Post: #26

Bro, like I said, Prepare the condom and put it unrapped next to you on the duvet when you are making out. this when the time comes to put it on you can slip it quickly with ease.

Post: #27

(09-23-2010 03:50 PM)DevoLach Wrote:  

(09-23-2010 07:44 AM)metalhaze Wrote:  5) if you want to be fail safe, get half or even a quarter of a pill of viagra only for the first time with a girl, it will just help you overcome this block. you can go raw dawg, but you have to weigh the risks.

Ive had the same psychological problems in the past, and it comes in waves for me. Never a problem going without a glove but sometimes finding the thing, unwrapping it, making sure it rolls the right way feels like a race against the clock!

For those who've gone down the viagra path, does it become a necessity?

Rawdog may equal 20 years of judicial control of your life ( child support) If she wants to keep the kid, you have no say in the matter, but you still have to pay. Before I realized the horror of child support from my clients, I would still at least use foam. That also prevents her from the atrocious practice of opening the used condom when you're done and impregnating herself.

Especially if a chick's in love/over 30 you can't fathom how bad they want to have kids. They'll backwards rationalize ANYTHING.

I've used Viagra (I'm over 40) if anything it increases confidence, opposite of addictive. It conclusively shows your body is capable, so you can focus on your anxiety ( most common problem) or anger at her. If Viagra doesn't work, you're exhausted or sick, and that's useful information also. When I put on 20 pounds of lard from too much stress at work/no exercise; that really f'ed up my sexual ability. I also had low testosterone and I now use drops to normalize that.

I've also found a lot of times I've harbored resentment towards women for being bitchy and that totally undermines sexual excitement. Unless she's one of the one's that'll own up to her rudeness and likes being punished for what she did.

Post: #28

Have her slip it on you. If you've already fucked her before, maybe slip it on during foreplay, no immediate pressure to perform but you're already hard.

Or this:

(09-24-2010 01:13 PM)metalhaze Wrote:  Bro, like I said, Prepare the condom and put it unrapped next to you on the duvet when you are making out. this when the time comes to put it on you can slip it quickly with ease.

Post: #29

"Have her slip it on you." I do not advise that because most of them dont know how to do it and she will fumble and stumble, she also could scratch the condom and hurt your penis while putting it on. just prepare it, unwrap it and put it next to you and then when you feel ready slip it on

Post: #30

Condoms are also a turnoff for me, when changing positions I usually have to jerkoff before entering again. But I'm a bit scared of trying something thinner (like the okamo crown recommanded here) because I am a little above average, last week I broke a magnum, so it seems like a deadend of me. Maybe i should get into mLTRs to get it raw with them on pills.

Post: #31

You could try to do it in steps - that way you're not using up a lof of time fumbling, unwrapping etc. First, take a break to grab the condom and put it in a really easy-to-reach spot (if it isn't there already.) Then, afte a while, open the package and take out the condom, but don't put it on. Just have it ready to go. Then when you're at the height of arousal, just slip the condom on quickly. (Just be sure not to take it out of the package too early or it'll dry out.) You'd be surprised, but the 10 seconds you save by pre-unwrapping really makes a difference. As far as brands go, I haven't found anything better than the Durex Avantis.

Post: #32

I didn't read the whole thread so someone may have mentioned this already but by far the best large condom i've used is called Vivid Large. You can buy them online and they are surprisingly thin and strong and soooooo much better than magnums which are horrible in my opinion and have broken on me twice before. Definitely worth a try for magnum users and definitely solved my problem of losing an erection because of tight condoms.

Post: #33

Can you recommend an online merchant? Thats one of the rare negative point of game, you realize condoms are fucking expensive.

Post: #34

I used to always buy Vivid large from condomdepot.com but i just went online and saw they were out of stock. I used to buy them in bulk so i haven't bought them for a while so i don't know how long they have been out of stock or if they're coming back but i remember they were also really cheap in bulk around $18 for a box of 50.

Post: #35

(09-26-2010 03:04 PM)LÉtranger Wrote:  Condoms are also a turnoff for me, when changing positions I usually have to jerkoff before entering again. But I'm a bit scared of trying something thinner (like the okamo crown recommanded here) because I am a little above average, last week I broke a magnum, so it seems like a deadend of me. Maybe i should get into mLTRs to get it raw with them on pills.

Dude, I've broken plenty of condoms even Magnums, I rawdog cause its pointless for me cause 8 outta 10 rubber's I brake. The only thing that remotely works is to have her blow me when changin positions and at times that don't help much especially when I'm drunk. My problem though is I need to find out if there's a male birthcontrol. That would help tremendously!!!

Post: #36

Just ordered the Vivids on condomjungle.com , looks like a good place to buy in bulk.