Post: #1

So I'm at work in grocery store 7/10 girl with 2 others comes over
Her: can u recommend an American beer for us European girls?
Me: (laughs) I don't drink (I'm a minor)
Her: (laughs)

Then she left and about 5 min later I saw her come to get a last minute item while the other 2 we're at the checkout so I approach
Me: need help finding anything? (excuse to talk)
Her: no
Me: so where in Europe are you from?
Her:Estonia, do you know about it?
Me: heard of it, never been there
Me: so are you just visiting
Her: yes we are tourists
Me: how long are you here?
Her: until (some date, about a month), we've been here 4 days
Me: do you like it here?
Her: the people here are nice, I've been to Florida and they're rude there
Me: (pause for a few seconds, went blank) well good talking
Her: bye

Surprised she didn't try to end convo since the other 2 we're checking out. I bailed when I went blank.

Post: #2

Well she kinda talked to you mainly since you worked there really... so I don't actually think attraction was at play here. But still you could've done better by including some statement when you asked her if she needed help with anything. Asking many questions, especially back to back with little chit chat in between, is something a woman ABSOLUTELY Hate because she feels she's got to Give value to a stranger when that's not how Women work at all! No matter what kind of Game you Run... the one thing I find is true across the Board is the 90/10 Rule. You do 90%of the talking... and @ best she'll do to if she's into it!

Post: #3

That wasn't really an approach; without something like a number to build on it's more like a casual chat.
I would usually be reluctant to approach a woman at work but she's a tourist who'll be off before long.
Might have been good to capitalise on that.
Something like, "I'm B-Minus, by the way. Have you been to the Museum of Game (or whatever local landmark/place of interest you have locally)? You really have to see that while you're here.", and then use that as a reason to suggest meeting later on.

Post: #4

(09-29-2018 02:12 AM)B-Minus Wrote:  So I'm at work in grocery store 7/10 girl with 2 others comes over
Her: can u recommend an American beer for us European girls?
Me: (laughs) I don't drink (I'm a minor)
Her: (laughs)

Then she left and about 5 min later I saw her come to get a last minute item while the other 2 we're at the checkout so I approach
Me: need help finding anything? (excuse to talk)
Her: no
Me: so where in Europe are you from?
Her:Estonia, do you know about it?
Me: heard of it, never been there
Me: so are you just visiting
Her: yes we are tourists
Me: how long are you here?
Her: until (some date, about a month), we've been here 4 days
Me: do you like it here?
Her: the people here are nice, I've been to Florida and they're rude there
Me: (pause for a few seconds, went blank) well good talking
Her: bye

Surprised she didn't try to end convo since the other 2 we're checking out. I bailed when I went blank.

If you're interested in foreign women, you now have a great excuse to start learning more about the rest of the world. Fact is, many Americans are clueless, and couldn't point to Estonia on a map if their life depended on it. They probably don't even know that pretty much everyone in Estonia under 35 years of age speaks fluent English. Point is, you'll have more to talk in these situations when you acquire more knowledge. For example, Did you know Estonia has an American for a president for many years? Unfortunately, you might never meet another Estonian again.

Post: #5

Note to newbies: There is an approach thread you can post in. I appreciate you guys posting about an approach but you don't need to be starting a whole thread for just one approach.

You guys could also start your own approach thread for all your approaches. This instant gratification pattern is a bit annoying.

Here's a post I made in another similar newbie thread that is relatable:
/thread-70774...pid1860765

Basically you need to ramble better and avoid asking that many questions. Also be bold and say you should hang out and ask for the number.

Post: #6

You should have framed yourself as a validator by saying "You seem like a fun person. I like that." Then watch her reaction. If it's a positive reaction, then you can say "I can show you guys around. I know alot of cool places." That would be a good plausible deniability to see her again. Then number close.

Post: #7

(09-29-2018 02:12 AM)B-Minus Wrote:  So I'm at work in grocery store 7/10 girl with 2 others comes over
Her: can u recommend an American beer for us European girls?
Me: (laughs) I don't drink (I'm a minor) could definitely have done more here
Her: (laughs)

Then she left and about 5 min later I saw her come to get a last minute item while the other 2 we're at the checkout so I approach
Me: need help finding anything? (excuse to talk)
Her: no
Me: so where in Europe are you from? try, "you have an unusual look, im having trouble placing you... let me guess x or y (doubling your chances
Her:Estonia, do you know about it?
Me: heard of it, never been there heard of it, is it worth going? (make her validate)
Me: so are you just visiting
Her: yes we are tourists
Me: how long are you here?
Her: until (some date, about a month), we've been here 4 days
Me: do you like it here? well then you clearly need a local pro to show you around. otherwise you'll be like every other tourist with their selfie sticks not really having seen anything huh (subtly claiming you are the pro, but doesn't explicitly say hey I'll show you around)
Her: the people here are nice, I've been to Florida and they're rude there
Me: (pause for a few seconds, went blank) well good talking
Her: bye

could have followed up the pro line with: what's in it for me tho? are ya'll fun to hang out with? and so forth..


Surprised she didn't try to end convo since the other 2 we're checking out. I bailed when I went blank.

I just typed whatever came to mind just now so don't take as gospel key is being cocky, funny, easygoing, just a relaxed dude who they want to spend time with. I think once you talk to girls like this enough is just starts coming out all the time