Post: #1

Guys, check this out. I have never heard of this happening before, but it did to me. Just for the hell of it, even though I am biased against online game, I made a new Match profile. lol. Just temporary though. Not keeping it for weeks and weeks. And I put my location as one of the areas I may be relocating to. I've done this a couple times before, no incident. Also did this because one of the girls I exchanged phone numbers stopped talking to me all of a sudden. I mentioned it in a previous thread some of y'all might have read:

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Even after I told her I don't live there, it's on my list of places I may be relocating to in a few months, she still talked to me all the time for days thereafter. When she stopped talking to me, I figured maybe she got a boyfriend or just lost interest. When I was younger, I would have kept chasing her, but I'm 30 years old now, so I let her go. I made a new profile, same location, same info, slightly better pics, etc. I got some winks from girls (hotter than I expected, no spam). 24 hours later, so far so good. I then saw she viewed my page. About a hour or so later, Match is saying there is a problem with my account, to email them. Right away, my gut told me she was behind it. I did some research and found people can anonymously report accounts that are spam or have false info. Would not be surprised if she did that maybe by saying my info is false, I don't live there, etc. Unfortunately, I can't confirm this because their phone lines are closed for the weekend. So I texted her after not having talked for 2 weeks:

Me: hey whats up? just curious, did you report my new page to Match?
Her: i'm good. did i report you?! no, i wouldn't do that. did they tell you someone did? how do you fix that? definitely wasn't me. i have no reason to.
Me: talking to them through email. no phone on wknds. did you know i had a new page or nah? i didn't see you viewed it, so i guess not.
Her: no i didn't know! my subscription is up so i can't do anything anymore. still have a page, but that's it.
Me: yea it was under [page name]. fairly new somewhat. so you're not gonna renew?
Her: ah i'll have to see if i can look you up. not sure if i will.
Me: you sure you didn't report it? i mean damn. lol.
Her: no i didn't. i have no reason to. honest.

(what she doesn't know is that this whole time, i already saw she viewed my page right before it was turned off. even though i haven't heard back from Match yet, i sway her to believe they told me it was her...)

Me: i gotta confess somethin. they gave me the time you viewed my page and when report was sent.
Her: i swear i didn't report you. i don't know how to do that. why would he say me? i have no reason to.
Me: nah, he didn't say you. they're not allowed. i volunteered it to him. he confirmed name viewed page at time account was flagged. you stopped talking to me. what am i supposed to do?

I haven't heard back from her since. Even though I don't know yet from Match what's going on, I mean heck, maybe I'm wrong about her filing a report, but catching her in a lie will probably yield what I suspect happened. Reminds me of when a girl I asked out at work said no, yet months later, when she found out I started talking to someone else, also at that same job, she said to the girl behind my back, "yea he used to be in love with me". I don't know fellas. Maybe not online game, but can y'all relate?

Post: #2

That text exchange was unnecessary, except as an example of reverse game.
Not trying to be rude, but wtf man.

Post: #3

(12-29-2012 03:40 PM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  That text exchange was unnecessary, except as an example of reverse game.
Not trying to be rude, but wtf man.

Trust me, I know, bro. Well, of course, after the fact. Lol. But yea, the end result was me really not accomplishing anything to be honest. Probably smarter to expend energy on making progress with game rather than the causes of why something didn't work out. I'm sure you can tell by the length of my post that it was definitely the latter. Especially without having a basis for it more than coincidence and venting. It just sucks when you have that mindset of something being "too good to be true" and when it falls through, I'll justify it by saying that's the reason why. But it is tough to progress when you think negatively like that. What can I say, I still have a lot to learn.

Post: #4

(12-29-2012 03:40 PM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  That text exchange was unnecessary, except as an example of reverse game.
Not trying to be rude, but wtf man.

I'll give it a pass as "Calling Out A Cockblocker". 10 men will be spared this treatment because he called her out on her lie.

Post: #5

(12-29-2012 06:37 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  I'll give it a pass as "Calling Out A Cockblocker". 10 men will be spared this treatment because he called her out on her lie.

Lol. I appreciate that. I mean if she didn't do it, that was definitely my bad. And if she did do it, then still.. you know, gotta use that as motivation to keep focusing on gaming, and on the next chick. The time I spent getting upset, I could have used that time to get over it and figure out a "plan b". It's instinctive to want to seek vindication for something, or anything.. but it doesn't solve problems, just takes away from the task at hand. I mean if I spared 10 other dudes.. lol.. I'm definitely glad for that. But still, gotta stay focused.

Post: #6

As you said, you were reported for false info. It sounds like you were actually violating the groundrules of their site by spoofing your location no?

You don't even live there so it shouldn't make a difference to you.

Post: #7

Report her..