Post: #126

Tried to read that roissy article but it says that the author has deleted his WordPress. is there another way to get this information?

Post: #127

(06-21-2015 12:00 PM)DarianFrey Wrote:  How seriously do you take it when a girl tells you she's never squirted/had a vaginal orgasm during sex before? This chick told me it's never happened with anyone else, she's 22. I'm going to her city for a weekend in 2 weeks, obviously she wants more.

I dunno this one I "came" across is wrapped around my finger. She is up for anything and when I do it she says "first time i've done it". Granted she's only had a few partners before me, but it's like she's flowering in front of me. Lady in the streets and NOW a total hoe in the sheets.

Mind you she didn't act this way until that first v-o and the squirting.

She's literally down for ANYTHING now.

Post: #128

(06-21-2015 01:45 PM)ThrustMaster Wrote:  

(06-21-2015 12:00 PM)DarianFrey Wrote:  How seriously do you take it when a girl tells you she's never squirted/had a vaginal orgasm during sex before? This chick told me it's never happened with anyone else, she's 22. I'm going to her city for a weekend in 2 weeks, obviously she wants more.

I dunno this one I "came" across is wrapped around my finger. She is up for anything and when I do it she says "first time i've done it". Granted she's only had a few partners before me, but it's like she's flowering in front of me. Lady in the streets and NOW a total hoe in the sheets.

Mind you she didn't act this way until that first v-o and the squirting.

She's literally down for ANYTHING now.

Same, two chicks that I've introduced into the world of squirting turned into super freaks in the sheets. One went all "as much as I can fit in my pussy" crazy and wanted to be fisted all the time so I had to back out of that one, the other one...well she is and was still married and the squirting made her insane and reckless about the cheating. She was out looking for threesome girls when the affair got found out.

Post: #129

I just gave a girl her first squirting orgasm and actually the biggest one I've ever given anyone.

I managed also to give my ex gf her first sq orgasms and she was pretty up tight, had some really heave blockages.

The video with Stephan is grerat, but let's face it, not all of us has the time to massage her for an hour every day for a year, probably awesome but not gonna happen for me.

Also I see three things lacking, that at least has made it hell lot easier and even crucial for me.
One is making her horny as hell first. How to make her reach crazy levels of hornyness is an art itself but key point is not going to fast and using each arousal point gradually.

Second is dominance, the orgasm is a lot about letting go of mental blockages, when you want to make her go beyond that, sure maybe you can massage her for a year, or you just dominate the shit out of her, you tell her from the bottom of you gut (when she's horny as hell) that she's gonna do what you say, you grab her, yes you owe her, you make her totally give up to you, you push through her mental blockages with your dominance.

Third one is beeing close to her and body position, as prev said it's a lot about her letting go and you beeing in total controll of her and beeing close to her makes it easier, also keeping her legs wide spreads helps, I have my own special position, hard to explain but I'm forcing her legs spread while I'm very close to her.

So those three points has helped me alot.

Post: #130

(06-22-2015 02:46 AM)SvaMp_ Wrote:  I just gave a girl her first squirting orgasm and actually the biggest one I've ever given anyone.

I managed also to give my ex gf her first sq orgasms and she was pretty up tight, had some really heave blockages.

The video with Stephan is grerat, but let's face it, not all of us has the time to massage her for an hour every day for a year, probably awesome but not gonna happen for me.

Also I see three things lacking, that at least has made it hell lot easier and even crucial for me.
One is making her horny as hell first. How to make her reach crazy levels of hornyness is an art itself but key point is not going to fast and using each arousal point gradually.

Second is dominance, the orgasm is a lot about letting go of mental blockages, when you want to make her go beyond that, sure maybe you can massage her for a year, or you just dominate the shit out of her, you tell her from the bottom of you gut (when she's horny as hell) that she's gonna do what you say, you grab her, yes you owe her, you make her totally give up to you, you push through her mental blockages with your dominance.

Third one is beeing close to her and body position, as prev said it's a lot about her letting go and you beeing in total controll of her and beeing close to her makes it easier, also keeping her legs wide spreads helps, I have my own special position, hard to explain but I'm forcing her legs spread while I'm very close to her.

So those three points has helped me alot.

How long have you been seeing her? I wonder if the dominance aspect can be used during a ONS?

Post: #131

(06-22-2015 02:55 AM)Druber Wrote:  

(06-22-2015 02:46 AM)SvaMp_ Wrote:  I just gave a girl her first squirting orgasm and actually the biggest one I've ever given anyone.

I managed also to give my ex gf her first sq orgasms and she was pretty up tight, had some really heave blockages.

The video with Stephan is grerat, but let's face it, not all of us has the time to massage her for an hour every day for a year, probably awesome but not gonna happen for me.

Also I see three things lacking, that at least has made it hell lot easier and even crucial for me.
One is making her horny as hell first. How to make her reach crazy levels of hornyness is an art itself but key point is not going to fast and using each arousal point gradually.

Second is dominance, the orgasm is a lot about letting go of mental blockages, when you want to make her go beyond that, sure maybe you can massage her for a year, or you just dominate the shit out of her, you tell her from the bottom of you gut (when she's horny as hell) that she's gonna do what you say, you grab her, yes you owe her, you make her totally give up to you, you push through her mental blockages with your dominance.

Third one is beeing close to her and body position, as prev said it's a lot about her letting go and you beeing in total controll of her and beeing close to her makes it easier, also keeping her legs wide spreads helps, I have my own special position, hard to explain but I'm forcing her legs spread while I'm very close to her.

So those three points has helped me alot.

How long have you been seeing her? I wonder if the dominance aspect can be used during a ONS?

That's a good point, it takes a lot of connection, reliability, comfort for her to let go like that. My ex gf really took me a long time, this one we have seen each other for a while (first acouple of month ago, then a break, then now again) but I have her wrapped around my finger.
I believe they totally needs to trust you an ready to let go for you, in case they haven't trained them seleves or in generall are relaxed in that sense.
have gotten girls to come like that from ONS but they have already been initiated, also the dominance haven't at all been the same. I takes, at least for me, time to build that dominance in bed, it's a lot about trust.

Post: #132

Before I start my post I have to say: I hate talking about sex, past lovers and all that shit.

It turns me off and makes me imagine my girl getting banged by other men. I fucking hate it, and never bring up these conversations myself.

Maybe being here has warped my mind like that a little bit, but I think I've always felt this way. My girlfriend throughout high school and afterwards was a virgin, then the girl I saw from 18-21 was also a virgin. I think that has made me realise how a relationship should be, and it feels horrifically unnatural to me now that I pretty much only bang girls with high notch counts.

Everything we did was for the first time and I never had to wonder if she did this or that with someone else. We could talk about sex without me getting freaked out and wondering about her sexual past.

Anyway..

I've been fucking this girl for over two months now. Everytime I see her she wants it and is always horny, wet and submissive for me.
In this time, I've managed to do most of what I want with her without having to talk about anything, which works fine for me. I have banged her in the ass without having to talk about it, great.

However we have now had a couple of those dreaded sex conversations.

Anal came up, she mentioned she likes it but only if I don't fuck her in the pussy first (what the fuck? and how does she know this anyway? Rank :/) I'll try this sometime but I'm a bit disgusted by it.

Threesomes came up, I said I would be into it with another girl of course, of course I didn't ask her if she's had one before, she assumed I have had one before. lol not true.
She also mentioned jealousy issues can come into it so its difficult to find the right girl, shes not into girls but has had experiences with them before, all of this makes me think she has some experience with this unfortunately.

But the thing that is probably bothering me the most from these conversations, is that I found out she's a squirter.
She enjoys sex, but I don't think I make her come which I thought I might as well do something about that and started trying new things like making her squirt but she always pushes my fingers away if I venture inside her. She says that I do make her come but I don't really believe her.

It turns out she really doesn't want to squirt all over my bed and make a mess and have to sleep in it. I thought that's bullshit how bad could it be? It can't be like porn. I could just move her if that happens, and if it does happen it won't be THAT much.

I'm also pretty much disgusted by nothing. If I'm cool with fucking her ass and what might happen, or her on her period, I don't give a shit about that either. But she thinks squirting will be disgusting and 'doesn't like to' and completely fuck up my sheets and mattress. I find it weird that she doesn't want to come because of this.

After talking to her more it really seems that she really does squirt a lot and I believe her.
I still want to make her come hard. I love the feeling of power over a girls orgasm, and I have never made a girl squirt before. She said she's going to buy a plastic sheet or cover.

So I'm a little bit freaked out and bothered by all this for a few reasons:

1. I've seen a few videos but it looks far too simple to work, I'll try it and see what happens. If I'm doing it wrong she'll probably tell me, but some more advice on it would be appreciated.

2. I like to be dominant during sex and for it to seem spontaneous, it's difficult when you have to put a plastic sheet down, but at the same time I don't want her to just control things and be logical and stop during sex so she can go to the bathroom instead. I want the complete opposite of that. I might try tying her up and blindfolding her and then making her squirt to get around this.

3. But mainly what bothers me is that some other man has railed her and made her squirt a lot but she doesn't like to do it anymore. I don't like the thought of that. I want to completely fucking own her and do everything to her. I don't like knowing she's done that in the past with other men but not me.

Even if she is up for it with a plastic sheet, (I don't see why I can't just get her to come on my hard floor or move her when she starts) I still feel bothered by this past. Any advice here?

Sorry my mental problems are all over the place here, I'm still trying to clarify in my head what exactly my issue is and why I feel so uncomfortable about all this.

oh and 4. I've now typed the word squirt so many times I truly hate it, can anyone come up with a better word please?

Post: #133

1. If you're not planning on keeping her around for LTR and are only fucking her, don't worry about her history as long as she is healthy and meets the expectations you have set, such as not fucking someone behind your back. You don't own the pussy, you're just borrowing it for a while.

2. Have towels on hand, put them under her when you get frisky. Be dominant and go hard, but don't make that a goal. As a backup, expect to change your sheets. Hope you have a vinyl mattress protector.

3. Have fun.

4. I might be reading into it, but it doesn't sound like you're as satisfied railing sluts than having a good relationship.

Post: #134

(09-12-2016 05:14 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  snip

Do you see a future with this girl? Or do you want to be prepared for other squirters? Then get an incontinence mat:

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/nv...e_mess_we/

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001IN...01_details

They come in a variety of sizes, they're super absorbent and you can wash them over 200 times. You might not even have to wash it each time, it depends how odourless and how much she squirts.

I had mine imported from America, and brought it with me when I moved. My GF at the time was ultra thankful for the initiative and made squirting a much more relaxing experience because of how much assurance it gives.

Post: #135

Red Pill UK sounds like he needs to be tied down with one woman, not sure I would call that red pill..

Post: #136

Brian Shima has nothing to add to this conversation and would rather make a snarky, passive aggressive statement about me, not sure I would call that red pill..

There's always one person who has to make a passive-aggressive or even straight up hostile comment if I post an honest question or story about my life.

I don't know why you think I 'need' to be tied down with one woman. This shit is complicated and there are upsides and downsides to every path you decide to take with girls. If you think that one way is perfect, that's probably because you haven't experienced it yet.

Yeah I had a bunch of strange insecure thoughts running around my head yesterday, and they all came out in one long post. I'm sure other posters can relate to at least some of them however.

Today however I'm back to my usual self, none of it matters too much as this girl is just one girl and I'm over the uncomfortable feeling I had yesterday. However I appreciate the useful, practical advice on the subject from other posters, it will come in handy if/when I decide to try this.

Post: #137

I just thought this section of the forum was about Game and being a player..not worrying about some sluts old boyfriends..you are getting emotional because we struck a nerve..not every guy is made out to be a player , follow your soul brother..Or just fuck her better until she squirts.

Post: #138

Actually this thread title is pretty self explanatory and the only thing related to it that you've posted is: "Just fuck her better until she squirts".

Wow, thanks I'll give that a try, you must be experienced with this.

As for your little put down disguised as advice, I'm not taking it personally, I remember your posts in the Jamaican player race thread.

"I'm working on becoming an Alpha. Excuse my choice of words.. "
- Brian Shima

If you think being alpha is criticising others and bragging about being a player maybe being an alpha isn't for you. Follow your soul 'brother' and stop worrying about trying to be more alpha.

Post: #139

In all honesty, it sounds as if I have a better understanding of the word Alpha than you brother..I don't worry about girls old flings..

Post: #140

RedPillUK,

I love honest posts like that.

Post: #141

(09-13-2016 05:37 PM)Brian Shima Wrote:  In all honesty, it sounds as if I have a better understanding of the word Alpha than you brother..I don't worry about girls old flings..

You've kind of derailed the thread but I gotta step in here, because I'm not taking well to your attitude. I have a question for you:

Let's say you meet a woman. In her past she's given guys blowjobs, sex in public, dressed in sexy lingerie, went in multiple positions, I'm intentionally picking relatively tame acts here.

However with you, all she wants is missionary for 5-10 minutes. No lingerie. No Blowjobs. No sex in public. Hell she's not interested in doggy-style or laying on her side/stomach. Are you really gonna sit there and say that as a self-proclaimed "Alpha" you would find it perfectly acceptable?

Post: #142

(09-14-2016 12:01 AM)AntiMediocrity Wrote:  

(09-13-2016 05:37 PM)Brian Shima Wrote:  In all honesty, it sounds as if I have a better understanding of the word Alpha than you brother..I don't worry about girls old flings..

You've kind of derailed the thread but I gotta step in here, because I'm not taking well to your attitude. I have a question for you:

Let's say you meet a woman. In her past she's given guys blowjobs, sex in public, dressed in sexy lingerie, went in multiple positions, I'm intentionally picking relatively tame acts here.

However with you, all she wants is missionary for 5-10 minutes. No lingerie. No Blowjobs. No sex in public. Hell she's not interested in doggy-style or laying on her side/stomach. Are you really gonna sit there and say that as a self-proclaimed "Alpha" you would find it perfectly acceptable?

That's what we call...

Post: #143

(09-12-2016 05:14 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  Sorry my mental problems are all over the place here, I'm still trying to clarify in my head what exactly my issue is and why I feel so uncomfortable about all this.

Don't worry about the trolls. It takes balls to be that honest.

Sluts and 'experienced' women turn me off too; always have. I don't care how hot they are. Just because some other guy wants to bang them doesn't mean I have to.

Post: #144

Is this thread still about squirting orgasms? I've had a few squirters in my day, but this bang I had over the weekend in Oklahoma was by far the best. Shit was a flood. For some reason the hotel room I had booked was a 2-bed. Blessing in disguise. She soaked one bed, then we moved to the other one. Fucked on that one a couple times. The next morning she soaked that one and the other one was dry by then so we switched back. Good shit.

At this point I don't exactly know what kind of qualities a girl would exemplify that would make me want to keep her around and be in a serious committed relationship with her, but I will say sexperienced girls are a blast in bed. I'm down with them.

Post: #145

(09-12-2016 05:14 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  ...

It turns out she really doesn't want to squirt all over my bed and make a mess and have to sleep in it. I thought that's bullshit how bad could it be? It can't be like porn. I could just move her if that happens, and if it does happen it won't be THAT much.

I'm also pretty much disgusted by nothing. If I'm cool with fucking her ass and what might happen, or her on her period, I don't give a shit about that either. But she thinks squirting will be disgusting and 'doesn't like to' and completely fuck up my sheets and mattress. I find it weird that she doesn't want to come because of this.

...

Even if she is up for it with a plastic sheet, (I don't see why I can't just get her to come on my hard floor or move her when she starts) I still feel bothered by this past. Any advice here?

...

https://www.amazon.com/Healthcare-Flanne...000NWI4T4/

Put something like this over your mattress, and put your bedding over it. Have spare sheets handy for if she does make a mess. Or you could purchase incontinence bedding pads, but they are small so if she squirts any kind of distance, they will not offer protection.

Post: #146

@ Brian "I'm working on becoming alpha" Shima

""I think I have a better understanding of the word 'Alpha' than you brother".

Ah man this is still funny, an argument about who's more alpha. I love it. It's definitely something a real alpha would do. Are we going to start posting gym numbers, notch counts, and alpha stories to argue who's the most alpha? lol

@ Everyone else

That stuff all looks good but I'm in Mexico and the postal service is shit here. I'll have to find a shop to buy stuff like that somewhere else, which is also a challenge, I'm not in a huge city. Hmm, but that's the right idea.

The girl I'm talking about mentioned something about bringing sheets like this, but I will have to push her on that and it's lame having to do that to a girl. I'll mention it to her again and find out what she means, but I'm the man which means I'm the only reliable one and I have to make this happen.

My worries were gone by the next day, I've seen her since, the sex was incredible and I didn't think about this stuff while I was with her.
However I realise now that yeah, it's something that slightly bothers me because now that I know she can, it feels like she's not going all the way with me. Like that analogy about the girl who only does missionary. So it is now a goal of mine.

I've been trying out some of the techniques from these videos posted. Now she gets much more turned on when I'm playing with the outside of her pussy or going down on her.. but when I go inside with the middle one or two fingers and start trying to finger her g spot up and down, she doesn't like it. I've tried it a lot and I get either no reaction or she will try to stop me. I thought this technique seemed way too simple to work.

Any advice? Is there somewhere it is explained better? Maybe I'm doing it too early and she needs to be closer to orgasm before this? or maybe I'm doing it badly? Maybe she really is scared about letting go, maybe I don't realise how disgusting this really is? haha

So General Stalin you're saying she soaked the bed and it would have been pretty damn horrible to sleep in the same one?

Post: #147

(09-19-2016 04:22 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  @ Brian "I'm working on becoming alpha" Shima

""I think I have a better understanding of the word 'Alpha' than you brother".

Ah man this is still funny, an argument about who's more alpha. I love it. It's definitely something a real alpha would do. Are we going to start posting gym numbers, notch counts, and alpha stories to argue who's the most alpha? lol

@ Everyone else

That stuff all looks good but I'm in Mexico and the postal service is shit here. I'll have to find a shop to buy stuff like that somewhere else, which is also a challenge, I'm not in a huge city. Hmm, but that's the right idea.

The girl I'm talking about mentioned something about bringing sheets like this, but I will have to push her on that and it's lame having to do that to a girl. I'll mention it to her again and find out what she means, but I'm the man which means I'm the only reliable one and I have to make this happen.

My worries were gone by the next day, I've seen her since, the sex was incredible and I didn't think about this stuff while I was with her.
However I realise now that yeah, it's something that slightly bothers me because now that I know she can, it feels like she's not going all the way with me. Like that analogy about the girl who only does missionary. So it is now a goal of mine.

I've been trying out some of the techniques from these videos posted. Now she gets much more turned on when I'm playing with the outside of her pussy or going down on her.. but when I go inside with the middle one or two fingers and start trying to finger her g spot up and down, she doesn't like it. I've tried it a lot and I get either no reaction or she will try to stop me. I thought this technique seemed way too simple to work.

Any advice? Is there somewhere it is explained better? Maybe I'm doing it too early and she needs to be closer to orgasm before this? or maybe I'm doing it badly? Maybe she really is scared about letting go, maybe I don't realise how disgusting this really is? haha

So General Stalin you're saying she soaked the bed and it would have been pretty damn horrible to sleep in the same one?

I find some girls are self conscious about cumming, if that makes any sense lmao. I remember when i was with a French girl and she always wanted to finish me, but when i tried to get her to cum she said no, she didn't want to cum. I figured she just didn't know how, so I was playing with her pussy trying to get her there and at one point she grabbed my hand and moved it away. Kinda strange considering she was really submissive.

Also, it could be just because it feels like she's peeing when you stimulate the g-spot so maybe she just doesn't wanna give you a piss facial.

Post: #148

@RPUK

Yes. There was like square foot space in the middle of the bed that was soaked. Similar to when a child pisses the bed. Would you sleep in that?

I mean, if need be we could have put towels down to something, but either way I ain't sleeping in a wet bed if I can help it. I didn't cueck to see if it soaked through to the mattress but it's likely.

Post: #149

My novia is a serious squirter. The easiest way to protect my mattress is to put down a trash bag (on top of my sheets) and then a towel or blanket on top of that. This way I don't have to change my sheets each time, and my mattress isn't destroyed. (She's already utterly destroyed one and stained another). You can cut the sides of the trash bag to get more area coverage if needed. Just gotta keep her pussy within the designated areas. Sure the squirts can get out of bounds, but usually they bounce off me and then go into the blanket. What would normally go right through a blanket/towel is absorbed with the trash bag underneath.

Technique-wise, I agree with the posts that you have to really pay attention to her vagina (not necessarily her actions and what she tries to make you do). Very rarely have I made her squirt going balls deep. Usually it is just a few inches in, angled so I am putting pressure on her pelvic bone and clitoral nerve clusters from the inside. I actually go less and less deep the closer she gets. She starts squirting while I am just barely penetrating, and that is when I unleash and go balls deep (but somewhat slowly, as she's so tightened up) and she usually lets out a damned flood.

Post: #150

@RedPillUK

Nice written f*ck off to Brian Shima, repped you. That dude needs to stop worrying so much about what's alpha/beta, it's very omega of him.

Concerning squirting. There's an area roughly a knuckle's length inside the pussy along the top, it feels spongy to the touch... not slippery like the rest of the pussy. That spongy area is where you want to pump away. I use the come hither motion with index/longfinger or the spiderman grip with long/ringfinger. With the spiderman grip you pretty much pump up and down when she's wet enough. Almost like you want to lift her up by her pussy. Keep doing that at the same intensity until she cums. Forearm gains.

The really fun stuff begins when she's learned how to relax and squirt while you're inside her. Very psychological for both her and you. It will feel like a vice clamping down on your dick (her vaginal muscles contracting) while she's gushing. It's mindblowing every time it happens; you'll be worried about her dehydrating.

You will not want to sleep in the same bed afterwards, it will feel like you pissed the bed.