Post: #1

So I recently decided to start gaming chicks. I have everything down, 6 feet, good looking, big dick but I just don't understand how to use womens emotions to my advantage. I typically block mine out and I'm not very social or good at talking to people. I always hear that if you can toy with a girls emotions you can make her fall in love with you. Every time I talk to a girl she's always boring. Anyone have material I can read or any advice on how to play on their emotions? Or what exactly makes women go crazy over certain men? I fit the criteria but it just doesn't happen to me like it does my friends. I wanna make chicks crave me and lust me. Thanks.

Post: #2

Advice, talk to more girls, more. You'll eventually figure out patterns. You can't be taught this stuff and different women have different triggers. Get to know them. That's the golden key to pickup anyway. TALKING.
Being a pretty boy gets you a few seconds of opportunity to talk. If they look at you, talk. The more you talk the better you get. Start by talking absolute random shit and go from there.

I had a friend/future possible wingman like you, but he just didn't have the balls to talk. He wouldn't do it. The guy was a fuckwit and I cut him loose because of this. If you refuse to talk, you are also a fuckwit so there's your answer: just talk shit and take it from there. You will get blown out, deal with it. You will get ignored, deal with it. You will be made to feel uncomfortable, deal with it. Grow some balls and talk.

YOU CAN'T READ ABOUT THIS STUFF. It's not the same as doing it. Nike: JUST DO IT.

Post: #3

Approach. Approach. Approach.

You’ll learn your optimal gaming pattern.

Post: #4

(01-17-2017 12:17 AM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  Advice, talk to more girls, more. You'll eventually figure out patterns. You can't be taught this stuff and different women have different triggers. Get to know them. That's the golden key to pickup anyway. TALKING.
Being a pretty boy gets you a few seconds of opportunity to talk. If they look at you, talk. The more you talk the better you get. Start by talking absolute random shit and go from there.

I had a friend/future possible wingman like you, but he just didn't have the balls to talk. He wouldn't do it. The guy was a fuckwit and I cut him loose because of this. If you refuse to talk, you are also a fuckwit so there's your answer: just talk shit and take it from there. You will get blown out, deal with it. You will get ignored, deal with it. You will be made to feel uncomfortable, deal with it. Grow some balls and talk.

YOU CAN'T READ ABOUT THIS STUFF. It's not the same as doing it. Nike: JUST DO IT.

This is encouraging. I think you have a good point and it makes sense to me. This is honestly what I've been doing lately on POF, OKC and Meetme and I feel like it's the right thing to do for now. Sometimes when I talk I start thinking about game taught here and it gets into my head and I think "No I shouldn't say that, that goes against what x said on Rooshv". I guess I should focus mainly on talking to girls right now and figuring out those patterns. Thanks for the advice.

Post: #5

Emotions.

A whole wide range of 'em. Joy, introspection, sadness, anger, rage, love, lessons learnt, hope etc.

You want to tap into these emotions to get a chick hooked so what you want to do is when next you're gaming a chick, one of the things you want to do is tell stories. Stories that make her introspect in a chick kind of way NOT an Einstein kind of way. Stories with twists, turns, tragedy, victory, etc.

Capisce??

You ask questions of her that if she answers them, she'd be able to shine. That is, she'd be able to show herself as ''special''. Questions that pay her social points. This is NOT about asking her open ended questions.

Stuff like ''what's the story behind that??''

Could go on with examples but I'm at work!!!

Post: #6

You hit on the core of the matter in your post, when you said you were not very social or good at talking to people.

The key to being good at talking to people is to build rapport with them as quickly as possible. The good thing is that you can actually become good with pretty girls without talking to very many of them. You just need to practise talking to strangers generally.

I found two things quite startling as I went through this process:

1. I thought I was a natural when it came to dissembling. It turns out that it is actually very hard to fake being interested in someone, and even harder to con them into believing you're interested. I was not able to do it and I think people often (rightly) thought I was insincere.

2. Once you stop trying to fake it, you may realise that taking a sincere interest in those around you (even strangers) is one of life's real pleasures, and that it is actually incredibly easy to form a bond of real warmth and sincerity with a stranger very quickly. In essence, you don't have to fake it, you just have to identify something in the person you're speaking to that gives common humanity and which makes them interesting to you. This is a good reason to follow a sport or two seriously - particularly if you're a more cerebral/introverted type. I think very fondly on countless train journeys that have been made a real pleasure by a simple human connection with a rival fan. It's a real joy to strike up a conversation with a stranger, and to feel a genuine twinge of sadness when it's time to part. I was on a busy train last week and I engaged a guy opposite me, a salt of the earth type, in a conversation about football. By the end of the trip, an hour or so later, we'd brought in everyone around us. It was a very happy hour, full of good natured ribbing and raucous laughter. Most of the carriage was looking at us enviously, and when (frequently) a stop came around and someone involved in the conversation had to get off, they always looked disappointed and smiled at us all and said good evening.

This is a learnable skill. It is a real joy to be able to strike up a good conversation and to bring in those around you. Do it enough and you'll come to realise that there is as much pleasure to be had in a conversation about football with a builder as there is in a conversation about shiny things with a pretty girl.

Post: #7

Dude you are asking about, and approaching a woman's emotions from a standpoint of rational, analytical and strategic manipulation.

Emotions don't work like that, they can't be conquered with calm, rational analysis.

You are going to need a different set of skills to master her emotions.

Post: #8

Even though men and women tend to have very different surface-level interests, there are certain primal needs all humans share.

PUA (push-pull/kino) is basically a mating dance that relies on mostly non-verbal cues in order to get a woman hot and bothered in a way she can't understand.

However, you can also get a woman interested with deeper discussion. This is the sort of thing Bill Murray did to win Andie MacDowell in Groundhog day.





This is what would be perceived as more classic "romance". It's just that Bill Murray accelerated it all the way to a first-date bang. This CAN be replicated but what you need to do is to be perceived right out of the starting gate as someone the woman can trust. This runs counter to PUA theory as it's nice-guy rather than bad-boy game, but it can work, as long as you find the right time to sexualize to avoid the LJBF.

Post: #9

Here are a few tips to help you:

1. Ask her: "How do you feel about it?" or "How does this makes you feel?"
The girl will talk about it. Just listen and nod.

2. If she is shows any kind of enthusiasm tell her that you see that she has very strong emotions, and it is speical. She will feel that you understand her.
Which brings me to:

3. Look her sometimes in the eye and tell her that you understand her. But when you do. She will feel the connection.

4. H1N1 said it: "

(01-17-2017 05:45 AM)H1N1 Wrote:  ... and that it is actually incredibly easy to form a bond of real warmth and sincerity with a stranger very quickly. In essence, you don't have to fake it, you just have to identify something in the person you're speaking to that gives common humanity and which makes them interesting to you.
...
This is a learnable skill. It is a real joy to be able to strike up a good conversation and to bring in those around you. Do it enough and you'll come to realise that there is as much pleasure to be had in a conversation about football with a builder as there is in a conversation about shiny things with a pretty girl.

No problem learning it, just look for the common denominator.

Post: #10

(01-17-2017 12:04 AM)aar0nmaxw3ll Wrote:  So I recently decided to start gaming chicks. I have everything down, 6 feet, good looking, big dick but I just don't understand how to use womens emotions to my advantage. I typically block mine out and I'm not very social or good at talking to people.

You got the cause of your problem in this sentence only (I would not be surprised that you works in some tech field).



This is what happened when you bottle up your feelings, one day it'll transpire through you and come back hit you right in your face but back on the topic

(01-17-2017 12:04 AM)aar0nmaxw3ll Wrote:  I always hear that if you can toy with a girls emotions you can make her fall in love with you.

(01-17-2017 12:04 AM)aar0nmaxw3ll Wrote:  Every time I talk to a girl she's always boring. Anyone have material I can read or any advice on how to play on their emotions? Or what exactly makes women go crazy over certain men? I fit the criteria but it just doesn't happen to me like it does my friends. I wanna make chicks crave me and lust me. Thanks.

They'll always be boring, if not what would they let you enter their life so if you didn't get it, write it down every where in your house:
-Women are boring
-Women are not (intentionnaly) funny
-Women need to be saved from themsleves...

Anyway, Did you ever heard something called Chick Crack ?

xojane Wrote:Why Is It So Difficult to Resist "Chick Crack" From Guys?

I've hung out a few times now with this charming dude. He's bright and funny and says all the right things. I mean, really the right things. I call this type of talk "chick crack."

You know what chick crack is. It's when you hear lines like...

"It's hard for me to concentrate on anything because you're so beautiful."
"I've never felt so attracted to someone before."
"I wish I could just stay here in your arms forever."
"If we ever had children, do you think they would be blonde like us?"
"You know, I think you might just be my soulmate."
[...]

I'll let you google that too.

First of all you have to want to learn a new language called "Emotional talk".
It's a totally foreign language talked by scenarists, writers, poets, sellers and others people who need to get you into a group or get your wallet out of your pocket to give them all your hard-earned cash.

There is no "Yes or No" questions, those don't exists anymore, there are only open questions like:
- Hey How do we go from here to there ? And by the way you're from here, do you know a great club where I can meet girls like you, you're so...
- Do you believe in horoscope ? Because I got this appointment with love today and it might be with you...
- Is this shit for real ? What's with girls wearing all those shitty clothes like they absolutely don't want to get hit on ? You have no problem with getting hit on by total strangers, don't you ?

See, those tap right into the heart bypassing the brain by appealing "How you feel" instead of "What is logic" by activating your imagination, describing things like you're living them and then once you're hooked... Nothing can derail you from buying or giving or anything else they want you to do.

It's a great skill to have but you have to disconnect from your logical brain to get it at a master level, then you'll be able to use subcommunication but that's an other subject...

Post: #11

If you don't understand the basics of women and their emotions then you don't have everything. You have half the equation. Your attraction or perceived rating is fluid when you have a pair of nuts between your legs. An average dude with a bit of a belly can outshine a timid athlete if he has the take it or leave attitude and a self assured way about him vs. the low self esteem of a supplicating beta male. A great starting point would be "the way of the superior man" to understand the difference between masculine and feminine energy. You'll learn why women constantly test, why they can never make up their mf'ing minds and constantly trip out over nonsense. You'll also learn why being an asshole works in practical ways. Once you understand that they do a lot of things without knowing what their doing and that 90% of women don't understand themselves, it'll take you out of your head and into your actions. Women aren't that mysterious. They'll do unpredictable things, but their motives are the same in damn near every city on the planet.