Post: #1

The girl I'm referring to in this post didnt actually say that to me but thats the vibe I'm getting. The background to this is I started University on sunday or college to you guys in the US. Met this girl on the first day she helped me move into my flat and seemed really cool (it was her job). At the time I didnt really feel she was all that so I didnt make any moves on her. Fast forward a couple of days later we went to a freshers party and she was looking hot. We got chating and to cut a long story short I ended up in her flat on wednesday and stayed till 3am and basically did nothing. Sure I made her laugh dropped a few jokes ha ha ha but I kept it light. On thursday I did the same thing again. On wednesday when she talked about her boyfriend ( he's in Bahamas but we're studying in the UK) it was how immature he was and how he started talking about how much he loved her after only 3 weeks, the second day her comments were a lot more complimentary which I took as a subtle cue that she's no longer open to any sort of sexual move from me, she already gave me a chance to. Basically to rescue the situation I'm thinking of breaking rapport with her and not talk to her for a few days and then try and reframe or is this a lost cause.

apologies about the long post

Post: #2

I don't have much experience with this sort of situation, but I would advise not talking to her for a bit, maybe 'til the next weekend, maybe the one after. Then, meet up with her at a club, while she's drunk, dance, kiss.

Alcohol seems like the best way to enable getting out of the friend zone.

Post: #3

Press up on her and make her vocalize that she's not into you.

If so, leave, immediately.

Post: #4

Yea don't talk to her for a coupla days and try the rencontre' with a stronger approach. Remember what roosh says man: "If you can't close, you're nothing but an entertainer". My advice: Make moves or you'll be trapped in the "Friend Zone"

Post: #5

the thing is once solidly in the friendzone even the punishment type stuff recommended by people like Mystery did not work for me. I tried it 2 or 3 times in my life. I have never broken out of the friendzone.

CLosest was with a russian girl, after breaking off contact with her for 2 months and gettng into a relationship with another woman, she said to me behind my girlfriends back that she thought I was "the one for her" and "maybe I didn't know it before", but still she didn't go for me in any big way. If I was the one for her, she definitely let me get away easily. And frankly, I'm not running back to some girl whose sized me up and rejected me.

I didn't push it because i had this other girl and genuinely had lost interest in the russian chick.

Post: #6

Write this off as a lost cause. In future situations, make sure you use heavy kino and are MORE SEXUAL. I never get into the friends zone anymore unless I intend to. If I have a target and I am able to isolate her into her room as you did, there will be some sex going on there.

Why?

When I make her laugh, I make sure to lightly kino her to anchor those happy thoughts to me, also keeps the interaction sexual. I also will usually go into sexual state once I isolate a girl or am attempting to do so.

Sexual state:
Slow movements
Heavy kino
Deep and slow voice
Bedroom eyes

Pretend you're laying in bed with a girl just before you fuck her, you're both naked. How are your movements, your tone of voice, eyes? Thats how I act to girls I'm seducing. Gets them thinking of me in bed.

Better luck next time, don't dwell on this too much. You will have 20000 more opportunities in college. Try using this method on this girl, but stop thinking about her or setting any expectations on her, that just makes you needy.