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Text/Email. How to be dominant, yet build comfort at the same time
So I've been getting legitimate replies to a very erotic craigslist ad telling girls how I plan to use their bodies as my fuck toy, and make them submit. A BDSM oriented ad.

I've had a few replies from girls wishing to be trained, but I'm stumbling on how to build comfort while remaining dominant in the replies.

Example reply from girl: Never been submissive before but this sounds perfect and exactly what I am looking for. If your down for training a newbie im in, I will let you do anything to me.

Usually I'll reply with "Describe your fetishes", and get no response. Should I skip that part, and head straight for the "What is your location/availability?"

Thanks.
05-20-2015 09:03 AM
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RE: Text/Email. How to be dominant, yet build comfort at the same time
If she waved her preferences by telling you that she will let you do anything.. and you ask anything at all instead of telling. .. that's like you're telling her you get off from throwing sand into her vagina

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05-20-2015 12:01 PM
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RE: Text/Email. How to be dominant, yet build comfort at the same time
I'd start with setting up a meet asap. Then maybe employ the basics of BDSM during the initial meet. Asking her seems like you aren't in charge.
05-20-2015 02:26 PM
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RE: Text/Email. How to be dominant, yet build comfort at the same time
replied with..... "I guess I can train a newbie, but you must listen and comply like a good little girl. If not, you will be bent over my knee, spanked and punished. For your first assignment, take a picture of your body, clothed or in underwear."

She sent a pic of her chest with shirt unbuttoned, and one nipple out.

I replied with "Looks good... what is your location. Lets meet for a drink"

waiting for the reply.
05-21-2015 10:50 PM
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RE: Text/Email. How to be dominant, yet build comfort at the same time
I would think that dropping the "I guess" is always preferable. You know you can train her. You don't need to guess.

Nice job getting a passive stream started up, congrats.

Considering the premise of your ad, it may benefit you to do something more like the "zero-date bang" method rather than wasting time going out for drinks. I have no credible experience to speak from though.
05-22-2015 12:04 PM
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RE: Text/Email. How to be dominant, yet build comfort at the same time
Look forward to ready your field report with this. I'm trying out various CL templates to see if any chicks bite.
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05-22-2015 12:35 PM
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