Post: #26

I've got a pretty good one.

A couple of years ago, maybe 3, a girl who I'd recently met and had become part of my social group invited me round to her house just like that. I had wanted her from the moment I saw her. So, I went over. We smoked up, watched some films, and that's it. Nothing happened. I, not being in the best place at the time, assumed she wasn't interested in that way. Of course she was, and I blew my chance by not acting on it and went home the next day confused, and kicking myself mentally. I even heard it from my friends a while later that she had been totally up for it. Stupid!

Post: #27

A lot of the stories here happen before you are game-aware or too young, I don't think they should count. We didn't know better back then. It's only once you've seen the truth yet still act clueless that merits some good-hearted shaming.

So I propose the challenge: Most beta thing you did post red-pill awakening. It might be even more embarrassing since we knew we knew better

I'll start. I have a thing for blonde. One of my first red-pill nights I was out at my dance venue sarging and picked up one smoking hot Sicilian mixed Kazakhstan blonde. It went SO FUCKING SMOOTHLY I thought I was dreaming. Within 10min I was making out with her and grabbing her boobs. My mind was racing and I couldn't breath. Within 20 min I think she said "well I don't have to go home tonight" And I froze at the spot because I didn't know what to do... For the most cursed moment of my life, my scumbag brain decided to say "Well that's great. We can dance a little bit more. Let me get back to my friends first"

Of course when I came back for her she already left....

I still beat my head against the wall to this day. I was so fucking stupid, despite having read the forum and stuff. All I needed to say was "let's go to my place for a few more drinks etc." Not even a complicated opener. And I fucking didn't.

Post: #28

Put up with fat wife through ten plus years of marriage. Which is the equivalent of involuntary celibacy. Freaking torture. Took the red pill three years ago, dumped wife, happily gaming away. Amen

Post: #29

A more interesting story would be "the most beta thing I did AFTER discovering the game".

Post: #30

I took naughty pics and made a video of a hot-ass ex when I was 15-16.

I permanently deleted them as soon as we broke up because "I didn't want her to have that power over me."

Post: #31

Roosh, for me that would be texting busted baby mothers trying to fuk them coz I'm too lazy to go out and harvest fresh lizards from the field.

Post: #32

It is hard to admit but here goes.

I spent some time in a Polish city. I started hanging with a hot girl (8), but could not close the deal. I left for another country and started lining up some good prospects. As soon as I left, the Polish girl started messaging me a lot, asking when I was coming back, and acting all sweet. Against my better judgement, I returned to Poland to spend more time with this girl and of course she ended up blowing me off. Not only did I get blown off but I left a country where I was getting a good response.

Sometimes those Beta tendencies resurface. Lesson learned.

Post: #33

Beta-moments post-game is the real meat and potatoes. I have some good ones for you:

Last summer I go to a local gig at a bar in my city to see some friends' bands play. Smoking hot petite girl (already half in the bag) walks up and stands next to me and gets mad forward. Leaning up against me, flirting with me, talking to me asking all kinds of questions and smiling at me. I ask her to come to an after party at my buddy's house - she came to the show with a friend but ditched him and I bounce her anyway she gets more drunk at my buddy's house. Bang is basically guaranteed. I take her home. Bring her inside - girl is 100 lbs soaking wet so for some reason I decide she needs food in her belly because all she has done is serial slam beers all night and I decide I'm hungry too for some whack ass reason. I make a couple bowls of noodles and by the time I walk into my living room she is 100% comatosed on my couch. I gave her a good shake and she would not wake up. I sleep on the other couch and drive her home the next morning.

Fast forward 6 months or so - same girl at another show. We don't always get second chances in life so here's mine and I'm gonna cease it. She says she is supposed to be staying at her friends house in my city so I offer to give her a ride when I leave all the while I'm sure I can convince her to just come home with me. I'm ready to leave and she is absolutely smashed - whatever. We get into my car (I had 2 friends in the backseat too who I was also driving home). We don't even leave the fucking parking lot and she is a zombie. Can't even wake up to give me her friend's address so I can dump her vegetable ass off there. I drop my buddies off, hen bring her to my place and carry her into my apartment and put her to sleep on my couch. I drive her home next day. I guess that's more kinda getting stuck with it/being responsible. Still gay as fuck.

Got attached to a LTR earlier this year. Was tough-guy Mr. Alpha for a solid 4 months and she ate it right up, then I started catching feelings. I started getting commitment happy and being obvious about it - she dried up like a fucking desert and started blowing me off (likely started seeing someone else toward the latter end). Had a couple gay phone conversations where I tried convincing her she was reading me all wrong etc. Fucking cringe worthy. She wasn't even that great looking or a very good match for me. Ugh the fuck is wrong with me.

My pre-red-pill stories are dreadful...

Post: #34

(12-05-2014 03:20 PM)Roosh Wrote:  A more interesting story would be "the most beta thing I did AFTER discovering the game".

Basically what I proposed

Post: #35

Post red pill? Two days ago. Cute girl in computer lab eye fucking the hell out of me, caught her three times in 30 min. She sat down next me me yesterday and I could feel her heart pounding, but didn't open up. No excuses, I channeled Betamus Maximus. I have to dial back on the Theanine too... It makes me too lazy. Do you guys take the full dosage?

Post: #36

I'm age 27 and dating a girl 2 years younger. She asks my 33 year old buddy what he looks for in a girl and he says "girls under 30" and she flies off the handle... Saying he just has no right to date girls who are only younger.

She bitched all night about it. I defended my friend (I wasn't that big a bitch) but secretly thought he was wrong and should date girls his own age.

At least I defended him so I get points for that.
Being a secret beta bitch 6/10.

Post: #37

^above post was 3 years ago. Tense fail.

Post: #38

(12-05-2014 05:01 PM)thyalmightyrhino Wrote:  Post red pill? Two days ago. Cute girl in computer lab eye fucking the hell out of me, caught her three times in 30 min. She sat down next me me yesterday and I could feel her heart pounding, but didn't open up. No excuses, I channeled Betamus Maximus. I have to dial back on the Theanine too... It makes me too lazy. Do you guys take the full dosage?

What is the full dosage?

Post: #39

The most beta thing I ever did was having even the slightest doubts about red pill and female hypergamy, with a hard fucking wake up call to finally set me straight for good.

Post: #40

A few years ago I was briefly dating a solid 8 or 8.5. When I'd go over to visit her I wouldn't even bring condoms because in my head I was telling myself that I wanted her to show her that I respect her or some such bull shit. We would make out but I wouldn't push too far because I didn't want to "pressure" her.

She quickly "broke up" with me because she "wasn't ready for a relationship." Two weeks later her status on Facebook changed to "In a Relationship" with some other guy.

A month or two after that I sent her some sentimental message on Facebook. I forgot exactly what I wrote. I could look it up in my message archives, but I'm sure that it's much too cringeworthy. She never got back to me.

Post: #41

Drove a girl I was friendzoned with to another guy's house so they could make out after I picked her up from a party. Waited in my car fuming while they did, decided I'd take off. She calls me asking to pick her up and take her home, so I did. I get to this guy's house and she's making out with him against his garage, sat and waited for 5 minutes.

She gets in the car and I called the guy a faggot out my window and drove off. Because obviously he was being the faggot, not me.

I drive this girl home, yelling at her the whole time for doing that in front of me and putting me through that. She asked why it bothered me and I didn't even nut up and tell her I wanted her. Remained friendzoned with her for the rest of high school.

I've done some pretty beta shit, but that's the worst by a long shot. This forum is probably the greatest thing that's happened for me.

Post: #42

She punched me in the face and I cried. Oneitis almost destroyed me. I'm glad it all happened, I'll never sink that low again for the rest of my life.

Post: #43

In light of Roosh's comment: ""the most beta thing I did AFTER discovering the game"

That would be: LTR bitch I had successfully maintained gaming throughout entire relationship relatively well, got to know her family and really got along with her dad who was all around cool respectable dude.

I helped do a half-day's free work around her parent's house on the weekend, they're in their 60s so it was a 'help the old folks' kind of gesture. Now this LTR bitch really didn't deserve, by proxy, that I do anything particularly nice for her or her family like this. She was more of a long-term extended fuck buddy I was on the fence about ever falling completely for, she always wanted more, I did not, but hid it well.

No sooner did I help out her parents I caught her in contact with an ex-fuck of her's, and dumped her ass for good on the spot. It was like the moment I did anything substantial to help her out, even her family, I was immediately seen as less respectable and she strayed. Like clockwork.

Lesson Learned: Do NOT do a single thing for an undeserving bitch. Always keep a deficit of kind gestures in your favor, and that doesn't include just giving up the ass.

Post: #44

I dated a girl I didn't like for over two years because I was scared to hurt her feelings. I rode it out until she dumped me.

Post: #45

Well I can think of several 'most beta' things:
back then when I wanted chicks i really desired, I messed up the most. I once basically tried to pressure a girl into being mine by causing her to feel sympathy for me. I recall the night sending her texts when I realised she wasn't biting and even admitting that I was crying about it.
once more pursuing a chick who wasn't interested in me. We were meant to meet at the mall but she was late and I ended up waiting for her for over two hours and still bought her ice-cream when she showed up (what's frame again?)
the first time I had a girlfriend who was close to my ideal in terms of physique I utterly became an invertebrate cardboard 'man'. I put her on a pedestal and bought her many gifts, always eating out, didn't establish frame, calling and texting her everyday and treating her like a God. Needless to say, she left me within 3 months.
more recently it has been LTR'ng with a used up 29 year old.

Post: #46

I only took the red pill recently so still making a lot of mistakes however the worst thing I have done so far is be on a date with a girl who was giving me every IOI under the sun and yet I still pussied out on the escalation and didn't even get a kiss. Typing this I still can't believe I didn't do anything.

Post: #47

Oneitis for sure.

Also friending a girl who I should've banged, in order to get to her friend, who I didn't bang.

Post: #48

This is me bearing it all here fellas. I have an extremely recent story.

This has happened over the past couple weeks. I didn't mention it in my previous post because I wanted to see how this past weekend's date panned out before I spilled the beans.

There is this cute girl that works in finance at my company. I had eyes for her since she started so I struck up dialogue with her and asked her out to lunch one day. We hit it off, got her number, and made legit date plans the following week. I have now gone on 3 dates with her and I haven't even so much as kissed her - I have tried to but she has turned me down saying she "takes a while to warm up." You know those cringe-worthy moments when you go to make a move on a girl and she physically turns away and pulls back and tries to change the subject and shit gets awkward? Yeah... its been like that. Because she seems so meek, sweet, and innocent I have been involuntarily putting on the nice guy act and being a total chump with her walking her to her car, making dinner, and generally being a "gentleman." Despite this, she still wants to hang out and I still have a date lined up with her tomorrow, and her being almost 100% physically unavailable to me hasn't made me tell her to get lost yet.

Truth be told, she is incredibly conservative (read: not slutty), very feminine, nurturing, and submissive as fuck and will seemingly do whatever I want to do and go where ever I want to go (as long it has nothing to do with her and I being physical with one another?) and it makes me think she may be a good girl to keep around long term. What is wrong with me.

Post: #49

(12-08-2014 12:29 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Despite this, she still wants to hang out and I still have a date lined up with her tomorrow, and her being almost 100% physically unavailable to me hasn't made me tell her to get lost yet.

Truth be told, she is incredibly conservative (read: not slutty), very feminine, nurturing, and submissive as fuck and will seemingly do whatever I want to do and go where ever I want to go (as long it has nothing to do with her and I being physical with one another?) and it makes me think she may be a good girl to keep around long term. What is wrong with me.

General, do not go to this date and cease all kinds of contact with her! No way is she conservative, she rather seems like a first-class manipulator.

Post: #50

(12-08-2014 12:29 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  This is me bearing it all here fellas. I have an extremely recent story.

This has happened over the past couple weeks. I didn't mention it in my previous post because I wanted to see how this past weekend's date panned out before I spilled the beans.

There is this cute girl that works in finance at my company. I had eyes for her since she started so I struck up dialogue with her and asked her out to lunch one day. We hit it off, got her number, and made legit date plans the following week. I have now gone on 3 dates with her and I haven't even so much as kissed her - I have tried to but she has turned me down saying she "takes a while to warm up." You know those cringe-worthy moments when you go to make a move on a girl and she physically turns away and pulls back and tries to change the subject and shit gets awkward? Yeah... its been like that. Because she seems so meek, sweet, and innocent I have been involuntarily putting on the nice guy act and being a total chump with her walking her to her car, making dinner, and generally being a "gentleman." Despite this, she still wants to hang out and I still have a date lined up with her tomorrow, and her being almost 100% physically unavailable to me hasn't made me tell her to get lost yet.

Truth be told, she is incredibly conservative (read: not slutty), very feminine, nurturing, and submissive as fuck and will seemingly do whatever I want to do and go where ever I want to go (as long it has nothing to do with her and I being physical with one another?) and it makes me think she may be a good girl to keep around long term. What is wrong with me.

I assume you had her alone at your (or her) place and didn't even make out? If she resisted at that point its game over.