Post: #1

I have just recently graduated from college, I moved back home and found a job that requires a 40+ hour week. other than my two days off in the middle of the week I almost have no time for game.

My schedule is basically work, gym, home, sleep. On my days off i manage maybe one good approach between the two days

Obviously to get laid you need to approach, has anyone else been in this situation that could give me some advice on how to make some time for game.

Post: #2

There are dudes who are way more busy than you who make it work. Depends how much you care about getting laid.

- Online dating
- Daygaming during your break at work
- Bars on Friday/Saturday nights

Look for opportunities and you will see them, look for excuses and you will get them..

Post: #3

Online game, day game, etc. Examine your day and try to figure out how you can economize your time. For example, would you be more productive at home if you spent your time doing what you need to versus screwing around with email/Facebook/watching TV? Most people who complain about having little or no time don't realize how much time they waste screwing around on the Internet.

I was (and still occasionally am) guilty of that.

Post: #4

I'm in the exact same situation. I'm in med school and the school and studying eats up all my free time, its so frustrating. I'm going to move to online / tinder and see how it goes.

Post: #5

You need maybe 2 hours on an off day in a high foot traffic area of girls. Once a week.
Bring some lanaguage lessons on your phone. Get a coffee or a few beers.

Approach 10 girls.

Doing this you should get 1 new attractive girl a month.

1/40.

12 new bangs of attractive girls in a year. That's probably double or even 4x the amount of attractive girls an average guy bangs in his life.

Cut this in half it is still a new bang every 2 months. If you harem a couple you will have your hands full.

Post: #6

i defiantly hear you guys that you have to create something for yourself. coming from college where there are opportunities everywhere to nothing its just a shock that im dealing with. I would try online but im not really a online dude im more of a old school face to face cat

Post: #7

yeah me too, i'm paranoid of putting my photos and information online, but you have to make game revolve around your life, not make your life revolve around game.

Post: #8

How old are you

Post: #9

^ Sketness

The way to solve your opportunity problem is to move back to a college town or to a city center that is good for game.

Do not waste your life on the outskirt of a city,
in a shit game city, or an empty suburb.

Plan to move *now*.

This is why living in a walkable city like Chicago, NYC, or abroad you can do all your gaming during your daily commute and lunch break...

Post: #10

(10-22-2014 12:34 AM)Sourcecode Wrote:  How old are you

just turned 24

Post: #11

hit salsa class couple times a week instead of going to the gym. problem solved

Post: #12

I work 9-5 m-f and work 10 hour days on weekends, I get home from the gym after work around 8 on weekdays.

I've worked out before work in the AM a few times, leaves me time to do whatever I want after work.

I still game, I still use tinder/okc, I still bang. - in a suburb mind you.

I still date and bang on weekdays and hit some bars on the weekends.

ALWAYS focus on your well being first, gaming second.

Sleep is for the dead - if you really want something, you'll make time for it.

Post: #13

I actually think being busy will help you with game once you're able to harem a few of the girls. I recently added a few, and since I'm very busy, I'm not consistent in responding to texts. This makes girls desire you more... you don't even have time to spend worrying about whether she likes you or not.

McQueen (and many others) have always said that the best game is when you get your life together and then allow women to simply be a part of it. Being busy allows you to do this naturally. I'm realizing this slowly now. Just meet girls casually throughout the day!

Post: #14

works 40+hour work week and no time for game?