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RE: Concert/festival game
(05-14-2011 11:02 AM)CupCake Wrote: ...Offer to "hang-out" after the show with as many people as you can.
This seems like a good opportunity to meet chicks when their guard's down. Game on!
I have not tried this but a few years ago a friend told stories of how he used to pull chicks from concerts. He said he would always pick the "freaky ones" (meaning the ones who would flash their boobs to the musicians), find them afterwards, then invited them for drinks/smokes/party back to his apartment and bang them.
How would you open this chick?
some options at the top of my head:
1: "Hey, daredevil (might be followed by her puzzled silence)"
2: "Hey..."
3: "Hey, nice (tatoo/accessory/anything "fascinating" she's wearing)
what's your name?"
4: "Hey, I thought you were backstage partying with (insert band) or you didn't get invited backstage? (feign disbelief)"
other chicks in the concert, what I would do:
approach with situational opener, concerts are full of situations to bring up like: how the crowd/audience behaved, how good the musicians are, anything crazy in the bathroom, etc.
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RE: Concert/festival game
(01-11-2018 08:50 AM)Hazaer Wrote: How have your experiences been at beerfests? Lets say the event starts from 2-10pm on a weekend. When would you head out and how would your plan to lead the interaction be? What kind of conversation topics would you touch on apart from the 'your drink any good?' opener?
The biggest challenge: How do you hook the sets in such a high energy environment? They will want to keep moving, it seems futile and a loss of frame trying to keep up. I was thinking getting the number and meeting up later after the event at a bar/club might work, anyone tried it with good responses?
Cheers
I have been to about five beer fests over the last two years and I have had very good luck.
I would recommend getting there a bit early (if not for the simple fact of waiting in line to get in). I suggest opening any cute girls you see standing in line. Nothing drawn out, more like a "hey, good day for beer drinking, huh?" or something small like that. Everybody is generally in a good mood as they anticipate getting fucked up (uhh I mean tasting all kinds of beer) so the energy is positive. Anyways, plant some seeds as chances are you'll run into a few of these girls later.
Once inside, partake in the beer activities and enjoy the festival. Either you'll run into some of the girls you talked to in line or you'll see new girls. After an hour or so, everyone has a good buzz going so that will make things easier. Of course like you mentioned "How's your beer/what type of beer are you sampling" is the standard convo starter, and I usually use that but then you parlay that into other topics. If your girl/girls walk away to get in line for another sample of beer, I usually don't follow them unless the convo is going good and I need a refill myself. "Oh, this IPA better be tasty or I'm blaming you and then dragging you to the Lambic line".
The beer festivals out here in the Midwest of the US usually don't last too long into the night (latest is around 9pm) so chances are people have plans afterwards. As the festival draws to a close, ask the girls what they are doing afterwards and play it from there.
Honestly I love beer fests and it makes gaming so much easier due to: alcohol, nice weather (spring/summer), people being in good spirits, and overall loose atmosphere. The only issue I run into is talking to girls and finding out they are there with their boyfriends/husbands. YMMV on that as you may push through but really there are so many girls there that I just move on to the next set.
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RE: Concert/festival game
(01-11-2018 09:49 AM)[email protected] Wrote: (01-11-2018 08:50 AM)Hazaer Wrote: How have your experiences been at beerfests? Lets say the event starts from 2-10pm on a weekend. When would you head out and how would your plan to lead the interaction be? What kind of conversation topics would you touch on apart from the 'your drink any good?' opener?
The biggest challenge: How do you hook the sets in such a high energy environment? They will want to keep moving, it seems futile and a loss of frame trying to keep up. I was thinking getting the number and meeting up later after the event at a bar/club might work, anyone tried it with good responses?
Cheers
I have been to about five beer fests over the last two years and I have had very good luck.
I would recommend getting there a bit early (if not for the simple fact of waiting in line to get in). I suggest opening any cute girls you see standing in line. Nothing drawn out, more like a "hey, good day for beer drinking, huh?" or something small like that. Everybody is generally in a good mood as they anticipate getting fucked up (uhh I mean tasting all kinds of beer) so the energy is positive. Anyways, plant some seeds as chances are you'll run into a few of these girls later.
Once inside, partake in the beer activities and enjoy the festival. Either you'll run into some of the girls you talked to in line or you'll see new girls. After an hour or so, everyone has a good buzz going so that will make things easier. Of course like you mentioned "How's your beer/what type of beer are you sampling" is the standard convo starter, and I usually use that but then you parlay that into other topics. If your girl/girls walk away to get in line for another sample of beer, I usually don't follow them unless the convo is going good and I need a refill myself. "Oh, this IPA better be tasty or I'm blaming you and then dragging you to the Lambic line".
The beer festivals out here in the Midwest of the US usually don't last too long into the night (latest is around 9pm) so chances are people have plans afterwards. As the festival draws to a close, ask the girls what they are doing afterwards and play it from there.
Honestly I love beer fests and it makes gaming so much easier due to: alcohol, nice weather (spring/summer), people being in good spirits, and overall loose atmosphere. The only issue I run into is talking to girls and finding out they are there with their boyfriends/husbands. YMMV on that as you may push through but really there are so many girls there that I just move on to the next set.
Interesting points. I was actually thinking not going early. If the festivals starts at 2pm and ends at 10pm and its summer, you get in at 2, you might run out of things to see or do by the time its about 7 or 8 with the bars not really busy yet. Maybe more families/older couples around? There is only so much beer to taste and people get tired walking around under the sun for hours. And even if you pulled someone solo, its difficult for the venue change unless its to your place which will not be as good as a bar if you have not established that level of comfort or if she has friends.
Also, if you meet someone, the time lapse between the afternoon to evening is greater if you want to meet up after the event during which more could have happened.
I was thinking along these lines:
Have a very light drink to get a little buzz -> head out at about 6-7pm -> Have a drink or 2 at the venue -> Approach & get numbers to agree on plans after 9 or 10 and eject -> Have food to sober up a little while hopefully sitting next to a fun group of people, possibly making plans for a venue change with them -> More beer -> At this point things will be slowing down at the beer stalls, but more people at the music venue which is bad for approaching when they are interested in the music. Maybe, approach the ones who are just standing around -> leave the beerfest hopefully with company to the nearest bar for a drink -> Text the numbers from before to meet up at the bar
I guess its still going to be hard because people would be coming in massive groups and keen to have fun with their friends instead, most want to return to their friends. Infact, I m wondering if just hitting the bars or clubs on that night might be better if one is not really into the beer as that might be the time that they might be looking to meet new people.
Comments?
(This post was last modified: 01-11-2018 10:59 PM by Hazaer.)
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