Post: #1

Well, I decided maybe this will be a topic to talk about. While I personally do not have an issue with sexuality per se but when it starts crossing the line as being superior or what the hell ever.... that is when I start having a damn problem when it involves natural biological sexual responses.

One thing I have noticed and realized, gay men are just as bad as the "nice guy" who don't have any damn fucking balls! It is like literally going backwards with themselves. However, it is NOT the gay men's fault themselves it is the STUPIDITY of women!

I can summarize a theory as to why women who are straight have a gay man as a best friend, 90% of the time it has to do with "challenge" or wants to try to "change" them, these women are ignorant, the guys they are trying to change do not have any balls, what does that make the woman? Ha ha, I watch with my own eyes that this type of woman hangs out with other women mostly. I question, "is she lesbian? or does she just want a challenge?" So this can be applied to when a MAN (not gay or feminine man aka "nice guy") is a challenge as well.

I been learning a lot on my own by experience and of course reading material and been enlightened to women's and real men's behavior.

How do you guys feel with women who have a best friend who is a gay (feminine) man?

Post: #2

depends...If he is giving her dick sucking lessons then might be worthwhile....

Seriously though, it is up to you to maintain your woman's interest in you as a man and if you are threatened by an effeminate guy because he is more interested in your woman than you I guess that is your problem....

If you "lose" your woman to a gay man then is it really a loss?

Do you want to provide the emotional dramatic flamboyant aspect of the relationship this gay man provides? Probably not. Do you want a woman in your life who wnts that ? Probably not.

So if it is a problem then make it not YOUR problem....

Post: #3

You are focusing too much on the wrong things.
If her best friend likes you then it's going to be easy as fuck to get the notch.
Gay men can also be excellent wingmen.
Her friends can cockblock you in big ways if you are unable to isolate her, it doesn't hurt to have them on your side.
It's the difference between her friends telling her "You go girl!" vs "Omg don't leave with that creep, stay with us!"

Post: #4

Heath0888, you have some ignorant beliefs and attitudes. Instead of focusing on what you think is wrong with gay men maybe you should re-examine your attitudes. Why are you even thinking about gay men?

First, most gay men aren't feminine. If anything they're hyper masculine. Think Village People - cowboy, Indian chief, soldier, police officer, body builder. I live in a semi-rural location with a large gay population. Mostly I see gay men with gym bods who hunt, fish, shoot, and drive big Ford pickup trucks. They're anything but feminine.

As a strong, secure man I don't need to trash talk any group. As an elder and leader I accept everyone with the same equanimity until they prove otherwise. You, on the other hand, sound envious and afraid. Maybe you need to improve your life situation and game instead of scapegoating others.

Post: #5

Dont be fooled. Some of these girls actually fuck their gay "best friends". Just like how some girls hook up or have threesomes with their female roommates and friends.

If you fight this, I'll get frustrated. Just roll along and enjoy the ride. One thing I've learned is everything with dating is grey. No black and white.

Post: #6

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Post: #7

Women who have these gay best friends are degenerate.

You know the gay man puts his hands all in her hair and on her body, grabs her ass and comments on it regularly. Makes filthy jokes constantly, this is how gay men are, they often hold back around hetero men.

If you have an argument with her, your girl is sorting through it her homo boyfriend.

The final kicker is they talk to the gay man about your sex life. Its disgusting.

Post: #8

Got it all wrong.

Gay best friend types will always dish you the assist if they like you. Gotten more oops that way than any other friend type.

Post: #9

^^ If you just want a bang then I can see that. They won't get in your way as long as you give them respect, which I wont.

Different if you actually want a gf with a homo best friend, not the best option.

Post: #10

Dont fuck girls that are BFF's with gay men.

Lord only knows how many times she's hooked up with a bisexual guy who she thinks is gay.

Post: #11

Why would any man want to be involved with a woman who hangs around faggots? Do they want to invite the inevitable nonsense that homosexuals bring into their lives into their own life?
Stay away from that. You should be better than that. You don't need it.

Post: #12

Just think about that fun night when your girfriend and her gay best friend drunkenly hook up. Just SO FUN! And then it's your turn to receive the diseases of a thousand gay cocks. Good luck.

Post: #13

Y'all are taking this so strange and acting like complete weirdo dorks that one would almost think you're in the closet.

Really it is no different from any other friend a girl has.

You think chicks don't drunkenly hook up with their female best friends?

Post: #14

(04-20-2019 04:54 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:  Y'all are taking this so strange and acting like complete weirdo dorks that one would almost think you're in the closet.

Really it is no different from any other friend a girl has.

You think chicks don't drunkenly hook up with their female best friends?

So you see no difference between a girl hooking up with another girl and her hooking up with a gay man?

Post: #15

(04-19-2019 08:44 AM)Heath0888 Wrote:  How do you guys feel with women who have a best friend who is a gay (feminine) man?

Gays, lesbians, transgender all have issues. The politically correctness require to "believe" and say gays are fine, but they aren't. A lot of people and and doctors too don't believe their are fine. Is not a secret that they have more % incidence of psychiatric, drug addition and relationships troubles.

The main question is not they have different sexual tastes. Is that their psychological deviation drives them to different sexual choices. A lesbian can't accept her femininity often has issues with men, so she can't have a satisfying loving relationship with a (normal) masculine man. You may have sex with a lesbian woman (if you enjoy that) but you will never have a good relationship with her!

All the gays I met in my life they have all issues, often family issues. I have just had a bad working experience with a gay photographer, he was good as photographer but total idiot about else regarding job (he did act like a freak low self esteem woman). Impossible to have business with him.

All gays have low self esteem so it's hard hoping they behave well in social life. They aren't like "girls normal friends".

As I can I avoid them both in business and social life since negative people like that often bring issues. They talk baldy of you behind your back (like low self esteem women do). If a girl you are dating accept advices from his gay friend is not good for you. Often they tried to flirt with you even you are not interested with them, this happened many times.

One time while a was with a girl and her gay best friend in a bar he started talking about hard core gay anal sex and stuff like that. He can do what he wants in his life but don't letting me part of it!

If you are interested in the girl with gays friend just bang her, hang out with her without her gays friends. If her gay friends become a problem just find another girl.

Post: #16

I don't know about the "challenge" thing.

From what I've seen gay men and straight women get along because they're both interested the same stuff: vapid pop culture, fashion, and gobbling cock.

I don't care personally. As someone else said alluded to, befriend the homo in mixed sets: He'll likely wing for you if he thinks you're cool.

Post: #17

Women keep gay friends around for attention and fun. Gay men will give hem compliments with no strings attached. Not many times a man can day her tits look great but wany nothing to do with them. There is also the truth that gays are degenerates, and really will be friends either anyone who isn't going to kill their vibes. Usually loser girls or girls who have weak social skills cling on to Gay or Queer friends as a way to build a social circle (something women absolutely need is a tribe, clique, circle to belong to. No matter how degenerative or destructive the environment, she will cling on if she fits in smoothly with the group).

I'm saying all that gays are like Flys that can be annoying if you notice them or they see around you. Not sure why anyone can be threatened by a gay man. My old saying is you can't take seriously anybody who sucks dick.

If anything, leverage the situation to your advantage. If you're cool and charming Mr Gay will take a liking to you and will be fan of yours and anytime GF gets hysterical the Gay friend will put her in her place.

Not much of an issue. Also, if you have a better social circle she will quickly ditch her fairy friends for yours. I doubt she has some long friend history with this dude, unless they grew up together.

Post: #18

I would avoid girls who have close "gay" guy friends. Gay men statistically have a higher chance of STDs and HIV, and if even once this girl your dating messed around with the bi-sexual/gay guy she could be a carrier. You basically expose yourself to all the STDs swimming around the gay pool by the second degree.

Reduce your risk.

Post: #19

It is generally better to interact with women who have exclusively female friends.

Post: #20

I agree definitely!

Post: #21

(04-19-2019 11:33 AM)Fuck This Wrote:  depends...If he is giving her dick sucking lessons then might be worthwhile....

I have an ex who started watching gay porn because she thought it could help her learn how to give better blow jobs.


Sadly this was after my time so I don't know if the effort paid off for her..

Post: #22

One of my closest friends is gay and i'm always taking the piss out of him for all his fag hags.

He's actually super aware of the perks of being gay in this aspect - his theory is that he is a 'safe' male that they can trust and just be silly with whilst not having to worry about unspoken sexual tension

Post: #23

Some posters in this thread are young and naive with no idea how the world really works.

Do NOT date woman that are best friends with gay men or really any best friend that is a male in general.

Nothing but problems will come from these type of relationships...

and yes gay men will fuck other woman. I Had a roommate that had a brother that was gay. And he told me some stories about of him fucking or kissing other girl's because their boy friends or ex's talked shit about him. I have nothing against him. Thought it was hilarious. Also dated a girl that had a gay best friend a long time ago. And man what a headache that was.

Post: #24

(04-22-2019 01:20 PM)TravelingBodybuilder Wrote:  Some posters in this thread are young and naive with no idea how the world really works.

Do NOT date woman that are best friends with gay men or really any best friend that is a male in general.

Nothing but problems will come from these type of relationships...

and yes gay men will fuck other woman. I Had a roommate that had a brother that was gay. And he told me some stories about of him fucking or kissing other girl's because their boy friends or ex's talked shit about him. I have nothing against him. Thought it was hilarious. Also dated a girl that had a gay best friend a long time ago. And man what a headache that was.

He wasn't gay he was bisex.

I agree with you. Gays are to be considered like low self esteem problematic people... so people to avoid.... this is my personal advice. Then do always as you wish...

Post: #25

(04-22-2019 02:18 PM)ìlikegirls Wrote:  

(04-22-2019 01:20 PM)TravelingBodybuilder Wrote:  Some posters in this thread are young and naive with no idea how the world really works.

Do NOT date woman that are best friends with gay men or really any best friend that is a male in general.

Nothing but problems will come from these type of relationships...

and yes gay men will fuck other woman. I Had a roommate that had a brother that was gay. And he told me some stories about of him fucking or kissing other girl's because their boy friends or ex's talked shit about him. I have nothing against him. Thought it was hilarious. Also dated a girl that had a gay best friend a long time ago. And man what a headache that was.

no he is gay. I said that to my roommate at the time to till i heard about more gays doing the same thing. He didnt bang her for pleasure but for revenge.

I guess it would be like someone that you hate that screwed you over. That someone has a fat wife that you are not attractive to.. But he loves her and given the opportunity you bang the fat wife.. not for pleasure but revenge...

He wasn't gay he was bisex.

I agree with you. Gays are to be considered like low self esteem problematic people... so people to avoid.... this is my personal advice. Then do always as you wish...

No he is gay. I said that to my roommate at the time too till i heard stories from others about gays oing the same thing. He didnt bang her for pleasure but for revenge.