Post: #1

Do you make some comments when girls show they are not interested?

I am not talking about calling her bitch or fat. that is really loser attitude.
I am talking about witty comments that's not bitter and that will make her feel dumb.

several things happened last night.

-We were having a good conversation. her friend wanted to pee and she said she wanted to pee too. she said 'I will be right back in 2 minutes. stay here' obviously, I didn't buy into that bullshit and talked to another girl right after.
I ran into her again. she gave me a hug and said the same thing.
I just said 'go ahead' and didn't stick around there.
Maybe I should've said something like 'take your time, you don't have to come back'?

-this girl said she had a husband. so I told her 'good for you, impressive' (meaning I can't believe a guy settled down with her)
She said she also got 5 kids. I told her 'that's not enough to scare me away, you should have at least 6 kids to do that' she laughed and I left.

-I approached this girl. during conversation, her friend came and started hugging her. (typical girls move to get rid of guys)
I just looked at them and left.
Maybe I should've made some comment before I leave?

-I approached this girl. after just exchanging couple comments. she said 'nice meeting you' so I told her 'nice meeting you too, I will look around' (not sure if it made sense. I meant saying 'I will browse more items aka women')



When girls shows such behaviors, usually guys smile and leave.
but you can tell their defeated look. (I am sure I do the same. I just can't see myself)
I'd rather make a funny comments and leave like I don't give a damn.

Am I thinking about this too much?

Post: #2

Why are you hitting up married women with 5 kids? (if she was interested/looking she probably wouldn't bring it up at all - those sorts of shittests aren't really worth it)

You are over-thinking it. If you aren't an interesting man, women aren't going to be interested... especially when you are out in a bar.

I think you need to practice speaking more with people. It sounds like you may be coming across as weird or awkward to these chicks.

Post: #3

(05-12-2013 04:45 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  We were having a good conversation. her friend wanted to pee and she said she wanted to pee too. she said 'I will be right back in 2 minutes. stay here' obviously, I didn't buy into that bullshit and talked to another girl right after.

If it was good, she wouldn't have left. Sounds like you were placeholding.

Quote:I ran into her again. she gave me a hug and said the same thing.
I just said 'go ahead' and didn't stick around there.
Maybe I should've said something like 'take your time, you don't have to come back'?

Who says you have to say anything?

Quote:-this girl said she had a husband. so I told her 'good for you, impressive' (meaning I can't believe a guy settled down with her)
She said she also got 5 kids. I told her 'that's not enough to scare me away, you should have at least 6 kids to do that' she laughed and I left.

Her: "I have five kids"
You: "I'm sure the baby weight will come off one day. just keep hittin the treadmill"
or
"just now?"

Quote:-I approached this girl. during conversation, her friend came and started hugging her. (typical girls move to get rid of guys)
I just looked at them and left.
Maybe I should've made some comment before I leave?

What you did was run away when you were faced with an obstacle. Next time: don't. When the adrenaline hits, choose fight instead of flight. Plant your feet and say the first stupid thing that comes to mind. Just blurt shit out. It doesn't matter what you say, you just gotta swing.

Quote:-I approached this girl. after just exchanging couple comments. she said 'nice meeting you' so I told her 'nice meeting you too, I will look around' (not sure if it made sense. I meant saying 'I will browse more items aka women')

Again, ask yourself why you said anything at all. Do you owe her an explanation? Do you think she thought it was nice to meet you? If she thought it really was nice to meet you, would she have left?

Quote:When girls shows such behaviors, usually guys smile and leave.
but you can tell their defeated look. (I am sure I do the same. I just can't see myself)
I'd rather make a funny comments and leave like I don't give a damn.

But you can hear yourself. If you're saying the same things the dudes are saying in the same situation, you probably look the same too.

Quote:Am I thinking about this too much?

No way, reflection is good as long as you move on. That's why writing it down quick is so important. It gives you the sense that you put in your best, fair judgement will come, then you can move on.

Keep it up!

Post: #4

or "you know you're not supposed to be drinking while you're breastfeeding right?

Post: #5

Hey, I didn´t really figure out where to post my question, so I thought it would be nice to do it here, hope it´s ok.
I was out this Saturday trying to do some game. Unfortunately I have no friends that are interested in learning any of the techniques described on here, so I am pretty much on my own. The weird thing I came over during my solo trip was this one girl (I would say she was a 7), as I started to talk to her and further out in the conversation it felt like she got depressed, she would tell me how much she hated the clubs and hated going out.
What does this mean? Have anyone else encountered this negative attitude?

Answers are much appreciated!

Post: #6

OP I think you are doing just fine with your game.

You needed to be a bit more persistent on that last one though. Her saying "it was nice to meet you" is by no means and excuse to ditch the set.
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Post: #7

I donno why you said "I'll look around", but other than that you did fine.