Post: #1

Two weeks in Poland made me soft.

Or it could have been Poland anyway. Whatever it is, I don't have any desire to approach. I'm surrounded by women at this bar in Vegas and I literally don't give a shit about talking to any of them.

I'm trying to figure out why that is. Anyone ever had this happen? For the record, I'm probably bordering on alcoholic and haven't slept much lately.

Post: #2

Bump to newbie forum if you like

I did run some decent text game on a girl from Tinder, she's showing signs of life. That might be contributing to the issue. When I have one girl in the pipeline, by whatever definition of the meaning you call it, I drastically taper off extracurricular activities. Call me traditional.

Post: #3

aphelion, sorry to hear that. I don't have a many suggestions, I think you are a pretty smart guy and will figure out will work for you.

I imagine your view of life has been changed by, what seems like, a positive experience in Poland. So it is a matter of adjusting to your new knowledge.

Not sure if you have been following this thread /thread-25311.html
He had a bit of an adjustment issue coming back to LA.


This is a just a "hope things get better." post.

S

Post: #4

Sometimes banging puss loses it's luster.

I take a week or two off, do manly things (squats, weighted pull-ups and dips, MMA etc...)

Take some zinc


You'll involuntarily get boners and seek out a pussy with a renewed vigor.

Taking a break from game allows you to view yourself and game objectively and adjust to improve it.

Post: #5

I don't see a lack of killer instinct, I just see a change in focus. You are not motivated to chase right now.

Forget about girls and sex. Focus on things that excite you.

Or, get some work done.

Career, health, diet, fitness, rest, studying, family, friends.

There are many things to do other then chase pussy.

Pussy is often a great distraction to man.

Post: #6

With both women and work, I have found that lack of desire and procrastination is actually a deep-rooted fear of failure. It's the brain's way of saying "I give up."

Maybe the environment isn't conducive to the particular game you're good at and you're uncomfortable? My guess is it's this and you're having trouble acclimating back to American women after being in Poland.

Post: #7

Excellent advice all. And thanks for the kind words.

I'm trying to figure out how to get back to Poland presently. Without going into too much detail, I've suddenly had a giant window of opportunity open up.

Post: #8

Went through MGM tonight and bumped into a group of 6 - 3 guys and 3 girls, though it was just 2 and 2 at the outset. Opened them with my McDonald's cheeseburger. 'I am SO glad they're still open,' I said, waving it in the air. 'I was SO hungry.' The girls jumped in and the conversation naturally flowed. The other guy and girl joined us and we had a fun conversation going. I was slick, on time and dominated the conversation. It was a shitty situation - it was literally 3 couples, 2 of them married - although one of the girls took quite a liking to me. She was one of the married ones, yet kept touching my arm with hers and all of that stuff and saying she LUVVED me and all of that. Low-probability situation there and I don't really think I missed a bang. But frankly it was just fun to be out and interacting with people for a change. One of the guys went busto on craps and the whole party split, leaving me at the craps table waiting for the white Russian I ordered and the rum and coke that my future lover ordered. $2 tip to the waitress and I was set for the rest of the night. It was 3:30AM and I decided to call it a night.

Nice to slip out of a player's funk.

And as far as Vegas goes, I think that I'm seeing a strong value in having a prop to open with. The cheeseburger aside, I saw this guy with his buddy on the craps table with a mask on the back of his head. The mask, apparently, was his buddy's face from England who was having a bachelor party, except he couldn't make it for whatever reason. His partner showed me his cell phone picture, and he had girls wearing the mask while showing their tits, using it to cover up their crotches, etc. I was blown away. Serious 'center of attention' game at work there. I think I might try it next time I'm down here.