Post: #51

(05-11-2011 02:39 PM)Moma Wrote:  That guy just needs to put a bandana on, place a stoagie in his mouth and clutch a bottle of rum and stand at a jaunty angle.

He'll be balls deep in cooch before you can say blueberry pie.

Agreed. If I were that guy, I would have to beat back the droves of white girls, Latinas, and black babes I'd be attracting on a daily basis with a rolled-up piece of naan. I would do this:

1. Grow my hair out and corn-row the shit out of it.

2. Grow my beard out and crop it tight and even.

3. Wear a small hoop earring in the correct ear and a bunch of bomb-ass, expensive accessories like Prada shades and a Patek Phillippe watch.

4. Get some gangster-looking tattoos flaunting my Indian pride (like an angry-looking trumpeting elephant and sanskrit prayers).

5. Take diction and accent-elimination classes.

6. Work-the-fuck-out like gangbusters.

7. Wear all-white suits and woven moccasin-style shoes with no socks or matching track suits with addidas.

8. Learn how to dance bhangra like a champ.

9. Dust my balls with baking soda and corn starch and irritate the shit out of my neighbors by blasting this kick-ass song on loop while I'm getting ready to go out every night.

Post: #52

Lmao. Awesome suggestions especially #9.

Post: #53

(05-11-2011 02:27 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  in all honesty if you look like this guy your are gonna be at a severe disadvantage when gaming women.

Give that guy a cool haircut, change his style, put a bit of muscle on him and he will probably look better than 90% of the wannabe black rappers out there.

Post: #54

This whole indian guy having no game, low-self esteem, can't get with hot girls stems from the fact that they're raised to be polite, gentlemen like, and being good boys...but it's becoming to extreme these days. I'm an indian guy(born in india but raised here in los angeles for over 20 years, I am 27 now), and i swear to you, i have indian cousins/friends that pull girls. Not always the hottest or best from the bunch, but they definitely can pull if someone dared them or just wanted to get laid. The indian guys that aren't too good in the dating game are the same ones that just haven't grown any balls/guts and are always worried what their friends/family would think or in general very shy. Theres just too many of those indian guys. My advice to growing guts is learn some martial arts, do some physical contact sports basically, that will start training your mind to becoming less worried or always being pussy. Thats how I matured and got with ladies. And shiit, none of my cousins/friends really helped lol...i just decided to do it, and never looked back.

The Indian guys here in los angeles are either fit/athletic/workout have a social life, or the complete opposite...lol no grey in between. And even if your the type of indian guy that just can't pick up game and tried and failed repeatedly, keep improving yourselves in other ways, going to the gym is a definite must and thats where indian guys need to start putting more time in general. Everytime I go to the gym I see just about every race except indian lol...and when I see indian guys, they don't take it very seriously, its like they're just there to kill time. And I'm sure the ladies at the gym aren't impressed by it.

Let me share an experience that shows how important it is for a guy to be in shape at the very least: I go to the gym regularly like couple times a week, not everyday or anything, and over time i got bigger more cut etc...and as soon as I was showing results, more ladies started to approach me. Most are not up-front when they approach you, they act like they're looking for something or in general ask "help me" questions. Now any guy with a brain and some level of self-esteem would realize the girl can ask anyone, so if she's taking the time to walk over to you then for sure she's got some interest in you. And thats it! it doesn't take much more to get attention from women...And I don't talk like a gentlemen or extremely polite to them, i play around with their questions like "can't you read" lol, or "sure give me a couple of mins"...lol, and they laugh it off.

Another problem with indian guys is they rarely ever help their indian friends advance in life in terms of socially or getting women. They just point fingers lol or just pretend like its not their problem. And I have to tell you, thats just f'd up. Everytime I'm with my cousins or friends, I take the initiative to help them out, not to say I do everything or I'm a push over, its more like I do things to back them up or help them out with their situation. It helps them, which in turn helps me b/c it looks good in front of other people, and people start getting a better perception of us. It's like the "what goes around comes around" effect.

And god dammit, stop reading these topics about indain guys not being able to get girls etc and totally let it control your life or depress you, it should'nt be taken that seriously, if anything learn from it or just don't let it bother you at all...thats it. For every indian guy posting about having no game and not getting laid, there are more out there that are getting plenty of action, like me for instance.

And for all the indian sluts out there blaming their own race for w/e reason, you all need to stfu and start contributing instead of adding to the problem...lazy bitches.

Post: #55

Oh and one last thing, indian guys need to stop treating indian women like queens, its seriously ruining our chances getting laid or getting freaky(lol) with our own women. Because as soon as you start treating a bitch like she's the only hot bitch in the world, she'll expect more and more, and the shiit never ends. Women are evil and cynical as fuck, and completely shameless in their game, so be a man, take charge and let that bitch know whose wearing the pants in the relationship. Dont be a jerk directly necessarily, just don't treat them like queens. Seriously I've several indian women in the past that have these double standards for indian men, like they have to be rich or very good looking or both BUT they have no standards or concerns about guys of other ethnicities, its just fucked up how we indians are raising our women, its totally screwing it up for us. Not to mention its boring always being nice.

Post: #56

RSD Saad on being Indian~

Quote:I see guys who are full panjabi sikhs, with the turban/beard... the whole shibang, come on program and OWN it with the ladies.

And then I see guys like you who have pretty much decided to themselves that being Indian is the problem, and won't even approach.

You'll get no sympathy from me. I grew up in the racist South and had it worse than any Indian I personally know in terms of oppressive, racist attitudes. But I'm glad -- it gave me the fuel to be who I am today. I had no 'community' to fall back on. I figured myself out... that's why I'm unique. The school of hard knocks.

You say there's no sexy Indian/Western stereotypes. I know many. But I don't even want to argue with you about it, because the distinction isn't going to go away in your mind while you sit there and RATIONALIZE reasons to not TAKE ACTION.

Whether you're Indian who blames racism or a WASPy guy from Connecticut who blames social circle pressure and the stature of his family... EVERY GUY ON EARTH has really good reasons to not approach. And really good justifications as to why sets go badly when they do (and they WILL. Always.).

Pick-up is not a practice for excuse-makers. Its for people who've decided that they WILL break the mold. Be your own stereotype. (Or just get rich and marry a Russian-bride... she'll definitely know what Bollywood is, since they shoved it down her throat during the Cold War).

Once again, no sympathy. Go out there and do it. You'll realize how stupid your old beliefs were after a while through your own experience. In fact... you're lucky... you have a community to wing with. Try going out as an Indian in Baton Rouge, Louisiana on your own for a few years, then get back to me about what's 'not fair'.

Sorry if you can't handle the tough love, but I don't know how else to say it without feeling like I'm lying to or coddling you -- get over the conditioning. Because the only reason it exists as a block to your success is the fact that its in YOUR HEAD. I'd recommend the Blueprint if you haven't already seen it.

Also... for the record... girls I know think Ryan looks like a 'little Mexican'... not an Indian.

Post: #57

Actually Indian srilankan dark skin types do well in scandinavia, Canada, and some parts of europe with more whitter skinned people but stay out of anywhere tanned or brown (africa, asia, carribean, latin america)

Post: #58

I get ignored in the US because I have dark hair, the US ladies have nazi complex and only like guys with blond hair and who are at least 6 1'. The funny thing is that those guys in the US make up a minority unless you are talking about upper midwestern states, Neither white american women are that tall to demand such tall guys, average young white american girl is not over 5'5 (165 cm)

Post: #59

Yeah, i do get a kick out of it that white women want a 6'3 man, really, do you only want to marry baseball players and guys from the oc or something.

But some white american women are very tall almost as tall as me 6'0

Post: #60

I am starting to really wonder about Indian guys and what the fuck the problem is. Again last night I'm talking with a girl and another one epic cockblocked me. Calling me a liar and almost yelling at me for talking to a girl sitting near him that he didn't even know.

Now this is the third time and also about the only three times I've even been around one of the dudes.

Would somebody please explain to me Why this is happening? I just don't get it and it's getting old now

Post: #61

(12-10-2011 12:28 PM)Derek Wrote:  I get ignored in the US because I have dark hair, the US ladies have nazi complex and only like guys with blond hair and who are at least 6 1'.

^^
This is nonsense. I'm blond and I hear plenty of women say they like dark hair. It's all bullshit, women don't know what they want.

There is no totem pole. As men who are predisposed to rating based on attractiveness in elaborate scales, we're tempted to project this same methodology onto how women view us, but it doesn't work that way.

Appeal to their emotions and you win. They're women, you can make them think whatever you want them to think.


P.S. - There are some outrageously hot Indian chicks in DC, it's one demographic that I think we've really got in spades.

Post: #62

95% of desi men have no game and get jealous when western men are hitting on desi women. Shit they get jealous when other desi men are hitting on women. They are many reasons why

1) If their FOB there not use to having other colors beside brown talking to women and for some reason think the women is being threatened.
2) Deep down inside they know Indian women prefer white guys to Indian males and try to hate.
3) They cant handle their alcohol.
4) They probably have more drama inside then females

Growing up in chicago, 5-6 years ago I use to pick up mad women left and right being a light skin pakistani, If I tried hard I could get away looking like wilmer valderrama. But ever since the desi explosion within the past few years ever night spot have floods of desi men acting like either douche bag drunks or typical creepy smelly stereotypical desi men, so by the time I approach women they already have a preset stereotypical image of what ill be like.

This is why I pretty much never hit on indian / pakistani women, not worth the headaches and drama. If they approach me, cool otherwise no thanks

Post: #63

(12-10-2011 02:48 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I am starting to really wonder about Indian guys and what the fuck the problem is. Again last night I'm talking with a girl and another one epic cockblocked me. Calling me a liar and almost yelling at me for talking to a girl sitting near him that he didn't even know.

Now this is the third time and also about the only three times I've even been around one of the dudes.

Would somebody please explain to me Why this is happening? I just don't get it and it's getting old now

I don't even hang out with most Indian guys at all, unless they have proven to me they're cool! Only a small minority are cool, and we tend to group together. Ask the other Indian guys on here, cool Indian men's worst enemies are the FOB Indian guys.

Of course most Indian guys can't get lizards, its because they're complete value seeking losers who are creepy as fuck. How will they able to attract women if even a guy like me is wary of them?

Post: #64

(12-10-2011 03:31 PM)torontokid Wrote:  

(12-10-2011 02:48 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I am starting to really wonder about Indian guys and what the fuck the problem is. Again last night I'm talking with a girl and another one epic cockblocked me. Calling me a liar and almost yelling at me for talking to a girl sitting near him that he didn't even know.

Now this is the third time and also about the only three times I've even been around one of the dudes.

Would somebody please explain to me Why this is happening? I just don't get it and it's getting old now

I don't even hang out with most Indian guys at all, unless they have proven to me they're cool! Only a small minority are cool, and we tend to group together. Ask the other Indian guys on here, cool Indian men's worst enemies are the FOB Indian guys.

Of course most Indian guys can't get lizards, its because they're complete value seeking losers who are creepy as fuck. How will they able to attract women if even a guy like me is wary of them?

And the cockblocking and freaking out is because?

Post: #65

The cooler laid back Indian bro's will come off more like Kal Penn's character Kumar from Harold & Kumar, lol. They're basically no different than any of the dudes on this forum. There are a LOT of the weird, antisocial ones (both FOB and the ABCD's that grew up here) that are cliquey & insecure and will screw things up in a social setting. Too many desi's (Indians, Southasians) are into money & status, showing off, etc.