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Girls Who Come Off Strong
How do you guys deal with women who come off especially easy through text?
I pulled her from IG DM and we have a date this weekend. We have not met yet and she's been super aggressive in letting me know she likes me. Instantly I am cautious because you never know a woman's agenda. You might call it paranoia but what do you make up of this shit?
There's gotta be some of you in the same boat as me when it comes to trust and seeing too many movies. It's just suspicious to me when a girl comes onto you strong before even having met. Is this common with non-hookup apps?
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RE: Girls Who Come Off Strong
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RE: Girls Who Come Off Strong
(06-02-2017 10:24 PM)Ballr Wrote: (06-02-2017 10:05 PM)captain_shane Wrote: (06-02-2017 09:48 PM)Ballr Wrote: How do you guys deal with women who come off especially easy through text?
I pulled her from IG DM and we have a date this weekend. We have not met yet and she's been super aggressive in letting me know she likes me. Instantly I am cautious because you never know a woman's agenda. You might call it paranoia but what do you make up of this shit?
There's gotta be some of you in the same boat as me when it comes to trust and seeing too many movies. It's just suspicious to me when a girl comes onto you strong before even having met. Is this common with non-hookup apps?
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It weirds me out when it happens on Tinder, but you should just go for it. These girls deal with pussy guys that beat around the bush all day and don't go for what they want, so it forces the woman to essentially be the man. Had an experience like this last night on Tinder. Girl was super straight forward and I just asked for her address, went over and smoked all her weed and banged her out. I asked her to look through her phone messages and most dudes are straight bitch-made. "Hey, lets go on a date", "Hey we should go out sometime". She told me she just wanted someone to come over and fuck and was glad that I had the balls to just do it.
You raise a good point about the guys who are too afraid to be bold. I hadn't thought of that and what she's used to going out with.
Some girls just want some dick, same way we just want some pussy.
Most guys are pussies. I would peg that at 80%+ of the male population. These are guys that get nude pics and ghost, or talk for days on text, never want to meet up, etc. I almost always go through the girls phones after I've fucked them just to see what the competition is. I'll tell you a secret, there ain't no competition. Maybe 1-2 guys out of 10 have the balls to just go over and fuck a girl right. Imagine how frustrating that is for a girl.
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RE: Girls Who Come Off Strong
(06-04-2017 12:21 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote: Why didn't you say so that she is a nurse?
Many nurses are demented, a lot of them get banged out by doctors, but few manage to nab one. The job in combination with the promiscuous times gets them.
Strong sex drive and Red Pill values are not a contradiction. She made seduction easy for you, but I am sure that there were men in her life who had to work their assess off and did not get anything from her.
It is also possible that you are indeed absolutely her type - like 1 out of 100. Ask her nonchalantly how many men she had and make sure to let her know that you actually like it when a woman has had many sexual experiences and has been a wild girl before.
Either way - if you meet with her more often, then you find out more about her.
Doesn't this question contradict a good long-term partner? (The part about how I enjoy a girl with a promiscuous past)
She mentioned being in (1) relationship for ~3 years. Enjoys sex, but claims not to be experienced. I went down on her and she kept shying away from it. Told me she's never let a guy do that before. Telling you, all kinds of dumb shit coming from this broad's mouth.
Oh, and when I asked her for address to pick her up, she says that she hasn't given her home address to any guy before. Apparently she used to drive to her BF in past. Doesn't go out on dates etc. Hasn't gone out out on a date "in a year"
In regards to working, she says she's prefer not to, but "what's a girl to do until she's married?"
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RE: Girls Who Come Off Strong
(06-04-2017 11:50 AM)Ballr Wrote: I got to smash last night, but it felt like I was hitting a prostitute.
As soon as she got into my car, she pushed the seatbelt behind her, and tried to lean against the passenger door and just stare at me. Stare me up n down w/ her catty blue eyes. She insinuated a ton of sexual innuendos at dinner. Swirled her feet around mine, and would often look at my lips to initiate a kiss. This girl reminds me a lot of Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct. Totally cannot trust how straightforward she is. Plus, she wasn't wearing any panties, and in bed mentioned she "never does this" etc etc. The usual BS.
Not sure what to make of this gents, but it was not very normal to me. I kind of appreciate a woman who will hold off, the thrill is in the "chase". If it's this easy, it feels like she is acting.
Do any of you take a girl like this serious?
You can't take anyone serious unless you actually know them. Women like sex, I had a date like this except on the way back to her place I was getting head driving across the bridge. The "affair" didn't last long but it was fun. When pussy is served up on a platter you just take it.
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RE: Girls Who Come Off Strong
This girl is gonna chew you up and spit you out. Did you really just ponder if she's a unicorn? This bag full of crazy that's fucking your brains out and talking about marriage after the first meeting?
She clearly has a personality disorder bro. I wouldn't even hit it again and I hope you used a fake name and she doesn't know where you live.
Alternatively use some weak ass excuses to get yourself out of this situation, pronto. Unless you're absolutely fucking sure you know what you're doing you're gonna end up marrying this fucking wreck, knocking this wreck up, or getting your personal property defaced after you like another girls picture on facebook. Possibly all three and oh so much more.
You've been warned.
Here's an anecdote for you.
I banged this girl one time off of an online dating site. We were both completely honest and open about our intentions (for the most part). Had some great sex, she was a bit weird. She blathered on and on her past drug use, criminal history, and how she was trying really hard to find a guy to "come up on". She was fucking banging too, at least an 8. We were suppose to meet the next day and have another fuck sesh and she never hits me back. I do some snooping and guess what. The morning after I fucked this girls brains out she got engaged to some dude in fucking kentucky, 6 states away. They stayed engaged for about 3 months until she had enough dough to get out on her own and their statuses mysteriously changed (i'm a fucking creeper alright that's beside the point).
The girl you're describing reminds me of this girl so fucking much. She knew right away I wasn't a sucker and put sex on the table.
Any girl that blathers on and on about marriage and commitment with such complete bluntness is fucking crazy. She's manipulating you and it's working (wondering if she's a unicorn) . You got a fake name and another place to fuck - all cool, play on player but you better be double 'o fucking seven. And I'm talking Pierce Brosnan or Sean Connery not Daniel Craig, player. If not - ABORT, repeat ABORT. Dodge her like an angry stray bullet
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RE: Girls Who Come Off Strong
(06-05-2017 01:30 AM)Eugenics Wrote: This girl is gonna chew you up and spit you out. Did you really just ponder if she's a unicorn? This bag full of crazy that's fucking your brains out and talking about marriage after the first meeting?
She clearly has a personality disorder bro. I wouldn't even hit it again and I hope you used a fake name and she doesn't know where you live.
Alternatively use some weak ass excuses to get yourself out of this situation, pronto. Unless you're absolutely fucking sure you know what you're doing you're gonna end up marrying this fucking wreck, knocking this wreck up, or getting your personal property defaced after you like another girls picture on facebook. Possibly all three and oh so much more.
You've been warned.
Here's an anecdote for you.
I banged this girl one time off of an online dating site. We were both completely honest and open about our intentions (for the most part). Had some great sex, she was a bit weird. She blathered on and on her past drug use, criminal history, and how she was trying really hard to find a guy to "come up on". She was fucking banging too, at least an 8. We were suppose to meet the next day and have another fuck sesh and she never hits me back. I do some snooping and guess what. The morning after I fucked this girls brains out she got engaged to some dude in fucking kentucky, 6 states away. They stayed engaged for about 3 months until she had enough dough to get out on her own and their statuses mysteriously changed (i'm a fucking creeper alright that's beside the point).
The girl you're describing reminds me of this girl so fucking much. She knew right away I wasn't a sucker and put sex on the table.
Any girl that blathers on and on about marriage and commitment with such complete bluntness is fucking crazy. She's manipulating you and it's working (wondering if she's a unicorn) . You got a fake name and another place to fuck - all cool, play on player but you better be double 'o fucking seven. And I'm talking Pierce Brosnan or Sean Connery not Daniel Craig, player. If not - ABORT, repeat ABORT. Dodge her like an angry stray bullet
Thanks for the game, bro. I'll tread softly. She's the good kind of bad, if you know what I mean. It's my curiosity that's dragging me in. I know she's bad news, I have to stay away. I appreciate the wake-up call.
I wish I could show you what she's sending to me lol
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