Post: #26

(02-09-2012 04:07 PM)dulst Wrote:  If you're already banging her just make out with her in front of him.

Usually get's the message across.

This is the kind of move I see guys doing when they are frightful when I'm hitting on their girl. It conveys scarcity, weakness, fear to lose the girl.

Bad move, as many others have said. I actually interpret guys kisisng their girls and coiling up to them when in my presence almost as a compliment to my game. I've been so threatening to him that he felt intimidated. This kinda move on his part actually works for me. This is how you start to pull a robbery, actually.

On the flip side, I handle this by being firm and straight to the guy when he hits a girl I'm with. After talking a bit with him, I touch him, stare to his eyes and say "dude, get this: she's with me."

If I sense the guy is cool and just wasn't aware of it, I say "I respect what you are doing here, but she's with me".

It is about being firm, straight. No need to be angry or rude.

Muscles help convey your dominance. Your body language and shape might to the trick by itself. Sometimes body language is all you need.

Post: #27

(02-09-2012 06:55 PM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  I'm just not understanding all this talk about having to say something to the guy. Just tell the girl to come sit over here, or just start talking to her about you and her, and ignore the dude.

The problem with that is that it hurts in you in the long run with the girl. It gives you an air of weakness because you did not establish dominance with the other male with your presence/demeanor or verbally (in a calm, offhand manor).

You may think that you handled the situation by walking off but in the back of her mind she sees a chink in your armor.

Post: #28

(02-09-2012 06:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(02-09-2012 06:11 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  Love the story, but that woman is quite large.

http://www.memeface.com/pic/meme724018319_m.jpg

I knew someone would go there. Great story P-M and welcome aboard.

Soup, You have to get yourself to the point where you could go all in anytime. Hit the gym and learn how to fight.

Marlon Brando said, "there's always another guy in the bar next door who is bigger than you and can kick your ass."

I work out every day- I can do 29 chin-ups at a time. I'm not bulked up, but I've been told that I have a threatening vibe even though I am skinny/under-weight.. 5' 11'' about 150lbs.

Anyway, I'm also afraid of getting too built up, learning how to fight, and then ending up in jail. Also, I was told to not bulk up too much by my hipsterette friend. She said those kinds of chicks (the ones that populate my area) aren't into meat-heads, and that it's better to just be toned.

I was bigger than the dude who was talking to my girl. Maybe not big enough..

Post: #29

(02-10-2012 01:57 AM)soup Wrote:  

(02-09-2012 06:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(02-09-2012 06:11 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  Love the story, but that woman is quite large.

http://www.memeface.com/pic/meme724018319_m.jpg

I knew someone would go there. Great story P-M and welcome aboard.

Soup, You have to get yourself to the point where you could go all in anytime. Hit the gym and learn how to fight.

Marlon Brando said, "there's always another guy in the bar next door who is bigger than you and can kick your ass."

I work out every day- I can do 29 chin-ups at a time. I'm not bulked up, but I've been told that I have a threatening vibe even though I am skinny/under-weight.. 5' 11'' about 150lbs.

Anyway, I'm also afraid of getting too built up, learning how to fight, and then ending up in jail. Also, I was told to not bulk up too much by my hipsterette friend. She said those kinds of chicks (the ones that populate my area) aren't into meat-heads, and that it's better to just be toned.

I was bigger than the dude who was talking to my girl. Maybe not big enough..

“It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.”

― Mark Twain

Don't avoid confrontation.

The other guys size doesn't matter.

When he looks in your eyes and sees if he pushes you that he will get fucked up.

He will back off.

Post: #30

I had this shit happening to me like 3 years ago.

So i go to this bar/club with this girl i was dating and this other girl i was fucking plus one of my homies. My homie was just walking around the club approaching every other chick in the club while i was chilling with these two girls.And because the girl i was fucking with was looking really hot that day, i would tell her to follow me to the toilet without my gf knowing it and we would just play about there.. i was kissing her, touching her and all that shit.. when i went back to my girl she said that one of the guys was asking her what girl i was dating, if it was her or the other one, she told him that i was her boyfriend, he told her to be careful and started laughing. I told her just ignore him. Minutes after i pulled the chick i was fucking to the toilet again and we were playing with each other, when i go back to meet my girl, she is all upset and telling me how she is getting annoyed about this dude trying to touch her hair and she told him not to do it. So i ask her who is that dude, she points out the dude and he is with 3 or 4 other dudes (just as a note, this is one of the roughest bar in East London frequented by many rude boys aka street g's). The friend i was with he is the type of guy that backs down when he sees serious rude boys, so i knew if shit was getting hot, i would have to handle it by myself. Anyway, this dude comes back again to my girl and this time im standing right there and he touches her hair, i pushed him and asked him WHATTT? I have done this in a agressive way body wise but my facial expression wasnt that agressive, basically i was trying to give him a mixed message as ''if you chill, i chill,'' without saying nothing more apart from the ''whatt''..the guy that initiated the madness just backed down, his home boys were getting ready but also backed down.

The only time i reccommend to become violent is if the guy is really trying to disrespect you or he notices that you are with the girl and he still wants to talk to her. If he didnt see me, i would just approach him and tell him that she is mine or just call the girl as icewater said, you take it to violence in case he doubts your ability of handling things, simple.

Post: #31

Pimpishmentality dammnnn that chick that you posted jesus christ,...i couldnt even look properly at the pic because im at work but later when i get to my room i need to see that shit properly but jeezzz.

Post: #32

(02-10-2012 09:30 AM)pitt Wrote:  Pimpishmentality dammnnn that chick that you posted jesus christ,...i couldnt even look properly at the pic because im at work but later when i get to my room i need to see that shit properly but jeezzz.

Don't. Just don't.

Post: #33

I just did, she is fucking hotttttttttttt..damnnmnnn..

Iceinthewater did you see that ass? I dont know if thats your type of shit but damn i would hit it.

Post: #34

(02-10-2012 12:50 PM)pitt Wrote:  I just did, she is fucking hotttttttttttt..damnnmnnn..

Iceinthewater did you see that ass? I dont know if thats your type of shit but damn i would hit it.

LOL

Post: #35

Conveying dominance is what should be done from the start, but if you can tell the guy is about to get violent, its time to skip out!

If the girl is already into you she'll have no problem leaving the place, and if not, one random woman you met in a club/bar is not worth going to jail or getting injured (even if you can fight)

Some guys might prefer to be macho and go for the fight. Be my guest.

Post: #36

(02-09-2012 05:39 PM)PimpishMentality Wrote:  I handle this situation based on the females behavior.

In a situation like that she will:

1. Check the weak fucker for you
2. Not be into his game but be too shy/uncomfortable/scared to check him
3. Be into the weak fuckers game
   

Ideally, a bitch should...respect...the fact that she is rolling with you.

And if she...respects...you...then...she...will correct a weak ass (he ain't Alpha in my book) fucker trying to put salt in your game.

You shouldn't have to do a thing.

However, if your bitch corrects a weak fucker and he doesn't step off...then...you check his ass.

"Alright dude... You got your lil holla in... Feel good about yourself? Now step off!"

If she is too shy/uncomfortable/scared to correct him...then...you step in and check the weak fucker...hard.

"Dude... Why are you provoking my date? She's...not...interested... Step the...fuck...off!"

Now...if your bitch is moved by the weak fuckers shit... You correct...her! Take her by the arm and relocate to another location in the bar/club/etc.

Finish the date.

Take her home.

And then...dismiss...her ass.

If she disrespects you to your face by bending an ear to a weak fucker what else will she do if you give her the chance?

When I'm really tight with a chic I like to fuck with weak fuckers like that. I took the chick in the attached pic out for her birthday wearing the "outfit" in the pic.



The dress just barley covered her ass and she worked it without either bra or panties.

So I'm chillin' with her at the bar and this dude leans into her from the other side and starts trying to holla in the middle of my conversation.

So my girl is like, "Ummmm....what's...up...with this nigga? Is he retarded?"

So she is 2 seconds from clocking on him when I say, "Hold up. What's up my nigga! You like this?"

He said some stupid shit I don't remember and then I replied, "You know what? I'm gonna...let...you get your holla in. It's her birthday. I want her to have a good time. So I'm gonna let you buy her some drinks and get your holla on. I'm gonna go get a table and chill."

So I go chill and flirt with some other females. A couple of hours later I found my girl lizard the fuck up. Right.

So I walk up and say, "What's up baby? You ready to...fuck?"

She jumps away from the bar good to go and dude starts stutterin' and babbling upset because he just...knew...he was gonna get some pussy.

LMAO

So he's like, "Hold up! Hold up! I bought you all those drinks yo!"

I replied, "I appreciate that. You saved me some money. Boo... Give him hug."

So she gives him a hug and then turns and takes my hand and as we walk off with her switching all that ass in the fools face I yell back, "Later my nigga! We finna...fuck!"

I was screaming laughing at your story man, welcome!

Soup: it cost me bangs before that I didn't say or do shit in an AMOG's presence or situation because I'm worried about fights/getting kicked out/losing the girl. Big lesson for me is to "do something" and not worry about any of that. Do nothing and you regret it more.

Of course we have to calibrate what that "something" is depending on the situation as shown by PM's story above.

Post: #37

Never intentionally start a fight if you can avoid it. BUT ALWAYS BE PREPARED FOR ONE. Alot of the guys on this forum probably have the muscles or fearless mindset to back up their talk. If you think your getting punked then you need to start working out and changing your dominance displays. You need to look imposing.

I'd like to see some dude try to intentionally disrespect me when its obvious she is with me. Just not happening.

Post: #38

(02-10-2012 02:48 PM)johnwu Wrote:  Conveying dominance is what should be done from the start, but if you can tell the guy is about to get violent, its time to skip out!

If the girl is already into you she'll have no problem leaving the place, and if not, one random woman you met in a club/bar is not worth going to jail or getting injured (even if you can fight)

Some guys might prefer to be macho and go for the fight. Be my guest.

Fight or not you have to be ready/able to go all the way all the time. That's where the confidence comes from to punk anyone who pisses you off.

Post: #39

(02-10-2012 01:57 AM)soup Wrote:  Marlon Brando said, "there's always another guy in the bar next door who is bigger than you and can kick your ass."

I work out every day- I can do 29 chin-ups at a time. I'm not bulked up, but I've been told that I have a threatening vibe even though I am skinny/under-weight.. 5' 11'' about 150lbs.

Anyway, I'm also afraid of getting too built up, learning how to fight, and then ending up in jail. Also, I was told to not bulk up too much by my hipsterette friend. She said those kinds of chicks (the ones that populate my area) aren't into meat-heads, and that it's better to just be toned.

I was bigger than the dude who was talking to my girl. Maybe not big enough..

Soup,

When it comes to hitting the gym, this 'getting too bulked up' is a myth.

Putting on muscle and size can only enhance your prospects with women, not harm it. It really is very difficult to become an oversized meatball, unless you're jacked up on steroids or atone for your sins by eating 7000 meals a day.

A guy who lifts big, eats right and gets rest - provided your doing the right exercises in the gym will only look good and not bad for putting on size. Women who like skinny guys are a tiny minority in my opinion.

Plus putting on size improves your confidence when you come up against situations like this and you need to throw down, makes guys fear/respect you more.

Mike sums it up well here: http://dangerandplay.wordpress.com/2011/...r-players/

Combine a muscular body with boxing and you're good to throw down any time and place.

Post: #40

With regards to the AMOG is also important who knows the bouncer the establishment of the club or the guards in face control.Because if the AMOG is friend with them no matter what you do they will give right to the AMOG and kick you out in case of physical confrontation.
I have also observed that most guys give very weak punches no matter how muscular they may seem.Only Russian guys give real punches which you feel because they get trained in box.Russians always give punches to you to make you tough physically able to stand the pain.

Post: #41

It's a rainy night soup, not a hipster in sight, if I want to pull, it may cause a fight.

I'm three drinks back and heading out via cab now. I will check some spots but know they will be dead and where the ass is going to be in the places where the people are spending their tax refund money.

It's not going to be pretty but that's how it is until boat season ramps up local. The beauty is that most guys are scared shitless. The downside is you are a target if you dress nice. Oh well.

Post: #42

(02-10-2012 09:35 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  It's a rainy night soup, not a hipster in sight, if I want to pull, it may cause a fight.

I'm three drinks back and heading out via cab now. I will check some spots but know they will be dead and where the ass is going to be in the places where the people are spending their tax refund money.

It's not going to be pretty but that's how it is until boat season ramps up local. The beauty is that most guys are scared shitless. The downside is you are a target if you dress nice. Oh well.

Yeah- it's shit weather here as well, but I'm going to go out anyway. AMOGS, beware

Post: #43

Quote:"Later my nigga! We finna...fuck!"

LOL! Damn.. now, that's a closing

Post: #44

(02-09-2012 08:42 PM)PimpishMentality Wrote:  

(02-09-2012 06:55 PM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  I'm just not understanding all this talk about having to say something to the guy. Just tell the girl to come sit over here, or just start talking to her about you and her, and ignore the dude.

The problem with that is that it hurts in you in the long run with the girl. It gives you an air of weakness because you did not establish dominance with the other male with your presence/demeanor or verbally (in a calm, offhand manor).

You may think that you handled the situation by walking off but in the back of her mind she sees a chink in your armor.

I see your point too, but it's the way you handle it - we are writing words, but the KEY to dealing with other dudes is all subcommunication so it's hard to describe exactly what's going on.

For example, if you just bring your girl to another area, there are two ways you can do it:

A needy, worried vibe as if you are trying to get her away because you are threatened

OR

The guy is not even on your radar and you want to have some privacy so you and you're girl can vibe without other people interrupting.

I think you're way of handling the guy in your story is congruent to you and you seem like you have the physical dominance thing down. My style is different - I just don't pay attention to shit that's not on my radar. If I'm with a girl, I'm not concerned with other dudes. They are basically invisible. This is congruent to everything I've done with the girl so far. My game is very low key, sexual, direct. No one else exists to her but me.

Post: #45

Soup: you are big enough and you don't have to start worrying about being tough. the other guys are right about not communicating weakness, but there are different ways to handle it. Getting worked up and thinking about physical confrontation is probably not the best option except as last resort.

Amour Fou: right on. That's a great breakdown

Pitt: London dudes are fucking assholes. Rudest, most drunken aggressive idiots I've encountered.

And yes I would probably hit that lol. She's a little thicker than I like but I bet the doggie would be fun as hell lol