Post: #1

So tonight was interesting and once again showed me when you don't take the sure thing you get nothing.

Met up with a 24yo latina who I vaguely remember being a 6.5-7 when I met her a couple weeks ago. Met her at a local bar close to my spot which I have on lock at 9pm. She looked better than I remember a solid 7 so I was like ok let's see what's up.

As a backup plan I set up grabbing dinner with my 9-9.5 at 10pm. I just had a feeling I wasn't going to dig this new chick.

We grab a drink and she was terrible at keeping a convo going. All I could think about was the 9-9.5 I had waiting, BUT her body language and what she did say it was obvious she wanted to fuck. She asked THREE times where I lived (2 miles away) and then would smile and grab my arm. Well me being me I told her I was going to have a smoke outside and then bounced.

I picked up my 9-9.5 who lives down the street. She started interrogating me about what I did last night so I negged her hard about her hair etc. Was being pretty mean but was in one of those idgaf moods to the extreme. When she asked what I was doing before I picked her up I told her in detail. Ha did her hamster spin! She started visibly looking like she was going to cry etc but began to instantly try to qualify herself to me.

While having dinner with her, another girl I met 2 weeks ago hit me up. Haven't hung out with her due to logistics and her living far away. This new girl a solid 7.5-8, was like I'm at X Bar which was BESIDE the bar where I bounced on the earlier girl. I told her I'd swing by in a bit. I wanted to fuck the 9-9.5 but for backup figured why not? After dinner I drove the 9-9.5 back to her spot and this is where shit got weird.

She gave me a quick ass hug and jumped out of my car and RAN inside. Granted it's cold and rainy but her vibe was WEIRD. No invite to come inside, nothing.

I drove down the street to meet up with the third girl at a bar. At this point it's like if I don't pull this one going to be a bit pissed off. Meanwhile the 9-9.5 text me this:

Thank you for everything. I appreciate it alot.

I assume she meant the dinner, anyway at least she showed appreciation. What was odd about that exchange is that I've fucked her a few times so why the jump out of the car behavior unless she was just mad about me being on a date before picking her up? We've only known each other a couple weeks so I find it hard to believe she would be that jealous. As a a sidenote: I often push a girls buttons or be very straightforward about seeing other girls just to get a reaction out of them and see how far I can push it.

I meet the 3rd girl at the bar and she looks good: bubble ass, nice fake tits, cute smile and great eyes. She's 25yo half Lebanese and Brazilian and on top of this the bitch is a doctor lmao! She's flirting hard etc but then says lets walk over to my friends. I'm thinking 'friends'? Wtf? I thought she was there alone or with another gf but not a fucking group of people.

I spent a few minutes with the group and then she had to leave because they were her ride. I didn't even push for her to come back with me because I knew with her friends there she wanted to save face.

So 3 fucking girls in about 3.5 hours time and nothing...

Moral of the story is: When you have a somewhat sure thing...take it. Even though I wasn't really into her should have fucked the first girl, flaked on the 9-9.5 and ignored the third one. Pussy DOES beget pussy but only when you handle it right.

Post: #2

I don't understand why/how a night like this would be fun. The first girl was into you and was decent - why get her number and agree to date her up if you werent interested? You even say she EXCEEDED your expectations. Why not wait to buy the 9 a $70 dinner until a different night? Sounds like you were more excited about telling the 9 you were on another date than you were abt banging a new 7. That's no bueno.

Post: #3

(12-24-2012 05:29 AM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I don't understand why/how a night like this would be fun. The first girl was into you and was decent - why get her number and agree to date her up if you werent interested? You even say she EXCEEDED your expectations. Why not wait to buy the 9 a $70 dinner until a different night? Sounds like you were more excited about telling the 9 you were on another date than you were abt banging a new 7. That's no bueno.

Let me clarify.

Meeting the first girl at a bar 2 miles from my house for one drink when she was pushing for the meetup seemed like a good idea. It's an hour out of my life and I was bored anyway.

The plan to meet with the 9-9.5 to eat was because I was legitimately hungry. It was a casual diner and costs $33. I've yet to even take her out and have already fucked her multiple times so it's not a big deal.

What's annoying is that I should have pushed to come in when I dropped her off.

In hindsite I think the problem was that I was focused on the next girl when with each girl thus taking me out of the moment and causing me to not spit proper game while with each respective girl. I have a great 1st date close rate and could have closed the first girl but wasn't crazy about her.

Post: #4

@OP- sloppy work.

Dont go into detail w/any girls about your love-life. Its a terrible idea. When she asked you, you should have just said I was meeting w/a friend. Keep it vague and let the hamster spin at a slow burn rate.

Thats why you got the weird response at her house. No girl likes to get stuff like that thrown in her face, just like no guy likes it thrown in his face. Just keep it light and friendly ...

Yea, i had a drink w/a friend. She will question you and you should just deflect. Girls arent stupid you know...shell understand what that means but she wont know. thats the hamster steroids in motion.

As for the 1st girl, I woulda been honest. I woulda said lets meet another time. I gotta go for dinner w/a friend. Let that hamster spin too.

3rd girl, no critique.

Post: #5

Attention whoring isnt cool when women do it. Why would it be cool for guys? Its like a gender reversal of girls who go to the club to boost their esteem by shooting guys down.

Post: #6

(12-24-2012 05:16 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  We grab a drink and she was terrible at keeping a convo going. All I could think about was the 9-9.5 I had waiting, BUT her body language and what she did say it was obvious she wanted to fuck. She asked THREE times where I lived (2 miles away) and then would smile and grab my arm. Well me being me I told her I was going to have a smoke outside and then bounced.

Are you saying that you told this girl that you were going outside to smoke and then just left, leaving her sitting at the table, expecting you to come back?

Post: #7

(12-24-2012 09:20 PM)DVY Wrote:  @OP- sloppy work.

Dont go into detail w/any girls about your love-life. Its a terrible idea. When she asked you, you should have just said I was meeting w/a friend. Keep it vague and let the hamster spin at a slow burn rate.

Thats why you got the weird response at her house. No girl likes to get stuff like that thrown in her face, just like no guy likes it thrown in his face. Just keep it light and friendly ...

Yea, i had a drink w/a friend. She will question you and you should just deflect. Girls arent stupid you know...shell understand what that means but she wont know. thats the hamster steroids in motion.

As for the 1st girl, I woulda been honest. I woulda said lets meet another time. I gotta go for dinner w/a friend. Let that hamster spin too.

3rd girl, no critique.

Good points. The elusive answer is more effective but it is what it is at this point. 2nd girl hit me up this morning on my nuts so I think it's fine.

Post: #8

(12-24-2012 09:33 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(12-24-2012 05:16 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  We grab a drink and she was terrible at keeping a convo going. All I could think about was the 9-9.5 I had waiting, BUT her body language and what she did say it was obvious she wanted to fuck. She asked THREE times where I lived (2 miles away) and then would smile and grab my arm. Well me being me I told her I was going to have a smoke outside and then bounced.

Are you saying that you told this girl that you were going outside to smoke and then just left, leaving her sitting at the table, expecting you to come back?

Yes. Kind of shitty but was in a bad mood. Haven't done that in years. She started blowing up my phone and I said I went to buy more cigs. She then said she was going to sit in her car and sober up. She seemed like she actually believed me which shows me how her lack of convo skills reflected a low intelligence level.

Post: #9

(12-24-2012 09:28 PM)jmoney29 Wrote:  Attention whoring isnt cool when women do it. Why would it be cool for guys? Its like a gender reversal of girls who go to the club to boost their esteem by shooting guys down.

I wasn't attention whoring but instead doing what I wanted, when I wanted completely and damned be the results. Haven't we all gotten phone numbers and never call just to spit game? I don't always follow up with girls especially if I have a few in the pipeline and on rotation.

Post: #10

Honestly, the fact that you met w/3 girls is of no importance.

Dont understand the hate.

@OP- the fact that you gave her some good D allows you to make some mistakes. Dont ever think this girl is on your nuts. Shes just temporarily infatuated w/you.

The more mistakes you make, the more likely a departure is.

That being said, I think you have a great frame and attitude of "IGAF and you are nobody special so far to me".

Post: #11

I think you can be a decent human being and still a mad player - I don't necessarily get the point of leaving a 7 at a bar stuck with the tab (not to mention outright lying to her that you went to get cigs when she texts you). Just be honest you have a prior commitment.

I do agree that at least his ultra alpha behavior is better than ultra beta and will def yield a ton of bangs... If he can sleep at night than more power to him

Post: #12

This thread makes no sense to me.

Why would you not try for the triple swoop in one night?

For some reason the stars aligned and 3 quality girls (if you say so) all wanted you on the same night, and you manage to bang none?

And why would you ever openly tell a fb in rotation you were on a date with another girl prior? Girls don't go for this direct spewing. Be subtle and evasive.

This seems like a validation post to me. Leaving a chick with the tab at the bar without telling her unwarranted is just an ego stroke, and frankly will get around to others costing you future bangs.

I'm no white knight, far from, but there's a line between spinning plates and garnering yourself a negative reputation for acting with disregard with no rhyme or reason. you think that Bartender is going to like you ever when the chick complains like no other? you think she didn't call every one of her friend and post on fb even how Dick that is?

Maybe we have different styles, but when i'm running a harem discretion is crucial. Or you will lose goodwill from friends, acquaintances, and future bangs alike.

Post: #13

The tab was PAID. I paid the tab BEFORE I left when she used the restroom at one point.

I NEVER dine-n-dash. That is a local bar and one of my regular spots so keeping my rep is important. Those bartenders see me come in at least 1-2x a week and do my thing so it's standard procedure.

The post was not a validation post at all, although I could see how one could think that. The whole point of the post was to show that the age old maxim of going for the sure thing is much better than trying to upgrade the night of when there's no reason to.

It sends off an energy in the female universe so to speak and cock blocks you the entire night.