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RE: 58% Of Women's "Likes" Go To the Top 10% Of Men On Online Dating
(03-20-2019 07:51 PM)Kid Twist Wrote: ^ This is what I was about to say, that is, one of the things. In a nutshell, because of biology, as everything is in life.
First, as for.petes.sake reiterates from Delta, supply and demand, something everyone can understand. But look deeper, we're at a moment in history where supply is high because for the time being, our ancient biological realities are shocked and men haven't been killed by animals, wars, plagues, invading tribes, intra-tribal battles or strife, etc.
High numbers of males isn't suitable for our evolved sex roles: The Stronger Sex rightly identifies that males (in the short term) particularly on a dry spell will drop several SMV points for an easy lay. That confuses uncontrolled sluts to think they are worth something, until it happens several times to them, and then it's too late. Please notice that this is contingent on a society NOT controlling its members, particularly women sexually since they are the gatekeepers. Theoretically a controlled sexual atmosphere can have closer to 50-50 ratios of men to women, though less men is still better for both long term.
What's more, men, being principled and activated by achievement, don't need as much outside stresses or pressures to get better. Getting better is the competitive drive in them because of what naturally comes from that (money, power, sex). Whereas women, without pressures, show a race to the bottom without pressures much more easily and significantly than males. Thus, we go full circle as to why few men in supply will activate women to stay fit, offering femininity and caretaking, and thus become worthwhile partners.
Throw technology in, on top of a surplus of men, and you get an exacerbation of the problems = minimal selection to be any better, AND validation from male orbiters, since so many subpar men are still around they'll do anything to get a sniff. Voila, there you have the 21st century "West".
Love this forum so much even though the media likes to criticize the manosphere. Always amazed how knowledgeable everyone is. Anyway you are 100 percent correct and I would like to add on the evolution aspect of your point. The probability of having a son or daughter is not an even 50/50 split but in reality it more like 50.1 to 49.9 split. This is because the Y chromosome is lighter than the X chromosome and the male chromosome will reach the egg faster. From an evolution stand point this worked out because men were more likely to die (due to all the causes you pointed out) so we are biologically needed to produce more male heirs in order for the success of our species. But we now are in a time were people aren't dying so the ratio is being skewed.
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GoingHAM20
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RE: 58% Of Women's "Likes" Go To the Top 10% Of Men On Online Dating
(01-06-2019 07:03 AM)Nefarias Wrote: (01-05-2019 11:06 PM)PharaohRa Wrote: 1) Who the hell uses dating apps these days? You have to be a fool to do so because you are just validating 6s as 9s. Just go out and day and/or night game. Yeah, rejection sucks (as Roosh's book Game will note) and everyone knows the feeling of it but you miss 100% of the shots you do not take.
So you are suggesting leaving online game but also preaching "you miss 100% of the shots you do not take". Even if you got only 1 match per year it's still better than not participating at all.
This is faulty thinking.
Look up the term “opportunity cost”. Even though 1 match is greater than 0 matches, those countless hours spent swiping on bots, transvestites, catfish, hookers, and decade old photos of women could’ve been spent gaming and connecting with women in real life, reading, lifting, traveling, developing your business, hanging out with friends, etc.
Sitting in your room swiping right is a terrible allocation of time, not to mention unbelievably antisocial.
A 4/10 receives well over 1,000 swipes per month on Tinder. An 8/10 gets approached 0 times per month while she’s out of the house during the day. It doesn’t take a brain surgeon to figure out where the ROI is here.
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RE: 58% Of Women's "Likes" Go To the Top 10% Of Men On Online Dating
(03-23-2019 01:48 PM)GoingHAM20 Wrote: (01-06-2019 07:03 AM)Nefarias Wrote: (01-05-2019 11:06 PM)PharaohRa Wrote: 1) Who the hell uses dating apps these days? You have to be a fool to do so because you are just validating 6s as 9s. Just go out and day and/or night game. Yeah, rejection sucks (as Roosh's book Game will note) and everyone knows the feeling of it but you miss 100% of the shots you do not take.
So you are suggesting leaving online game but also preaching "you miss 100% of the shots you do not take". Even if you got only 1 match per year it's still better than not participating at all.
This is faulty thinking.
Look up the term “opportunity cost”. Even though 1 match is greater than 0 matches, those countless hours spent swiping on bots, transvestites, catfish, hookers, and decade old photos of women could’ve been spent gaming and connecting with women in real life, reading, lifting, traveling, developing your business, hanging out with friends, etc.
Sitting in your room swiping right is a terrible allocation of time, not to mention unbelievably antisocial.
A 4/10 receives well over 1,000 swipes per month on Tinder. An 8/10 gets approached 0 times per month while she’s out of the house during the day. It doesn’t take a brain surgeon to figure out where the ROI is here.
You can autoswipe on google chrome (pc) with some extensions or any free autoclicker leaving the laptop unnatended. Then you start filtering from the matches you get.
(This post was last modified: 03-23-2019 01:52 PM by luigi.)
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