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only wants to talk via email
A couple times when attempting to engage with a woman via one of those online dating sites or Facebook, I'll get some variation of a line like "I'd to talk more with you, but why don't you contact me at my email address, I don't really like the interface on my phone" instead of them giving me their number or whatever.

Which is big nonsense - all they do all day is text on their phones to their interests/orbiters.

So, is it usually because they want you as a "back burner" option and don't want you to bother them every day, or because they want to keep you off their phone message list for...reasons?
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06-18-2015 11:51 PM
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RE: only wants to talk via email
Or collecting email addresses for adding to spam lists like we're back in the 90's.
06-19-2015 12:08 AM
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06-19-2015 12:37 AM
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RE: only wants to talk via email
(06-18-2015 11:51 PM)XPQ21 Wrote:  don't want you to bother them every day

You don't need to contact online prospects every day. If you are doing that, you're wasting time that could be used contacting prospects who will leave the internet to meet you.

Try to spot what type of female you are dealing with: time-waster, eager to meet, or somewhere in between. Slow women who never reply deserve at most one message a week, if you still get no reply, next, move on, keep plowing through.

Online game gets boring fast, it offers few new challenges, and any that arise will be dealt with via a text type message, usually with an open time-frame for response, unlike face to face interaction. Which is why I try to arrange a lot of dates, because that's a more important area to get good at. Good luck.
06-19-2015 01:39 AM
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06-19-2015 02:16 AM
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1) Never believe excuses.
2) NEVER believe excuses.
3)Never believe EXCUSES

Everything except eagerly participating in raw-dogging while fertile is an excuse ;-).


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06-19-2015 02:18 AM
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RE: only wants to talk via email
She:

A) Has a boyfriend or significant other she doesn't want finding out
B) Isn't that interested and doesn't want to give out her contact info
C) Is foreign or older and this form of communication is considered normal to her

Most likely B, but possibly A. Rarely C.

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06-19-2015 06:23 AM
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I would not even fucking bother changing her mind if all she is willing to give you is her email and says she doesn't use her phone (while no doubt texting her fuck buddies at the same time to tickle her vagina).

There are plenty of girls out there. Any girl that says this to you - and it is clear she isn't joking about it - should be automatically disqualified.

"That's cool, email is too modern for me, how about I send you a picture of my cock through a telegram?"
06-19-2015 07:53 AM
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(06-19-2015 07:53 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  I would not even fucking bother changing her mind if all she is willing to give you is her email and says she doesn't use her phone (while no doubt texting her fuck buddies at the same time to tickle her vagina).

There are plenty of girls out there. Any girl that says this to you - and it is clear she isn't joking about it - should be automatically disqualified.

"That's cool, email is too modern for me, how about I send you a picture of my cock through a telegram?"

The only mitigating factor for one of them is that she lives some distance from me. I travel a lot, though, and so she was like "well here's my email and I'll give you my number if/when you're in town". Or something like that. In that particular case she maybe just doesn't want to put too much effort/emotional involvement into someone who might not ever turn up. But I think having prospects when traveling for business is a good thing?
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06-19-2015 09:24 AM
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(06-19-2015 09:24 AM)XPQ21 Wrote:  
(06-19-2015 07:53 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  I would not even fucking bother changing her mind if all she is willing to give you is her email and says she doesn't use her phone (while no doubt texting her fuck buddies at the same time to tickle her vagina).

There are plenty of girls out there. Any girl that says this to you - and it is clear she isn't joking about it - should be automatically disqualified.

"That's cool, email is too modern for me, how about I send you a picture of my cock through a telegram?"

The only mitigating factor for one of them is that she lives some distance from me. I travel a lot, though, and so she was like "well here's my email and I'll give you my number if/when you're in town". Or something like that. In that particular case she maybe just doesn't want to put too much effort/emotional involvement into someone who might not ever turn up. But I think having prospects when traveling for business is a good thing?

Pipelining prospects prior to travel is fine, and it's something I'm currently doing now (before I leave for Europe). But my approach is to get as many potential bangs as possible (at least a dozen) lined up before you get there.
06-19-2015 10:14 AM
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Quote:"I'd to talk more with you, but why don't you contact me at my email address, I don't really like the interface on my phone"

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Sounds like a bot
06-19-2015 10:34 AM
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(06-19-2015 09:24 AM)XPQ21 Wrote:  
(06-19-2015 07:53 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  I would not even fucking bother changing her mind if all she is willing to give you is her email and says she doesn't use her phone (while no doubt texting her fuck buddies at the same time to tickle her vagina).

There are plenty of girls out there. Any girl that says this to you - and it is clear she isn't joking about it - should be automatically disqualified.

"That's cool, email is too modern for me, how about I send you a picture of my cock through a telegram?"

The only mitigating factor for one of them is that she lives some distance from me. I travel a lot, though, and so she was like "well here's my email and I'll give you my number if/when you're in town". Or something like that. In that particular case she maybe just doesn't want to put too much effort/emotional involvement into someone who might not ever turn up. But I think having prospects when traveling for business is a good thing?

I line up girls before I start travelling as well. It's best to tell them you are already there far less resistance getting phone number and they take you seriously rather than wondering in their heads whether you really will arrive. Of course if she asks to meet the next day you just say you have work engagements next few days but free later - i.e. when you're actually there.
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RE: only wants to talk via email
Eager women would even buy a pigeon to send a message to you if she's genuinely interested.

But to be honest. I've had girls install skype because I like that. But MSN was good too. If they don't want to do effort in a normal way (like modern way of communicating) then you shouldn't bother with them.

Sending long emails as a way to game people is something from 1995. Pigeons are even worse btw.

Her making terms on the ONLY way you can communicate with her is actually a shittest.
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Anytime I go for the number close from an online dating app if I get ANY kind of reply other than her giving me her number I'm ghost. Unmatched, blocked, dust in the wind.

My favorite hamster line is "I'd like to get to know you better before I give you my number."

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06-23-2015 01:22 PM
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If she makes things difficult, in whatever form, she's not really into you.

Doesn't mean you can't bang her, just don't expect any help on her end.
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