Post: #1

I read a body language book (by Pease) which was eye-opening for me. It had some attraction bits in it and one of them stood out.

The author talks about a guy who always went home with girls not because he had game or was alpha or whatever, but because he could tell which girls at a party/bar/etc were interested in him because he was a bloodhound for their interest body language. The author suggested that the guy didn't waste his time hitting on a girl that wasn't interested in him.

I see his point. If you could notice these signs things would get easier. But do you go through life waiting for women to show you these signs before approaching? Wouldn't it be more efficient to be able to gauge their interest after you opened them?

Opinions?

Post: #2

(10-04-2012 11:40 AM)Rudiger Wrote:  But do you go through life waiting for women to show you these signs before approaching? Wouldn't it be more efficient to be able to gauge their interest after you opened them?

Opinions?

No, you don't wait for signs, you approach. (but if you get the signs, and you like who's giving them to you, by all means..)

In terms of gauge interesting, if she doesn't walk away, she's interested.

WIA

Post: #3

(10-04-2012 11:40 AM)Rudiger Wrote:  I see his point. If you could notice these signs things would get easier. But do you go through life waiting for women to show you these signs before approaching? Wouldn't it be more efficient to be able to gauge their interest after you opened them?

Opinions?

I've seen this topic discussed extensively. The short of it is that experience will tell you.

In the end, it's better to approach and get blown out 9/10 times than it is to sit alone because you thought she wouldn't be interested.

Post: #4

(10-04-2012 11:40 AM)Rudiger Wrote:  I read a body language book (by Pease) which was eye-opening for me. It had some attraction bits in it and one of them stood out.

The author talks about a guy who always went home with girls not because he had game or was alpha or whatever, but because he could tell which girls at a party/bar/etc were interested in him because he was a bloodhound for their interest body language. The author suggested that the guy didn't waste his time hitting on a girl that wasn't interested in him.

I see his point. If you could notice these signs things would get easier. But do you go through life waiting for women to show you these signs before approaching? Wouldn't it be more efficient to be able to gauge their interest after you opened them?

Opinions?

I agree very much,
I've just started game but found all my success are fron girls who IOI beforehand