Post: #1

What do I mean? I am used to fucking with sluts, plain and simple, girls that play games, lie and I know they are fucking with other guys, usually just a smash and dash.

The past 2 months I have being seeing a girl, shes like a 7, I know im more high value than her but there are many qualities I like about her, anyway she is all over me, texts me all the time, cooks for me anything I want, would buy me anything (I dont take advantage like that), sex anytime etc

Now you probably think somethings wrong, she is not ugly but she used to be a little bigger, now shes normal but her confidence is not too high and I caught her saying things like "I didnt think I was your type".

So what I am asking is, what kind of frame do I keep? At first I was really aloof, to the point I didnt give a shit and she was all over me, I have lightened that up now that we know each other but I am finding myself responding to her cute little text messages and talking with her in bed, stuff like that, things I wouldnt do for the sluts I would mess with.

She has been nothing but awesome with me, I cannot find one thing that would make me act negatively to her, so Its come to the point where I feel bad if I ignore her texts and stuff like that. Now I fully understand that alpha is not about being a jerk or being an asshole, and I will always speak my mind and not put up with bullshit but so far she hasnt given me bullshit...at all; and I guess that is weird to me because Im not used to that.

Im not naive enough to think that she is drama free or eventualy some stuff wont pop up but is it possible that since im so used to drama girls and crazy that a normal girl seems weird?

Post: #2

First, take that pussy off that pedestal, once again a girl is blinding you.

Secondly, slow down your thought process, take a deep breath.

It's OK to enjoy a woman's company, especially if it's a women that satisfies your requirements or exceeds them.

There is nothing wrong with hanging out with a woman who compliments your life.

We've discussed your game with another girl you were involved with. You don't need to be a dick or an asshole, sure maybe a funny asshole who teases, but straight up asshole game doesn't work in the long run and isn't good for your health.

Remember this saying and repeat it in your head:

"The game that got her, is the game that keeps her"

You don't want things you do with her to become a routine, you want to keep her on her toes, keep her excited, and keep her guessing.

Keep the same frame, you can play it a bit more endearing if you want. Sure you can be a bit aloof and "busy" - but she sounds like she may suffocate you a little bit.

This sounds like it'll be a fast escalating relationship, your hand is on the throttle, you can slow it down a bit.

Post: #3

(06-22-2016 11:45 AM)kaotic Wrote:  "The game that got her, is the game that keeps her"

This is gold truth. I recently dated a girl, who really liked me and did everything for me. At the beginning I did everything perfectly and got her quickly. But I didn´t have serious relationship for last 2 years and I was so sure about her, so I´ve done some mistakes, that made my lose my frame... and she was gone.
Good experience, next time when good girl worth relationship appears, I will keep distance from her - probably forever.

Post: #4

I don't understand your question. This chick is completely into you and you don't know who you have to be to her or how to treat her? Be normal dude. She likes you. You don't need to play games the same way you do with those shady chicks.

Post: #5

The way you tell your story makes it seem as if you found a unicorn. This must stop asap and you must come back to your senses. All her good behavior is nice but don't get caught slipping.

What ever you do just don't get into a serious relationship with her until at least 5 months have passed by.

2 months is very short and she could be love bombing you making you feel all extra warm and fuzzy inside which will make her stop seeing you as a player and more of a lover. If you become her lover then she will get protective and it's gonna be harder and harder for you to game other girls with her around because then you will start feeling extremely guilty.

And don't feel guilty about not responding to all her messages. It's a trick used to keep tabs on you. I had several girls do this to me on weekends especially at night so they could figure out if I was with other girls or not.

Imagine a girl you've been texting with occasionally hit you up more aggressively on a weekend night and getting mad that you are not responding to her in a timely manner. These bitches know if you are not responding to them in a timely manner on a Thursday, Friday, and Saturday night between the hours of 10:30pm to 4am then you were out fucking other bitches.

Don't change your game and remain the same way you were when you first met her. If you start giving into her and feeling guilty about stuff then watch her quickly get bored with you and hop onto the next guy the moment you fall in love with her.

Post: #6

(06-22-2016 11:45 AM)kaotic Wrote:  First, take that pussy off that pedestal, once again a girl is blinding you.

"The game that got her, is the game that keeps her"

This sounds like it'll be a fast escalating relationship, your hand is on the throttle, you can slow it down a bit.

Three golden bits of advice.

Nothing more to add than this.

Post: #7

(06-22-2016 01:58 PM)XXL Wrote:  I don't understand your question. This chick is completely into you and you don't know who you have to be to her or how to treat her? Be normal dude. She likes you. You don't need to play games the same way you do with those shady chicks.

You don't "just stop" and "be normal". Basically this amounts to "just be yourself dude"

That's how you lose the girl that you originally gamed. You have to remember females are unpredictable, one wild hair up their ass and they aren't "haaaappy"

It's not about playing games, it's about not being stagnant and not letting the relationship get comfortable.

It's not about playing games, it's about maintaining your relationship with her.

Post: #8

^ Kaotic is killing it in this thread.

Post: #9

Part of the power of a quality woman is that she draws out the better parts of you.

Game is the better part. You will lose her if you revert to "being yourself".... "soften"... appreciate... or whatever it is you want to call it. This fact is exactly what is her drawing out the better parts of you.

On the other hand of course you should give her some small victories because girls like that like to "tame the bad boy ".