Post: #1

Evening gentlemen,

The title says all.

What life changing moment made you realize you're capable of game, scoring attractive women, and essentially beginning your journey from a beta male to an alpha bulldog?

For me, it was a little over a year ago.

Before 2017 I had issues with depression, social anxiety, and getting women. I had a "creepy" factor due to terrible game I spat when I lived in Denver, CO. I'd get lucky here and there, but those successes were generally once or twice a year. Even then, I got lucky with 4-5s fatties.

Then, while I was working at my father's clinic, I managed to start a conversation with a 7.5-8 cute latina girl. Shoulder length hair, beautiful eyes and cute face. She was incredibly receptive to me and laughed at all my negging and jokes I picked up from other dudes at clubs and bars.

When I got the courage to get her number... she gave it to me. We texted back and forth, and we eventually met up for drinks. Unfortunately, it didn't go anywhere, but that defining moment made me realize I wasn't ugly as my mind dreamt myself up to be, nor was I born terribly flawed that I couldn't get any women in my life.

That's when I started to learn game from PUAs like Roosh V, life coach John Sonmez, and to an extent, Mark Manson.

Ever since that defining moment, I've gotten numbers and dates with women in the 7-8 range and I've been growing ever since.

Post: #2

I believe you can get tips/update your game by lessons..that said - i would say you learn a hella lot more doing daygame / cold approaches and that's why your pull rating is going up
living in Denmark you always need game / thou a different one than described mostly here - so i was 13 yo.
in FSU country's i do the "Germanic" fake beta provider game and in western country's i do the daygame.
my life changing moment in game came in Ukraine 2014 and a month later in Venezuela -both places i had to adapt to local flavours to pull.
i pull 7's - 8-9 if they are 28+ and since i'm an old f ck myself - that's OK

Post: #3

In december of 2015 My ltr was going to break up me and I could see it coming. By then I was a blue pill and emasculated loser who had forgiven her after cheating on me.

I was in Medellin for holidays and after noticing the new app tinder sucked big time, and girls in my favorite city had changed I knew something was off so I came across with a website called http://www.girlschase.com. With the few tips I got from that website I went out to a club with my cousin and I had this kind of bad guy attitude that came natural to me as I was bitter for my gf at that time. Then I saw a cute 8 giving me IOIs. How would I be capable of approaching a hot lady? I didn't. I was too pussy still to cold approach. But in the men's restroom I was social with a guy as the club wasn't full and had some small talk, 15 minutes later as I was smoking outside the guy introduces me to the cute 8 in question and his group of friends that includes several hot girls. That was social circle game and I read about that in that website so that was like an eye-opening moment about game being something more than just looks and conversation. The girl and I danced very close and I was turned on as fuck but I didn't know lines or their proper translations to spanish. didn't know how to isolate and escalate so it didn't go anywhere.

After that when I came back to bogota I broke up with my dishonest girlfriend before she did and I started to practice game, got full into the teachings of roosh v, became a forum lurker and 5 months later a hot french lady is grinding on me on the club as she gives me a french kiss. 1 month later i'm getting a hand job by a brazilian on the dance floor of that same club. 1 month later I pull up a petite girl I liked a lot and I banged her raw in my shitty room at my parents house. When I banged that girl I created an account and made my first post on the +1 thread. I knew Game was for me. In these 3 years I've had more dates, make-outs and bangs that in the the other depressing 24 years of my life. Still, I've gone through severe economic, health and familiar crisis so I haven't had the chance to maximise my results to where I want. Still I will keep working to hopefully have the best late 20s and early 30s of my life in general, not only women. I want to keep banging, getting notches, and master a part of my life I was rejecting in my beta days,that I love women and I love to fuck them.

Cheers.

Post: #4

Quote:What life changing moment made you realize you're capable of game, scoring attractive women, and essentially beginning your journey from a beta male to an alpha bulldog?

Halloween 2015 - I think the first time where I had a real gameplan going in vs. some "game" bullshit

From there I basically did the same thing over and over and consistent effort led to consistent results

Actually wrote about that night on here:

/thread-1682-...pid1140410

Time flies!

Post: #5

After taking two ambien to go to sleep and having a woman I refused to fuck (due to me being in a relationship ) break into my house , rape me , and leave me laying on the floor beside a note that said “thanks “with a lipstick kiss.

I realized then that I wasn’t the average bear. I still see her around town here and there and she gives me a thumbs up and smiles.

Post: #6

I bet there's a lot of post divorce rape dudes here, who picked up the pieces after a life destroying raping in court, and had to take the red pill or a lead pill.

Shout out to all my brothers who got a second life this way.

Post: #7

Yes, after 18 years married.. I never thought I'd be single.. or single-ish, as I am about to file for divorce.

Wife started cheating then left for another guy.. I had to take on the family aspect of everything and now 4 years later.. have finally gotten to a point where things are truly good at home with me and the kids being comfy.. only thing missing is what my ex has been having.. and that's sex.

I signed up for Match and in a matter of couple days had this really hot babe hit me up and after a slow start and my pushing away cause of it.. she revved it up and only cause I was still only separated.. did she back away completely. Which I'm ok with.. I am on track to fix that.

but I know I need some better game.. haven't really dated in over 20 years.. with the exception of a chic back in 2016. I'm not afraid to talk to women at all, but I know my confidence isn't where it needs to be.. I am getting back into the gym more lately to help with that.

Being that I'm almost 48, not looking to play the field too too much per sey, but landing a hottie for ltr is definitely the goal.