Post: #1

According to Bang, one should approach them more subtly, but what does that exactly mean? How does it effect kino, number closes, date venues, text messaging etc? What are some examples of good date/venue/logistical/schedules/planning? What are some good text messages? Does it take a longer time to bang them? What does it mean when a woman has a ring on her finger but is separated from her husband? I have a thing for married woman and girls with boyfriends for some reason.

Post: #2

(04-28-2013 02:43 PM)Shadowarrior Wrote:  According to Bang, one should approach them more subtly, but what does that exactly mean? How does it effect kino, number closes, date venues, text messaging etc? What are some examples of good date/venue/logistical/schedules/planning? What are some good text messages? Does it take a longer time to bang them? What does it mean when a woman has a ring on her finger but is separated from her husband? I have a thing for married woman and girls with boyfriends for some reason.

Why? Part of learning game is dissecting your own thoughts/actions. When I hear the bolded above I think of insecurity. If it goes sour, there's a built in "she has a s/o".

Personally, girls that have husbands are pretty much off limits to me. Girls w boyfriends are fair game. But, plenty of single cats out there, don't need the extra stupid drama.

Post: #3

Todd, I was wondering about that myself. Part of it is, i think, wanting what someone else has.

On a slightly different note, or a related one, I've been reading Chateau Heartiste and Alpha Game, and that shit is both depressing and enlightening at the same time. But I guess I need the red pill.

Those sites make me wonder though. If Alphas never get married, what do they do when they're 60, 70, 80, 90 years old with no kids and a wife?

Post: #4

Heartiste and Roosh are great. When I first got in the game a year ago I went through the archives from heartiste, some really good shit there. Even better are the comments (older articles are better, however). I've read Roosh's Bang, and Day Bang, both of which are pretty much invaluable resources.

As far as getting married -- you can be Alpha and still be married. It's just not advised. When 50% + of marriages end in divorce, then why bother?

Post: #5

(04-28-2013 02:43 PM)Shadowarrior Wrote:  According to Bang, one should approach them more subtly, but what does that exactly mean? How does it effect kino, number closes, date venues, text messaging etc? What are some examples of good date/venue/logistical/schedules/planning? What are some good text messages? Does it take a longer time to bang them? What does it mean when a woman has a ring on her finger but is separated from her husband? I have a thing for married woman and girls with boyfriends for some reason.

buy a gun when her husband or boyfriends,
start looking for you with two grenades::

Post: #6

Essentially, you AMOG the husband/boyfriend in absentia. It will only work if there is a pre-existing weakness in the relationship, which means the girl will be more critical of her boyfriend's flaws and will magnify the virtues of other men who display alpha traits. She needs to feel like you are offering her something that she isn't currently getting from her boyfriend. In most cases, this is simply excitement/passion/alpha fucks. Most girls who are willing to cheat are just bored in their relationship and too scared or lazy to end things. For women, cheating is not the cause for the end of a relationship, it's just the symptom that predicts the inevitable.

I have also found that for some reason women in relationships are very susceptible to cheesy lines about "destiny or fate bringing us together." It's almost like this gives them a license to cheat or something.

Also, be aware that doing this is playing Russian Roulette. If you start fucking a lot of girls with husbands and boyfriends, sooner or later one of them WILL come after you. And it might not be the tough guy you see coming. A total beta chode might feel hopeless and desperate if you steal his girl, and there is nothing more dangerous than a man who feels he has nothing to lose. See below example from Layer Cake (spoiler alert).

Post: #7

You talk through anything they throw at you.

"I'm sure he wouldn't mind if two friends met for lunch".

I've used that countless times. Just be cool and witty while trying to project an image of innocence and cuteness at the same time. Use some playful innuendo.

You've got to charm her and push her right to the edge then back off a little and she'll come to you. Most important thing is not to slut shame and make it clear that you'll keep your mouth shut.

Post: #8

Scorpion, duly noted. Logically, I understand this. But I'm new to the game and a little naive about real world consequences (i.e. getting murdered). Lately, I have been thinking about a guy who's girlfriend I was trying to hit on. He kept talking to me how he owned a different assortment of weapons like shotguns, tasers etc. He also talked about his girlfriend who was also there and how he gave her a baton tazer thingy. The guy was physically handicapped. Yes, I backed away from it. I am definitely backing away from women in relationships now that I am less naive. But I have noticed that women in relationships seem to flirt or are very friendly with me for some reason. I understand that females who are taken are just naturally friendly because they are secure in their relationships. At the same time, however, if I'm not reading too much into it, taken women or girls who are recently divorced seem to hit on me. I don't know if this is a 'thing' I'm good at or if its something that is common to all men when they meet women who are dissatisfied with their partners.

Post: #9

To the OP: While gaming a girl who already has a main squeeze is doable it's basically asking for trouble. I remember some time back a former member named BrownBear posted something about having fucked the wife of a KGB agent (he apparantly wasnt aware of it at the time) and now the guy was after him or something to that regard. While we'll never truly know if BrownBear was trolling or not it's something to think about.

Post: #10

I met this girl who said she wasn't married but had a baby. she said her baby dad was watching her so she could come out. I just assumed they don't live together. Let's say she still lives with him, would she still call him as 'my baby's dad' not 'my boyfriend'?

Post: #11

My two favorite responses to I have a boyfriend (best used if she's already attracted to you)

"And?"

or

"Have an affair, act like an adult for once."





Jay-Z, back when he was good, spitting some real game in the 2nd verse.