girls to meet me at my hotel and say "we will go from here" and I'd tell them the room number and to tell reception to call me when they were here. Once reception would call, I would tell reception to send them up and hang up. None of the girls ever said "no" because it's an awkward situation. Once at my room, I would literally sit them on a chair for 1 min while I finished up doing something/putting my shoes on and then say "let's go". We'd leave and usually it would just be to Java Coffee around the corner. When heading back, my hotel room is now no longer an unknown/dangerous place as they've been there, so when I'd suggest going back as i needed to charge my phone/do something, they'd be cool with it.

I think ^^ this last paragraph is only really needed for that educated/good family kind of girl. I met other types to who didn't need the whole shebang

Overall, I'd say that Kenyan chicks are some of the most fun chicks I've ever come across. You get a lot of dross in terms of looks, but also a lot of absolute smokeshows. I believe you said you are a light-skinned Ethiopian? I think in terms of being visibly foreign - it's just a magnet of intrigue and attraction.

Hmmm, I may just head back in a couple of months now that I've wrote this!Haha.

Post: #58

I'll be in Nairobi a few times over the next few weeks. PM me if interested in meeting up

Post: #59

(02-19-2019 09:19 AM)BacanT Wrote:  I'll be in Nairobi a few times over the next few weeks. PM me if interested in meeting up

When you planning on being there? I may be heading over in April.

Post: #60

I'm so keen to go Nairobi. Set up so many contacts (mostly female but met some solid local dudes) since I been there.

I'm torn between two weeks dar es salam/Nairobi split or two weeks Santa Domingo. Apprehensive at the latter due to no Spanish skills but it's a new experience.

Post: #61

(02-28-2019 03:52 PM)khalidkcl Wrote:  I'm so keen to go Nairobi. Set up so many contacts (mostly female but met some solid local dudes) since I been there.

I'm torn between two weeks dar es salam/Nairobi split or two weeks Santa Domingo. Apprehensive at the latter due to no Spanish skills but it's a new experience.

When you thinking of hitting Nairobi up? I just booked and will be there next month.

Post: #62

(01-17-2019 05:22 AM)RWIsrael Wrote:  

(01-17-2019 05:09 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  At least 21 killed as Kenya hotel siege is declared over

Quote:Nairobi, Kenya (CNN)Men armed with guns and explosives burst into a hotel complex in Nairobi, killing at least 21 people in an attack that lasted hours and ended Wednesday morning.

An American and a Briton were among the people killed when armed militants targeted the DusitD2 compound Tuesday, an upmarket cluster of shops and hotel facilities in the Kenyan capital.

"The security operation at Dusit complex is over, and all the terrorists eliminated," President Uhuru Kenyatta told reporters without giving details. He called the attackers terrorists.

More than 700 people were safely evacuated during the attack, he said.

Surveillance footage shows the moment one of the attackers self-detonated a suicide vest in the foyer of the hotel, leaving behind billowing smoke as people fled. Before the explosion, another man walked by, stared at the attacker and kept walking.

Shortly before Kenyatta declared the attack over, gunshots and explosions could still be heard at the scene.

Authorities recovered six more bodies from the scene late Wednesday, according to Inspector General of Police Joseph Boinett. That brought the death toll to 21.
Sixteen Kenyans, one Briton, one American and three unidentified people of African origin are among the dead, he said. Twenty-eight others have been hospitalized.
Jason Spindler, an American who survived the attacks on the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001, was among those killed in the attack. He was co-founder and managing director of I-DEV International, a firm advising on business strategy for emerging markets.

A British man is also among the dead, the UK high commissioner to Kenya said. Development organization Gatsby Africa identified him as Luke Potter, head of its forestry and tea portfolio.

I hope everyone here is safe.

Yeah the Brits are balls deep in Nairobi. Both in this incident and at the Westgate Mall attack in 2014 you could see armed SAS / Ex-SAS dudes killing terrorists and extracting people.

My cuz in law's ex wife's youngest sis worked here and was on duty-she came out unscathed apart from cuts on her ankle from squeezing herself into a storage compartment at great speed. Her boss,though was shot right in front of her as were 2 others in her office.
The SAS guy was actually a trainer at the Police General Service Unit Recce Coy,our main ATU who did all the ground work. Unlike the Frank Lowy owned Westgate false flag in 2013 this was a genuine terror attack.