Post: #1

I'm with my wife with many years, we knew each other when we both were virgins.

She quickly liked to blow me, but she didn't want to swallow my cum. I asked her to try and she did it a few times, but she wasn't able to succeed.

The first years, she finished my with her hand when she blew me. As it was a serious relashionship, I didn't want to force her and I thought that, maybe, it would change with growing experience. I was wrong and maybe 7 years laters I insisted her to take it in her mouth and at less spit it after. I told her that when she takes off her mouth while I cum, it's the same bad sensation as if I take off mine do it while licking her pussy and her orgasm coming. She finally understood that.

But I had to wait another years again to get her swallow. She spat many years in the sink. In my 30's, I insisted again and won. And now she's used to it and I cum in her mouth and make her swallow very often (maybe too often) and I like it very much.

Sometimes I think I should have been more dominant in the very beginning, as if it was something very natural. After, she took some habits.

In 2016, do you find it easy to get a girl swallow your cum, in a serious or non serious relashionship ?

Sorry if my english sucks.

Post: #2

Depends on the girl, many sluts will do it easily. Others wouldn't do it in a thousand years.

Then again, I doubt you want the first type as a girlfriend. It's great to have some bitch swallow your load, but that's a type of girl you probably don't want to LTR.

Post: #3

Eating pineapple and mango seems to help, years ago a fuckbuddy suggested it.
Probably any fruit (juice) helps.

Post: #4

I had some trouble with this recently. I told the girl it's over if she didn't and I meant it.

Post: #5

Only girl who ever had a problem with it was a girl I dated in college for about two years. She was from a fairly traditional Midwest family and hadn't been with many guys before me, perhaps one or two. But that was going on 20 years ago.

She was a freak in a lot of other ways, though...I believe the majority of girls must be like that innately.

For women in their late 20s and 30s, these days? Absurd.

Post: #6

(07-28-2016 08:46 AM)Paris Wrote:  In 2016, do you find it easy to get a girl swallow your cum, in a serious or non serious relashionship ?

There is already a thread on this topic here:
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Post: #7

My LTR worships my cock, if your girl isn't a slut it's a pretty good test about how serious about the relationship she is. Was shy at first and grew to like it, although mine is her first. She actually did extensive internet research for how to give great blowjobs and it works. Fuck she's so good I'm constantly blowing multiple loads which she swallows and loves.

Looks like someone said it better:

(10-17-2015 03:03 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  Krauser said this in a post on his blog in 2012.

"Never trust a girl who wont get on her knees and suck your cock whenever you demand it. Ideally she will proactively offer. Blowjobs, among normal non-slutty chicks, are more submissive and a greater signal of soul-surrender than sexual intercourse. Don’t ever believe a woman who claims she dislikes or is ideologically opposed to putting a man’s cock in her mouth. I’ve had many girls who had never sucked cock before fall in love with it, and other fairly bolshy girls who claim they dislike it then suddenly can’t get enough. It’s a pure submission thing. If she’s not sucking your cock, she hasn’t submitted. If she hasn’t submitted, she’s not in your reality."

Post: #8

(07-28-2016 02:48 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  

(07-28-2016 08:46 AM)Paris Wrote:  In 2016, do you find it easy to get a girl swallow your cum, in a serious or non serious relashionship ?

There is already a thread on this topic here:
/thread-5550.html?


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I'd rep you again for that post if I could.

G

Post: #9

(07-28-2016 03:33 PM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  My LTR worships my cock, if your girl isn't a slut it's a pretty good test about how serious about the relationship she is. Was shy at first and grew to like it, although mine is her first. She actually did extensive internet research for how to give great blowjobs and it works. Fuck she's so good I'm constantly blowing multiple loads which she swallows and loves.

It's especially nice if you tell her to get on her knees and do it in the kitchen, right after she cooks you a great dinner.

Post: #10

IME some girls are naturally enthusiastic about it, and others just don't get into it- usually because they have control issues. It's a wonderful surprise when she goes for it immediately and with vigor. Whether it's a ONS or an LTR or anything in between, there is probably no better indicator of how invested the girl is in pleasing you- and this includes swallowing.

Then there've been a few over the years who just got better. In each of those cases it was not a gradual improvement, but an almost immediate and dramatic difference. I don't know how, but it was as if they'd read a book or got a lesson and practiced for years til they mastered it, except overnight. It was like the difference between strumming a few open chords one day and then being fucking Jimi Hendryx the next. I never asked what happened.

I guess any girl can be get good at it if she wants to make you happy.

Post: #11

(07-28-2016 02:25 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  For women in their late 20s and 30s, these days? Absurd.

I think that's cool. You may be right, but maybe more in the US than in France..

Post: #12

(07-28-2016 09:27 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  Depends on the girl, many sluts will do it easily. Others wouldn't do it in a thousand years.

This.

Don't stay in a relationship with a woman who doesn't love you enough to swallow.

Post: #13

(07-28-2016 03:33 PM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  My LTR worships my cock, if your girl isn't a slut it's a pretty good test about how serious about the relationship she is. Was shy at first and grew to like it, although mine is her first. She actually did extensive internet research for how to give great blowjobs and it works. Fuck she's so good I'm constantly blowing multiple loads which she swallows and loves.

Looks like someone said it better:

(10-17-2015 03:03 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  Krauser said this in a post on his blog in 2012.

"Never trust a girl who wont get on her knees and suck your cock whenever you demand it. Ideally she will proactively offer. Blowjobs, among normal non-slutty chicks, are more submissive and a greater signal of soul-surrender than sexual intercourse. Don’t ever believe a woman who claims she dislikes or is ideologically opposed to putting a man’s cock in her mouth. I’ve had many girls who had never sucked cock before fall in love with it, and other fairly bolshy girls who claim they dislike it then suddenly can’t get enough. It’s a pure submission thing. If she’s not sucking your cock, she hasn’t submitted. If she hasn’t submitted, she’s not in your reality."

This is absolutely true above. The most die hard girls that have been in love/obsessed with me would put my cum in their morning coffee if I asked them to. Those girls were obsessed with my cock, swallowing, etc.

The girl thats not obsessed with your dick, you have to ask yourself whats wrong in the relationship? Why is she like that? How was I a beta bitch to get us to this pre-cuck holding pattern? Every woman loves it, I am convinced. I've experienced the girl that wont, and I think its due to not fully hooking her. Call it beta tendencies, or however it happened. If shes not in love with your cock, shes holding back. And there is a reason why for that. Be real with yourself, look at your own behavior, dont call her on it, then course correct. Maybe you can get her to come around. Literally.

Post: #14

(07-30-2016 07:43 AM)Vaun Wrote:  The girl thats not obsessed with your dick, you have to ask yourself whats wrong in the relationship? Why is she like that? How was I a beta bitch to get us to this pre-cuck holding pattern? Every woman loves it, I am convinced. I've experienced the girl that wont, and I think its due to not fully hooking her. Call it beta tendencies, or however it happened. If shes not in love with your cock, shes holding back. And there is a reason why for that. Be real with yourself, look at your own behavior, dont call her on it, then course correct. Maybe you can get her to come around. Literally.

I can't possibly agree more.

Post: #15

What if you have a girl who loves giving you blowjobs, will offer to do it and do it when you demand, takes every last drop in her mouth, tells you she even likes the taste but then still spits it out?! Should you still get her to swallow? I'm thinking about it.

... asking for a friend.

Post: #16

I was with a girl for 3 years who hated swallowing loads, I think I only got her to do it once (I also got her to let me cum on her face once, but that was it). It just wasn't who she was. Likewise, I was with a girl 2 years before that one who couldn't get enough of swallowing my cum. However, the first warning sign that the relationship was on the rocks was first when she started spitting, then when she stopped swallowing my loads entirely.

Like everyone else said, different girls have different tastes. While it's great to have a girl swallow your load in a SNL, chances are she's a giant slut and has done the same for everyone in town. But if you're looking for fun, no problems with a girl who will swallow or take facials on the day you meet them.

Post: #17

I came up with a good way to test out compliance by feeding the girl water. I usually have a glass of water in arms reach of my bed. I just recently did this for the first time when I banged out this Indian girl about two weeks ago.

After I busted a nut (inside her with a condom on) we both fell back panting, catching our breath. I took the water and sipped. I asked if she was thirsty and she said yes. She reached for it and I pulled it away

"I'm going to feed it to you" I say with a smirk. I hold it over her face
"Open your mouth" I dribble some water in
"Now swallow"
"Good girl"

"Open your mouth" dribble
"Now swallow"
"Good girl"

Think I did it like 4 or 5 times. She was kind of giggling and said "see, I can follow orders after all" I said "yea, now that should be plenty of practice"

it was actually pretty hot, very clear what we were playing at without ever having to spell it out like "hey, um, do you mind if cum in your mouth?"

Next round I yanked the condom off held her mouth in place while I laid a modest load(this was round two after all) right down on her tongue. There was no discussion beforehand if there were going to problems with this happening. She seemed to enjoy it quite a bit.