Post: #51

(06-04-2013 10:06 AM)capote Wrote:  To the OP: How old are you?

If you are young (early 20s or younger), you can come to Europe as an Au-Pair for a short term (< 1 year). Its not unheard of for families to have male au-pairs. And I don't have to tell you how easy it is to tap into endless international au-pair poonani once you are actually one of them.

33, so i think that is not an option...
I will do what is the smartest thing to do: Travel to europe with the idea to go to new places, meet new cultures and people,and as a side adventure meet this girl in person regardless of the outcome.. thats it..

Post: #52

(06-04-2013 10:28 AM)Scarecr0w Wrote:  

(06-04-2013 10:06 AM)capote Wrote:  To the OP: How old are you?

If you are young (early 20s or younger), you can come to Europe as an Au-Pair for a short term (< 1 year). Its not unheard of for families to have male au-pairs. And I don't have to tell you how easy it is to tap into endless international au-pair poonani once you are actually one of them.

33, so i think that is not an option...
I will do what is the smartest thing to do: Travel to europe with the idea to go to new places, meet new cultures and people,and as a side adventure meet this girl in person regardless of the outcome.. thats it..

"male au-pairs"?

You really do learn something new everyday on this forum.

Post: #53

(06-04-2013 10:55 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  "male au-pairs"?

You really do learn something new everyday on this forum.

Ripleys believe it or not, I used to be an Au Pair.

I used to have a soccer coach, I would play with his 3 sons after soccer practice, the kids took a liking to me. I became a family friend. They asked me to baby sit one day and offered to pay me pretty good.

I went to their house and set up a big soccer game on the front yard. A bunch of kids from the neighborhood joined the game. Just me and about 8 kids. It was hot, it was the summer. I took my shirt off, I was 21 and in the best shape of my life.

A few moms came by, we chatted, we flirted. I told them that I like to baby sit boys because we can just play sports all day and the boys love it.

I ended up Au Pairing for a few families in that neighborhood. Basically, I was the only babysitter in town willing to organize, officiate, commentate, and score keep sporting events for young boys. I had a microphone set up to a stereo so I could announce their names just like a pro match. That was what really got'um.

It became a weekly thing. All the little dudes would wear the favorite uniforms and all their fancy equipment. We just played ball for a few hours.

It was like athletic-alpha training for boys.

This is how I made my name in the wealthy suburbs of San Francisco. Teaching their sons how to play hard and without fear. They paid well. I learned a lot about subtle flirting from the wealthy moms.

Post: #54

Gio, you should keep doing the sportscamp thing. Zero expenses, good money.

I did tennis camp at Pepperdine, swim camp in Asia, and hockey camp in the USA. It was all expensive, but my parents loved paying for it.

Post: #55

This newspaper story shows you have done this before.

'Fruitcake stalker' who sailed 2,500 miles to propose to British waitress: Turkish admirer's seven-year odyssey ends in arrest... begged her to marry him

The girl is cute, but the fruitcake stalker looks like George Clooney.

Post: #56

Gio,

I think what you were was a "coach" not a "male au-pair".

Post: #57

I think G is correct in so far as au pairs are concerned in the US. There is maybe 1 male au pair for 20 girls, it's pretty unusual. Au pairs live with their families and make about $200/week, at least in the DC area. There is an age cutoff of 27 for the au pair program (i.e. to get visa based on being an au pair) because they feel that these women would only be doing it to find a husband (which is what many au pairs do anyway).

Post: #58

I am trying to find a way to date au pair girls. I dated one for about 3 months. Great girl. Great sex and she wasn't staying long anyways.

Au pair girls are a gem in my opinion.

They normally don't know anyone apart from a couple other au pair girls. So they are looking for "friends".

They are not American women.

Free house to sleep in when you want to visit their country.

Does any one have a way to getting within striking distance of these girls?

Post: #59

I haven't seen any cute au pairs yet in DC. The ones I've seen so far have been unattractive.