Post: #1

Events so far

Made out several times
Got number and she has mine

one day later
Her: Did you get home ok
Her: Hey you okay
Me: Good good do you want to hang out later this week
Her: Yeah sounds good
Me: How about thursday around 7
Her Im working thursday night
2 hours pass
Her: You free another time?
Me: Which evenings are you not working
Her: Monday, tuesday, wednesday, saturday
Me: Wednesday around 8?
Her: Yeah sounds good. What you fancy doing? Im a bit skint till Thursday
Me: Let me think of place. ill hit you up wednesday
Her: Okay x

-Next day she texts in the evening next day (2 days before we actually meet)

Her: Hey had a good day?

What do i text without this just being a boring conversation or send something that gets taken the wrong way and she lose attraction or change her mind just want to keep this simple before we meet then im good from there.

What would you guys do?

Post: #2

I'll let one of the text masters handle this one for you, but I gotta say it sounds to me like this one's in the oven.

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To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #3

Just keep normal conversation, short, a little witty. She's seeking a little bit of comfort before the date.

Sometimes you can keep the texting short and cut straight to logistics without being the dancing money.

Post: #4

Any examples?

Post: #5

There is such a thing as Over Gaming.

She's into you. That much is clear. Anytime a girl is initiating convo she's chasing. That's where you want her.

You've physically escalated, so she's prime for action.

Keep it simple: just text the logistics.

You: "XYZ bar Wed at 8. skirt and heels"

Her: blah blah blah

You're overthinking this.

Post: #6

(04-28-2014 04:48 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  There is such a thing as Over Gaming.

She's into you. That much is clear. Anytime a girl is initiating convo she's chasing. That's where you want her.

You've physically escalated, so she's prime for action.

Keep it simple: just text the logistics.

You: "XYZ bar Wed at 8. skirt and heels"

Her: blah blah blah

You're overthinking this.

I have already done that part yet shes text me before i said when i would hit her up with the plans for the meet up

Cock-funny i overgame her or she takes the wrong way or the boring "yeah good thanks how was yours?" i come off as boring

This is where im now stuck so what do i do?

Post: #7

(04-28-2014 04:52 PM)Player88 Wrote:  

(04-28-2014 04:48 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  There is such a thing as Over Gaming.

She's into you. That much is clear. Anytime a girl is initiating convo she's chasing. That's where you want her.

You've physically escalated, so she's prime for action.

Keep it simple: just text the logistics.

You: "XYZ bar Wed at 8. skirt and heels"

Her: blah blah blah

You're overthinking this.

I have already done that part yet shes text me before i said when i would hit her up with the plans for the meet up

Cock-funny i overgame her or she takes the wrong way or the boring "yeah good thanks how was yours?" i come off as boring

This is where im now stuck so what do i do?

You: great as always. saved the world and damsels in distress.

Her: lol! etc etc

It's a non-boring response that's cocky, but light. Don't get caught up in text hell.

Think about it this way: does texting past your logistics benefit you? She's down for the date. There's no reason to go on and on.

Other suggestions:

You: best day of my life.

Her: Why?

You: can't tell u over text but will Wed. c u then.

Doesn't matter what happened that day, it gets her intrigue and hamster spinning.

Less is more with girls. Less is more.

Post: #8

(04-28-2014 05:09 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(04-28-2014 04:52 PM)Player88 Wrote:  

(04-28-2014 04:48 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  There is such a thing as Over Gaming.

She's into you. That much is clear. Anytime a girl is initiating convo she's chasing. That's where you want her.

You've physically escalated, so she's prime for action.

Keep it simple: just text the logistics.

You: "XYZ bar Wed at 8. skirt and heels"

Her: blah blah blah

You're overthinking this.

I have already done that part yet shes text me before i said when i would hit her up with the plans for the meet up

Cock-funny i overgame her or she takes the wrong way or the boring "yeah good thanks how was yours?" i come off as boring

This is where im now stuck so what do i do?

You: great as always. saved the world and damsels in distress.

Her: lol! etc etc

It's a non-boring response that's cocky, but light. Don't get caught up in text hell.

Think about it this way: does texting past your logistics benefit you? She's down for the date. There's no reason to go on and on.

Other suggestions:

You: best day of my life.

Her: Why?

You: can't tell u over text but will Wed. c u then.

Doesn't matter what happened that day, it gets her intrigue and hamster spinning.

Less is more with girls. Less is more.

Think ignoring the text and just hit her up wednesday as planned if she asks ill just say i didnt see the text

Good move?

Post: #9

(04-28-2014 05:44 PM)Player88 Wrote:  Think ignoring the text and just hit her up wednesday as planned if she asks ill just say i didnt see the text

Good move?

You asked for specific advice for your situation, then McQueen gave you two different options, and now you want to go with neither.

(04-28-2014 04:52 PM)Player88 Wrote:  I have already done that part yet shes text me before i said when i would hit her up with the plans for the meet up

Cock-funny i overgame her or she takes the wrong way or the boring "yeah good thanks how was yours?" i come off as boring

This is where im now stuck so what do i do?

With the above you are thinking WAY WAY too much like a guy (logical). You are thinking she was supposed to wait for you to text her details. Here is what is happening:

<YOU> HURF DURF - WHY IS SHE TEXTING ME, I TOLD HER THAT I'D TEXT HER WEDNESDAY!!!! SHOULD I EVEN RESPOND TO HER? THIS DOES NOT COMPUTE.

<HER> OMG it's a nice day, I love this dress I'm wearing, things are great I wonder what we're going to do on Wednesday, crap I better shave my legs tomorrow...I wonder what he's doing, I'm going to text him. [Then she texts you and afterwards...] Oh look a squirrel! Squirrels are SOOOOO CUTE.

Bottom line: She's thinking of you. If you don't want to text her, don't, but for christ's sake, if you ask what to do next and people give you good suggestions why would you decide to just ignore the text?

Post: #10

^agreed.

Plus why is there two threads of this?

I'm starting to sense a

Post: #11

(04-28-2014 04:11 PM)Player88 Wrote:  Events so far

Made out several times
Got number and she has mine

one day later
Her: Did you get home ok
Her: Hey you okay
Me: Good good do you want to hang out later this week
Her: Yeah sounds good
Me: How about thursday around 7
Her Im working thursday night
2 hours pass
Her: You free another time?
Me: Which evenings are you not working
Her: Monday, tuesday, wednesday, saturday
Me: Wednesday around 8?
Her: Yeah sounds good. What you fancy doing? Im a bit skint till Thursday
Me: Let me think of place. ill hit you up wednesday
Her: Okay x

-Next day she texts in the evening next day (2 days before we actually meet)

Her: Hey had a good day?

What do i text without this just being a boring conversation or send something that gets taken the wrong way and she lose attraction or change her mind just want to keep this simple before we meet then im good from there.

What would you guys do?

I've got this. Tell me what the last thing sent back and forth was as of now.

Quote: You: "XYZ bar Wed at 8. skirt and heels"

Yeah that doesn't work in every case.

Post: #12

I haven't text back since she sent "Hey had a good day?" Yesterday night.

Post: #13

"Yeah that doesn't work in every case"

^That's right, I forgot trailer park girls don't own heels.

Post: #14

(04-29-2014 02:25 AM)Player88 Wrote:  I haven't text back since she sent "Hey had a good day?" Yesterday night.

Text back : Yeah busy though we can meet at place X at 8.

Post: #15

Christian McQueen Wrote:You: great as always. saved the world and damsels in distress.

Her: lol! etc etc

It's a non-boring response that's cocky, but light. Don't get caught up in text hell.

This.

Don't overcomplicate it, OP. You're viewing her showing interest and making your life easy as some sort of bomb trigger that you need to deal with carefully. Nothing could be further from the truth. Just engage in some light-hearted conversation and that's it - she isn't going to run away before the date.

Post: #16

She's trying to make you her chat buddy in a last attempt to make you fail a shit test. Just answer with "There's an awesome place near XX, I'll meet/take you there". Don't get into her frame.