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Does anyone here have a deep knowledge about girls from Germany? I meet some every now and then in the States and I got a number from one the other day. I notice they tend to be much more independent than most other girls. I've been there once, but just Frankfurt, which isn't really representative of the country itself. I'd be interested in any insights and experience one may have on girls from this particular country.

Thanks.

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Im reserving this post till I get home and can type with my fingers and not my thumbs. Im not an expert, but i think i can help you out.

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The stereotype of Germans is that the are reserved and boring. I find that most German girls fit that stereotype. In all my time travelling I can't remember ever seeing a hot German girl really fuck around in hostels, whereas I've seen tons of Brit, French, Dutch, Swedish, American, Aussie, and Canadian chicks act like mega sluts. I've seen some uglier German chicks hooking up but the ones who are better looking tend to act really reserved.

That said, while some Germans can be weird as fuck, most of them are pretty cool and dependable people. You don't really meet any who are super interesting, but on the flip side you don't meet many outlandish ones either. They usually always fall in the middle. And I don't think German girls travelling have that much attitude. In general I find Germans to be some of the best travellers in terms of how respectful they are. I think this is because of WWII and they don't want to act like a bunch of dicks since they know lots of people already resent Germany.

Oh and both German guys and girls sometimes have fetishes for darker skinned guys. Btw, I'm in Brazil right now and for some reason the last few weeks I've been in hostels with some really hot German girls.

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I won't pretend to be any expert on Germans, but I have had a couple of instructive experiences with German broads. A lot of Germans have this uber sophisticated, cosmopolitan, worldly persona that they take very seriously. I've heard that girls in certain parts of Germany can be very provincial and conservative, but if you meet one who is travelling or living abroad chances are she is not like that. This is especially the case with the young ones, who take themselves extra seriously. The best way to deal with it is some combination of carrot and stick. Feed her sense of her own worldliness, but smack her down anytime she shit tests. Demonstrate value by projecting your varied experiences and showing her that you're not the "average American" (whatever that phrase even means), but don't be afraid to patronize her a little bit when she gets to big on herself.

Here's a good example of what I mean. I hooked up with this 21 year-old German chick and then next time I saw her she was real cold towards me. It was like she wanted to make sure I knew that I had no claim on her. Of course, that's fine with me. About a week later I'm out with some folks shooting the shit and I get a text from her. This other dude in the group had texted her to tell her that we were all out and that I was lighting it up, life of the party style. So, she texts me to make sure that I wasn't spreading tales of our little rendezvous. As if! I texted her back immediately, reminding her that I have many more interesting things to talk about than a random night with her. She apologized right away and after that was pretty sweet towards me, well until the time she told me that my girlfriend was too good for me and I didn't deserve her. We all know what that's about, though.

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(12-21-2011 05:12 PM)nomadicdude Wrote:  The stereotype of Germans is that the are reserved and boring. I find that most German girls fit that stereotype. In all my time travelling I can't remember ever seeing a hot German girl really fuck around in hostels, whereas I've seen tons of Brit, French, Dutch, Swedish, American, Aussie, and Canadian chicks act like mega sluts. I've seen some uglier German chicks hooking up but the ones who are better looking tend to act really reserved.

This has been my exact impression. I rarely see German girls that are attractive and they almost always seem boring and reserved and not DTF.

(12-21-2011 05:12 PM)nomadicdude Wrote:  Oh and both German guys and girls sometimes have fetishes for darker skinned guys. Btw, I'm in Brazil right now and for some reason the last few weeks I've been in hostels with some really hot German girls.

I've noticed in Brazil that there's a big infatuation with German language and culture. I know in the south of Brazil, there's even entire towns with a predominant German ethnic makeup and character. Blumenau, in Santa Catarina state, is considered the best place to see Brazil's German imprint. But I've seen this infatuation all throughout the country, even among people in Rio.

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(12-21-2011 05:18 PM)j r Wrote:  I won't pretend to be any expert on Germans, but I have had a couple of instructive experiences with German broads. A lot of Germans have this uber sophisticated, cosmopolitan, worldly persona that they take very seriously. I've heard that girls in certain parts of Germany can be very provincial and conservative, but if you meet one who is travelling or living abroad chances are she is not like that. This is especially the case with the young ones, who take themselves extra seriously. The best way to deal with it is some combination of carrot and stick. Feed her sense of her own worldliness, but smack her down anytime she shit tests. Demonstrate value by projecting your varied experiences and showing her that you're not the "average American" (whatever that phrase even means), but don't be afraid to patronize her a little bit when she gets to big on herself.

Here's a good example of what I mean. I hooked up with this 21 year-old German chick and then next time I saw her she was real cold towards me. It was like she wanted to make sure I knew that I had no claim on her. Of course, that's fine with me. About a week later I'm out with some folks shooting the shit and I get a text from her. This other dude in the group had texted her to tell her that we were all out and that I was lighting it up, life of the party style. So, she texts me to make sure that I wasn't spreading tales of our little rendezvous. As if! I texted her back immediately, reminding her that I have many more interesting things to talk about than a random night with her. She apologized right away and after that was pretty sweet towards me, well until the time she told me that my girlfriend was too good for me and I didn't deserve her. We all know what that's about, though.

Wow. What a weird little bitch lol. Good advice, though. That's precisely what I had in mind and my initial analysis was pretty much what you've said. They seem to take themselves very seriously. This girl I'm talking to fashions herself as a "big traveler" and speaks a few languages. Does international dev work, etc. But she has a bit of energy and seems like she likes to have fun. I won't hesitate to lay down the Sean Connery when needed. Good looks.

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(12-21-2011 05:29 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

(12-21-2011 05:12 PM)nomadicdude Wrote:  The stereotype of Germans is that the are reserved and boring. I find that most German girls fit that stereotype. In all my time travelling I can't remember ever seeing a hot German girl really fuck around in hostels, whereas I've seen tons of Brit, French, Dutch, Swedish, American, Aussie, and Canadian chicks act like mega sluts. I've seen some uglier German chicks hooking up but the ones who are better looking tend to act really reserved.

This has been my exact impression. I rarely see German girls that are attractive and they almost always seem boring and reserved and not DTF.

(12-21-2011 05:12 PM)nomadicdude Wrote:  Oh and both German guys and girls sometimes have fetishes for darker skinned guys. Btw, I'm in Brazil right now and for some reason the last few weeks I've been in hostels with some really hot German girls.

I've noticed in Brazil that there's a big infatuation with German language and culture. I know in the south of Brazil, there's even entire towns with a predominant German ethnic makeup and character. Blumenau, in Santa Catarina state, is considered the best place to see Brazil's German imprint. But I've seen this infatuation all throughout the country, even among people in Rio.

I believe Germans first started immigrating to that part of Brazil in the 1820s. It's also a known destination for German war criminals when in hiding. Gisele Bundchen (Mrs. Tom Brady) is descended from German immigrants to Brazil (both parents are German), and she's from Horizontina in Rio Grande Do Sul, that was settled originally by Germans. She stated that the school she attended she had to take German from the 3rd grade on, though she's 6th generation Brazilian.

I also remember the controversy back in Germany when Boris Becker started dating Barbara Feltus (her dad is black, mom white), and eventually marrying and having two children with her in the 90s. Years ago I used to work with a guy that was station in Germany in the army, and he LOVED it there. I'm pipelining a chick in Frankfurt who used to be married to an African man, and I have a couple I'm working in Berlin too. One the site I'm working I've seen other German women looking for black servicemen ONLY. So I guess depending on where you are in Germany, there are women that like dark or black men.

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(12-21-2011 06:06 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(12-21-2011 05:29 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

(12-21-2011 05:12 PM)nomadicdude Wrote:  The stereotype of Germans is that the are reserved and boring. I find that most German girls fit that stereotype. In all my time travelling I can't remember ever seeing a hot German girl really fuck around in hostels, whereas I've seen tons of Brit, French, Dutch, Swedish, American, Aussie, and Canadian chicks act like mega sluts. I've seen some uglier German chicks hooking up but the ones who are better looking tend to act really reserved.

This has been my exact impression. I rarely see German girls that are attractive and they almost always seem boring and reserved and not DTF.

(12-21-2011 05:12 PM)nomadicdude Wrote:  Oh and both German guys and girls sometimes have fetishes for darker skinned guys. Btw, I'm in Brazil right now and for some reason the last few weeks I've been in hostels with some really hot German girls.

I've noticed in Brazil that there's a big infatuation with German language and culture. I know in the south of Brazil, there's even entire towns with a predominant German ethnic makeup and character. Blumenau, in Santa Catarina state, is considered the best place to see Brazil's German imprint. But I've seen this infatuation all throughout the country, even among people in Rio.

I believe Germans first started immigrating to that part of Brazil in the 1820s. It's also a known destination for German war criminals when in hiding. Gisele Bundchen (Mrs. Tom Brady) is descended from German immigrants to Brazil (both parents are German), and she's from Horizontina in Rio Grande Do Sul, that was settled originally by Germans. She stated that the school she attended she had to take German from the 3rd grade on, though she's 6th generation Brazilian.

I also remember the controversy back in Germany when Boris Becker started dating Barbara Feltus (her dad is black, mom white), and eventually marrying and having two children with her in the 90s. Years ago I used to work with a guy that was station in Germany in the army, and he LOVED it there. I'm pipelining a chick in Frankfurt who used to be married to an African man, and I have a couple I'm working in Berlin too. One the site I'm working I've seen other German women looking for black servicemen ONLY. So I guess depending on where you are in Germany, there are women that like dark or black men.

Yeah. There's a massive US military base in Kaiserslautern just outside of Frankfurt. It's the largest presence of American soldiers outside of Afghanistan (Iraq is over). The chicks in that area love Americans and brothers do pretty well. I've actually met some who've never left and quite a few who have married Germans.

Hiedelberg is also another Germany city where American influence runs deep. Hip-hop music is huge over there. In fact, Germany is the largest foreign market for American hip-hop music, interestingly enough. I didn't make it there but I hear the local chicks are really into brothers, though probably of the type with a hip-hop kind of style.

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(12-21-2011 04:57 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  Does anyone here have a deep knowledge about girls from Germany? I meet some every now and then in the States and I got a number from one the other day. I notice they tend to be much more independent than most other girls. I've been there once, but just Frankfurt, which isn't really representative of the country itself. I'd be interested in any insights and experience one may have on girls from this particular country.

Thanks.

Hey man. Look up the poster "americanineurope". He's a brotha that has lived in Germany and was offering up some good insights. Do a search for his posts and you'll uncover lots of good stuff.

I've not been to Germany yet so my experience is limited to young Germans who travel abroad. I've found their personalities way too variable to really stereotype. Most have been pretty cool and outgoing and I haven't gotten the whole boring and ultra-reserved thing. The German women I've met have all been pretty sweet and friendly, despite the cold stereotype. But maybe those are the ones most likely to travel and the ones actually living there have a different temperament just as Americans who travel are a lot different from Americans who never travel.

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BTW. The cities Im speaking of are Berlin. Madgeburg, Frankfurt. Hamburg.
I havnt ventured to much out of Frankfurt when It comes to the more southern parts of germany. I do get the attitude that Southern germans are a little more chillaxed that northerners.

I think Ive seen a picture of you hear an there and you dress pretty sharp.
Alot of guys might see the more grungy looking girls or the less fancy ones...but I can tell you..They are just in the wrong place.
Dress sharp in any style and youre way ahead of german guys. They are either Plain looking no style..Hipster looking..Or try to Go for the Tapout wannabe ed hardy roid rage look.

I've been messing with a small time german model girl..once I officially settle in hamburg..the party scenes can look more like this







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*take notice of the guys style.. most of them can even dress nice for high class event.
** old rich dudes will try to pull chicks
***Clubs will have better girl guy ratios. and guys will mainly orbit the walls


-I forgot to add anything about Kino.
Germans Fuckin HATE being touched but will invade personal space like a muthafucker.
You have to be really careful in escalating a girl cause it ill dry up pussy like no other.
You might be sitting right next to her will and inch between legs or talking 6 inches from her face. but if you touch to early the whole game is reset.
For alot of girls the hold back and try again thing doesnt seems to work.
Even something as simple to putting your arm around her shoulder before the right moment might mean you need to just find another chick.

I get a lot of.."thats not how we do it here" comments. Which force me into my "remember Im new to this place" routine.
Hell I had a hard time just having chicks take my hand as an escort into a club or something. ( I think it might have to do with the whole. Im independent I can do it myself attitude)

I guess it can be compare to Roosh's Iceland adventure..She might be cold one minute but if you push the button at the right moment you either have gushing river vagina or dry lake bed.

Maybe Ill crack this later.
But I find the best thing to do is to continue to invade personal space.
Get real close and talk to her in the face, or dont give her any personal space. Haha. Pretty much use your body heat to warm her up.
And with the sexual openness of german girls. She will give you a small indicator..like a light touch or maybe even initiate a kiss.
It wont be a passionate one..but youll get the message and then its fair game.

Ive never had a german girl wait around so long that i get frustrated waiting for a better sign. So this works for me

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If you're any good with online game.
German sites are surprisingly filled with hotties that just dont get approached in the day time like the should and resort to being online.
Also compare to what older chicks look like in america..alot of older german chicks keep up there looks really well. I might start taking up some of there meet up offers if if girls 18-23 stopped biting
They also suck at playing hard to get.
Examples of chicks that have replied to me.


llast 2 are girls in their 40s...i dont know if im gonna dip into women twice my age yet

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I've gamed a few Bavarian girls on working holidays and vacations in Australia. They seemed pretty friendly, but maybe that's just because they were on holiday mode.

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Thanks for the info, fellas. The uber cosmopolitan, sophistication description fits very well with this chick. We were sending messages back and forth and she said my game doesn't work with real women and that if I'm a gentleman we can talk haha. That was just the reaction I was looking for. Of course, it worked because she reacted. She has no idea she's being gamed.

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(12-21-2011 10:59 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  Thanks for the info, fellas. The uber cosmopolitan, sophistication description fits very well with this chick. We were sending messages back and forth and she said my game doesn't work with real women and that if I'm a gentleman we can talk haha. That was just the reaction I was looking for. Of course, it worked because she reacted. She has no idea she's being gamed.

Funny. I just escalated on the Frankfurt chick tonight. We were messaging back and forth on Tagged, and I told her for Christmas I wanted her to post more pics (She only has 2 posted - in one, she's wearing shades, and the other is a torso pic without the head). She asked why, and I said, "beauty should be shared, if not with the world, then with ME." She thought that was funny, and said she would. We exchanged email addresses and chatted on Yahoo. From the pics she's posted, she looks like she's in nice shape, but I need to see more. I'll see if I can get her on cam next...

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(12-21-2011 11:08 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(12-21-2011 10:59 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  Thanks for the info, fellas. The uber cosmopolitan, sophistication description fits very well with this chick. We were sending messages back and forth and she said my game doesn't work with real women and that if I'm a gentleman we can talk haha. That was just the reaction I was looking for. Of course, it worked because she reacted. She has no idea she's being gamed.

Funny. I just escalated on the Frankfurt chick tonight. We were messaging back and forth on Tagged, and I told her for Christmas I wanted her to post more pics (She only has 2 posted - in one, she's wearing shades, and the other is a torso pic without the head). She asked why, and I said, "beauty should be shared, if not with the world, then with ME." She thought that was funny, and said she would. We exchanged email addresses and chatted on Yahoo. From the pics she's posted, she looks like she's in nice shape, but I need to see more. I'll see if I can get her on cam next...

Very smooth.

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I love german girls. You can get them to do real kinky stuff. I'll have to elaborate when I'm not on my droid.

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Be careful where you choose to search for the frauleins!!






But if you choose right you might encounter this....
Yah,yah Das ist gut!!

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(12-22-2011 01:15 AM)Vicious Wrote:  I love german girls. You can get them to do real kinky stuff. I'll have to elaborate when I'm not on my droid.

Go ahead Vicious

I've always heard that German girls were very, very freaky in bed.

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i meant to put this in my first post
I've only dealt with German girls in the 14-24 age range(minus one 32 year old)
And I think the stereotype of boring Germans has started to wear off with the younger girls.
Seems like MTV and even BET has hit well with them and they go out clubbing or bar hopping just like the rest of the party world.
Yes , they are more independent that other cultures and go more with the equal rights shit. Once you break the shell, which I've gradually found easier to do, on average they are open with what they want and wont beat around the bush.

In terms of gaming them. In 2 venues.

Night time/Bars/Club - For the most part German girls don't seem to go to get laid. Unless a guy was friends with the girl already. Germans will no approach a girl in bar or at nighttime whatsoever. He will nurse his beer and watch from afar or get smashed with his buddies.
Staring, for some reason is a big no no. If any party is caught looking to long both will look away. I find it easier to play the eye ping pong game a couple times before just leaving my stare up to see if shes interested. Otherwise a long stare, even a seductive like one will come off extremely awkward no matter if your German or foreign.
* I'm not much of a dancer so I can't comment on dance game, But from what I see. If you're *tall dark and handsome* and can dance. you've got a 1000 euro chip in your pocket.

There's a slight similarity between here and Iceland. In my opinion girls are much better looking that what alot of people say about Germans. The ones that you meet traveling along are obviously gonna be the nastier ones. The hot ones are gonna be up for backpacking around all the time. City/Club/Party environments are gonna be much better.






Day Game: Again guard is down during the daytime, girls around the world normally aren't bothers during the day. Like I said, German guys will almost never make an approach unless the two are already friends ( I guess friends are made through work,jobs,school in this country)
Lots of girls were actually offended if I stopped to talk to them. Direct approaches wont work. You gotta go super indirect.
No matter how many times Ive been to a place I claim I just moved here and am lost. Even then..women will tell you exactly what you asked about and try to walk away.
Small talk is almost unknown in the culture. But if you play a version of "elderly" game until you can get her to say something worth picking at. You might get a number out of it.
Ps. Girls play the same phone games.. alot of them use prepaid phones so you might have to invest and make the first call.


Getting them home- I never could straight invite a girl back to my house..once they are leaving the club, they are leaving to go home.
You can hang outside the bar at closing time, but its better to try to offer to go find a snack or something and then proceed to get her home.
Luckily, like Iceland..Germany is a relatively safe country. Not alot of crimes happen in comparison to American big cities. I felt 100% safe walking around at 2-3 am in Berlin than I do in my own home city(Atlanta)
If a girl wants to go home with you..She'll deliberate between what she has to do the next day and then decide...She'll cry up and down saying she's never went home with a guy( I might be dumb, but based on what I see from average German guy game..it could be true)
It seemed much easier to just convince the girl to let you crash at her place...she'll fuck even if she has roommates.


I don't play up the military things as I never visit cities with military presence. But the girls that I normally get dont have a problem with american or german military guys. its more like..the same attitude you have towards the manager of a store you dont work at. you say Meh..not my problem.

*&* Germans, men and women won't play you. For the most part they are honest. She'll tell you flat out if she's interested or not. And you'll take the blow to your ego cause she'll turn you down hard but still polite.
You can make quite a few fuck buddies by just being aggressive friends with girls as most German guys will wait a long time before even thinking about thinking about making a small move.

**You're neither but for the record to anyone else. Unless a girl is specifically into it. Indian/Arab/Turkish guys are looked down upon. Germany is having lots of programs with middle eastern workers rights/culture clash right now.
On Roosh's hand..He could probably play up a Latin look though
Mixx could slay chicks with his Latin dancing in any big city.
-provided good logistics


-sidestory- All the Germans I know pretty much are friends for life. If they take the time to talk to you to begin with you're set.
Ive had Guys that I haven't seen in 3 years. Let me spend the night an take me out even If I only met them once.
I ran into a Girl that did an exchange program at my school 3 years later.. they next day she had made a cake and had plans to take me out partying.
They wont smile and act nice for politeness sake. Hell..I cant even get smiles out of the people at registers. Thats why Germans have the rep of being cold hearted.


There is also a big niche for brothas all around Germany...It kinda annoys me that the chick I've been messing with like to listen to Waka Flocka and kids like Travis Porter..And I just happen to be from Atlanta. But German hip hop isnt that great..So even the smallest timed rappers in America could actually be popular over there..and chicks will love it.

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(12-22-2011 09:15 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  There is also a big niche for brothas all around Germany...

Now that's what I wanted to hear. Alright, I gotta make it out to Germany in 2012 and toss up some dirndls.

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(12-22-2011 07:58 AM)hunter7 Wrote:  Haha, do you know who is on that picture?

I had no idea, i figured he was a photographer or something also.
I just pulled a couple pictures out the album the girl ive been messing with was tagged in.

It doesnt seem to hard to game chicks at upclass events once you get in the door.
I just hit lucky and found a girl thats batshit crazy(thinks we'r married) that gets into parties like this

*Speakeasy
I dont think youll find to many of those girls outside of oktoberfest..or maybe some traditional german event like a schutzenfest

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