Post: #1

A while back, this chick at my job started showing me signs that she would be DTF. She would touch me a lot, ask personal questions, and do favors for me. She even told a co-worker(a friend of mine) that she liked me. I figured, i"ll just go in for the number and i'll have it set.

I was wrong.

I went in for the number and right from the start, her phone number was wrong. I had to switch around the last two digits to get an answer (itexted it). Here's what happened:
"
T.N: hey Bia, its T.N. text me your availability for next week so we can hangout. @ (5:35pm)
Bia: ok will do. @ (6:13pm)
"

This was all sent yesterday.I didn't text anything back. But i still haven't heard from her. She's a High-T girl, if that helps.

Is there anyway i could save this? This is so i won't get fucked over from the"ohhh,he got rejected" bullshit.

Post: #2

You are trying to get with a girl you work with, don't you know this is a big no-no. I guess you don't like your job so much, what happens when things go sour? I have lost a job this way and I am sure many others have as well.

Post: #3

I agree with Rude, do not fuck with the IRS and/or HR. Anyone else is fair game.

Mixx

Post: #4

This is the sound of you fucking yourself in the ass. Stop now.

Post: #5

agreed. this is playing with fire.

Post: #6

fuck it. i'll just take this as a loss.

i guess i learned my lesson here.

Post: #7

Dont shit where you eat son

Post: #8

As bullshit as I think it is that there are entire departments at most companies dedicated to policing their employees and ensuring that under no conditions are they allowed to act like people (HR), I'd leave this alone.

I mean if she's hot (that's the crucial factor here), I'm not saying if she texts you on the random on Friday night saying she's at the bar with her girls not to go, but don't push it any further on your end.

Post: #9

Quote:this chick at my job

I think a prudent lesson that should be learned by studying game is that if you are this concerned with one woman, you are probably exhibiting mannerisms or behaviors that will repel women in general. The key is not to be concerned with any one woman and to find the women who are attracted to you and devote your time and energy to pursuing them.

If a woman flakes or is not interested in you, do not take it personally, just go out and find some one who is. You most likely live in a city with hundreds, thousands, or possibly millions of other females, it shouldn't be hard to do so.

In your case, she gave you her number, which seems positive. But it may have been a wrong number, which seems negative. I would say you are neutral right now, if not for:

Quote: T.N: hey Bia, its T.N. text me your availability for next week so we can hangout.

In my opinion, you should have just went straight for the suggestion instead of asking her for her availability. I would have said something along the lines of "Hey, Bia, it's Farmageddon. I'm heading up to XYZ tomorrow around 1:23, you should join me."

I would have been direct because it already seems heading in the wrong direction because she gave you a wrong number, although she could have been nervous and it may have been an honest mistake (unlikely). My point is that when you are more direct it forces her to show her hand slightly more by either accepting or rejecting your offer and it makes it easier for you to gauge where you stand.

Just some thoughts, best of luck to you.