Post: #1

It finally happened...

I met a girl in a retail store a few weeks back and through a stumbling conversation I managed to get her number. I didn't think it would go anywhere. She asked how old I was from the start and I told her I was 28. As she texted me for the first time she expressed some resistance to this as she was 18. I stopped for a moment and referred back to my RooshV Forum Education. I turned the tables and confidently told her that I knew she was too young for me but that I'd manage somehow. I joked about needing a hip replacement soon. It worked. She laughed and we set up a date.

Unfortunately, she didn't live nearby. She was 20 minutes away by car and an hour by public transit. She agreed to drive down and see me and within a week we were hanging out in the park together. Everything went great.

She's an 18-year-old college girl born in Iran but raised mostly in America. She was sweet and mature with a cute face and an amazing rack. I couldn't believe I managed to pull this. This was poised to be my greatest bang yet.

As we strolled through the park I decided to get a little physically aggressive. I put my arm around her as we walked, which I normally don't do. I made it a point to have her lay down next to me in the park and tried to keep the physical intimacy going. We had some good conversation throughout the date and for the first time I made it a point (again, thanks to my RooshV Education) to go for a kiss after the date ended. And were her lips soft....

I noticed a little resistance to the physical aspects in our date. I figured she was just a little nervous. This was definitely not a fast-moving girl and I wanted to show her that I respected that even though I wanted to get her naked more than anything I've wanted all year.

Just this week I began probing for another date. Both of our schedules conflicted and she was busy with school, but I figured that our date went so well that I was bound to get something soon. I texted this morning to see when she was available this week. The response came several hours later:

"This week I'm working and prepping for a final. So..I was thinking and I think you're too old for me. I'm not too comfortable with the 10 year age difference."

My jaw dropped and my heart sunk. There was no way that I lost this that quickly. I WAS IN, DAMN IT! I've gotten comments and cold shoulders based on my age, but this is the first time a girl has ever explicitly told me that I was too old to date her.

My first reaction was to just let the whole thing go, but I knew that fighting resistance often pays off. My RooshV Education has been paying off so far but now I need a new tool for my box. What's the best way to approach this? Or is all lost?

I've been thinking to respond with something like: "Yeah, I don't think your dad would like you dating such an old dude." I figure associating her fears with someone she's likely rebelling against would work in my favor. I know I have to be very careful here or I'll legitimize her fear of me. I think part of her resistance is also coming from the distance she'd have to travel to see me. I was thinking it would be best to make an effort to go and see her so she has one less thing to worry about. Thoughts?

Post: #2

"I texted this morning to see when she was available this week."

Do. Not. Set. Up. Meetings. With. Text. Messages.

Business and Girls: Phone Game VS Text Game

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2011/08/bus...-game.html

Post: #3

18 y.o. chix act like this.

Post: #4

Always lie about your age. Would have told her I was 23-24 if I knew she was 18.

Texting doesn't help score dates, but I don't think it cost you a bang.

I think you should have done something more exciting w/her, like horseback riding or indoor rockclimbing.

Post: #5

In reality, I think she probably flirted with a ton of guys since his date. Was checked out by some more. Thought some of them were cute. Being the typical young chick, her head scattered.

Also, laying down that kind of money on an 18 y.o. is a waste really. Unless it's something *he* really wanted to do.

Post: #6

Rock climbing = 24 bux a person.
Horseback riding = 20 bux a person

20 bucks for a date isn't a lot of money. Even if you pay its only 40-50 bux, but if you're hard up just split the bill.

Post: #7

Why are you telling the truth about your age?

"How old are you?"
"How old do I look?"

If you're in shape, have good style, they'll also put you at 5 yeras younger.

Post: #8

My M. O. is to flip the script upon meeting them and jokingly say "well, you're too old for me." That usually gets a qualifier back like " well, age is just a number" or "well, I like older men." Once the hamster has made the leap of rationalization, you're good, since her hamster is doing your persuasion work for you. I swooped two girls that were twenty plus years younger than me this summer using that approach. Still banging one and the other just sent a re-start text and I'll be seeing her Friday. Yum.

Post: #9

I'm with the other guys, if you are looking for younger girls you can lie. If I dress young I can pass for 23-25, but I'm as old as you. I get checked out by college girls and jail bait all the time. A lot of it is how you dress and carry yourself. I know a guy who is 38 but acts and dresses like he's in his 20s and well people think he's in his 20s. I wore a tie dye shirt to get a haircut last summer and a lady asked me if I was on summer vacation. If you can pass for younger(and style is a big part of it) go for it.

Post: #10

(10-18-2011 10:45 PM)CupCake Wrote:  I met a girl in a retail store a few weeks back and through a stumbling conversation I managed to get her number. I didn't think it would go anywhere. She asked how old I was from the start and I told her I was 28.

When a girl asks from the start how old you are it is not a question, it is a shit test. Process accordingly.

Post: #11

(10-18-2011 10:45 PM)CupCake Wrote:  As we strolled through the park I decided to get a little physically aggressive. I put my arm around her as we walked, which I normally don't do. I made it a point to have her lay down next to me in the park and tried to keep the physical intimacy going. We had some good conversation throughout the date and for the first time I made it a point (again, thanks to my RooshV Education) to go for a kiss after the date ended. And were her lips soft....

I noticed a little resistance to the physical aspects in our date. I figured she was just a little nervous. This was definitely not a fast-moving girl and I wanted to show her that I respected that even though I wanted to get her naked more than anything I've wanted all year.

well this sounds like you actually moved too slow with her IMO. i know it's good to be considerate and all that but unless the girl really stops you physically you don't go hard enough. i prefer much more to come across as too hard and tone it down later when she objects than to play to not lose and prolong it. truth is you never know where the line is unless you don't cross it. and that's basically ALL I WANT to know.. where is her line (what she considers "too fast"). cause i remember situations when i expected resistance escalating faster and girl didn't resist at all.. i thought "oops i better go harder with this one"

(10-18-2011 10:45 PM)CupCake Wrote:  Just this week I began probing for another date. Both of our schedules conflicted and she was busy with school, but I figured that our date went so well that I was bound to get something soon. I texted this morning to see when she was available this week. The response came several hours later:

"This week I'm working and prepping for a final. So..I was thinking and I think you're too old for me. I'm not too comfortable with the 10 year age difference."

My jaw dropped and my heart sunk. There was no way that I lost this that quickly. I WAS IN, DAMN IT! I've gotten comments and cold shoulders based on my age, but this is the first time a girl has ever explicitly told me that I was too old to date her.

My first reaction was to just let the whole thing go, but I knew that fighting resistance often pays off. My RooshV Education has been paying off so far but now I need a new tool for my box. What's the best way to approach this? Or is all lost?

oh man.. you gotta understand this. a girl DOESN'T GIVE A FUCK about all shit like age, hair/skin color, being in shape, career choice etc. she only wants a guy who's ON TOP OF HIS SHIT. an awesome badass who's stronger than any of her shittest and her bullshit she throws at him. she only cares if YOU care. meaning that if you give a 1% of a fuck about your age as an issue then she's gonna feel that weakness about you and will blow you out. even hiding behind some cute cocky funny lines is lame as it shows that you actually give a quite large of a fuck about this thing and just want to save face.

no joke.. i had one girl really into me things were moving fast and suddenly she goes cold and becomes total pain in the ass pointing out my little belly i had then and making fun of it and watching how would i react. just another shittest. i knew it didn't matter to her that i was not in the best shape at the time but she only wanted to know how it affects me. i knew that. so i fucking stood up stepped up to her hard like in her face and with no smile i started with "huh? yeah? you really want to touch it huh? i know that you want it.. here let me help you [took her hand put it on my stomach].. how does it feel? it's so soft huh? you want to see it.. ok here check it out now [lift my tshirt put her hand on it] touch it now.. you like it huh? you getting horny you little pervert.. you don't like it? that's bullshit you know.. it's special belly.. you have to touch it and make a wish and it will come true.." etc etc. she was objecting first of course but my frame was so untouchable that she let go and felt like a stupid little girl dominated by some kind of force of nature. just because i held my frame in front of her without flinching at all and didn't give a fuck about the actual trait and her bullshit. so after that she knew that was stronger than any other guy and she was like "ok i was only joking babe" and started escalating on me... fade to black

so in your case it's best just to show how ridiculous that "age thing" is like.. "what the fuck it has to do with us?" and just cut off the thread.

there is cool video of pornstar who talks about what guy she want to date and what guy she want to fuck and the differences btween those 2 types. check it out




and the same thing about sex. when she feels some kind of awkwardness, inhibition or hesitation in bed.. boom! it 's not gonna fly. cause girls always looking for confidence/security in the guy. so if the guy is not like that then she withdraws. this is why you gotta make the choice to be this strong icy badass cause that's what it takes to get hot girl. after all they just want to be taken

Post: #12

(10-18-2011 10:45 PM)CupCake Wrote:  It finally happened...

I didn't think it would go anywhere. She asked how old I was from the start and I told her I was 28..

Unfortunately, she didn't live nearby. She was 20 minutes away by car and an hour by public transit.

She's an 18-year-old college girl born in Iran but raised mostly in America. She was sweet and mature with a cute face and an amazing rack. I couldn't believe I managed to pull this.

As we strolled through the park I decided to get a little physically aggressive. I put my arm around her as we walked, which I normally don't do.

I noticed a little resistance to the physical aspects in our date. I figured she was just a little nervous. This was definitely not a fast-moving girl and I wanted to show her that I respected that even though I wanted to get her naked more than anything I've wanted all year.



"This week I'm working and prepping for a final. So..I was thinking and I think you're too old for me. I'm not too comfortable with the 10 year age difference."

CupCake, CupCake,

All of the other posters have given you excellent advice, but I shall dissect just a bit more, young-blood.

Look at the first statement: "I didn't think it would go anywhere; she asked how old I was". You instincts were already on alert , Cup.

2nd statement, : "unfortunately , she didn't live nearby;20 min. by car, an hour by transit". Is transport is a problem for you? Was it for her? As young as she is, how much initiative do you think she really had, to come "see you"?

3rd statement: " She's an 18 year old girl born in Iran , but raised mostly in America". Had you done a little homework, Persians, in general, are not one night stands, or whores with an agenda. Family is everything. Approval is everything.

4th statement: I decided to get a little physically aggressive, so i put my arms around her which is something I don't normally do". Did you think the Persian would enjoy that? Do you use the same tool for every job, or did your balls get the best of your brain?

5th statement: "I noticed a little resistance to the physical aspect in our date". "This was definitely not a fast-moving girl". "I wanted to get her naked more than anything I've wanted all year". Mmhmm, so you had your dick in your throat, torn between respect, and honoring your loins. We call this ,Self -inflicted torture.

Then the hammer drops: "I was thinking you're too old for me".

I submit to you that if you had vetted the young squab a bit more, you would've understood way in advance that this is not going to be easy. Persians, are not the lay down and fuck me type just because you took them to the park . That's the first erroneous assumption. Secondly, her family is more important than you, so, her reputation counts more so than any game you could throw at her. Thirdly, this girl is actually telling you ( per body language) that she wanted something sincere, she was looking ahead, but you were stuck in the present ( You're hot, I want to fuck you right now). It's not that you're too old, its that you're too old for where she is in life right now. Big difference. Will she fuck? Maybe she will, maybe she won't. Question is, do you want to put in the time?

Post: #13

(10-18-2011 10:45 PM)CupCake Wrote:  She's an 18-year-old college girl born in Iran but raised mostly in America. She was sweet and mature with a cute face and an amazing rack. I couldn't believe I managed to pull this. This was poised to be my greatest bang yet.

She is not having second thoughts because of the age difference. It's because you want her more than she wants you and you showed it. She sensed that you were out of your comfort zone for what ever reason. And that dating girls like her wasn't something you normally do.

I would say just totally ignore the age portion of her message. Don't respond to it, don't dwell on it. Just tell her that you will catch up with her next week or something.

Post: #14

I don't think it was your age. I think she just didn't like you. Why? I could have been a variety of different things. My guess is that she sensed some awkwardness/insecurity in you. Maybe she felt like you guys were just a bad fit. Maybe she is conservative and you came across as too aggressive for her taste.

It sounds like you were making her the center of your universe and being a little needy. You gotta hide that shit and play it cool.

Saying you are "too old" is just an easy for her to dismiss you. If she liked you, she would care about age.

Don't sweat it. You got a number, you got a date, but it didn't go any further. Learn from it and move on!

I think XXL sums it up nicely...

(10-19-2011 06:48 AM)XXL Wrote:  a girl DOESN'T GIVE A FUCK about all shit like age. She only wants a guy who's ON TOP OF HIS SHIT. an awesome badass who's stronger than any of her shit tests. She only cares if YOU care. Meaning that if you give a 1% of a fuck about your age as an issue then she's gonna feel that weakness about you and will blow you out.


when she feels some kind of awkwardness, inhibition or hesitation.. boom! It 's not gonna fly. Cause girls always looking for confidence/security in the guy. so if the guy is not like that then she withdraws. This is why you gotta make the choice to be this strong icy badass cause that's what it takes to get hot girl. after all they just want to be taken

Post: #15

I def agree with XXL on this one, although when you hear a girl say the words "I'm 18 years old" it has the potential to throw you off your a-game because you just want to bang her as quick as possible. It seems like 18 year olds need a little more coaxing IMO. The thing is their shit tests seem so much more genuine than a girl thats had some experience and gives you the feeling like she's just going through the motions when you get shit tested by her. You can almost see the shit test coming with a more experienced girl.

Post: #16

I have a weird fetish for Persian girls to the point that I basically only date them (They all have great boobs. Seriously.), and Pusscrook has it right. The resistance is cause she's a Persian girl; if she brought you around her family, she'd get disowned. Sluttery, for Persian girls, is like a death sentence. You're dead in the water, unfortunately.