Post: #1

Hungout with girl. We couldnt go to mine/her place to bang (she asked if we could go back to my place) so we fooled around outside a bit. We said we should meet the next day.. texted her, no reply. Then the next day I texted her saying we should meet again. She replied saying yes we should and it'd be a fun time. I tried to arrange a meet.. no reply.

She leaves to start college out of state soon. So what can I do? I want this bang but if she really wanted to, she wouldnt have ignored me a few times. Whats up with this

Post: #2

Were you guys drinking when you first hungout? If so, then any plans you make durring that period of inebriation should be mutually known that said plan won't workout.

I wouldn't have texted her the day after. If you made a solid connection then waiting a day or two later before trying to meetup would have probably done the trick.

When you say you fooled around outside for a bit, what exactly did you guys do?

How long have you guys known each other?

Post: #3

We didn't drink at all. We made out a bit and she told me she wishes she could have gone back to her place with me. I texted her the next day because she leaves for college in a few days so it's really now or never

Post: #4

Ah, who knows, maybe she is spending her time with her girlfriends and family before she goes back. That night you made out could have been the last opportunity.

Post: #5

Yea but why is she ignoring

Post: #6

(08-23-2013 10:09 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  Yea but why is she ignoring

We can't know this for sure, but most likely because she is going to college and putting all her focus on that, not on a one night stand that didn't happen.

Post: #7

Gotta keep pushin

invite her to a walk in the park
invite her to toss a ball in the park
intvite her to cook dinner
invite her to listen some new cool album

keep pushin

you have about a week to do this before she goes away

flirt via text in b/w the invites.

call her if all else fails

zero sum game.

Post: #8

To get it with one woman, you need to be able to get it with women in general.

She senses that you don't have other options.

Post: #9

I do but Eastern Europeans get priority

Post: #10

(08-24-2013 07:08 AM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  I do but Eastern Europeans get priority

This

Post: #11

I think its because she senses blood in the water. She knows that you're aware she's leaving soon and you asking her out gives her the feeling you want the hook up before she goes MIA. Switch it up with bullshit chatter and flirt via text, not bringing up the topic of hanging out. If she brings up the topic of seeing each other say something like "I have some things going on this week, but we'll see. Then a day or two later invite her out again.