Post: #26

Quote:After the first bang I always tell girls to text me confirming they got home (to soothe the hamster and gauge their interest).

damn that's a great tip thanks, will try it!

btw, thanks for your posting..

Post: #27

Quote:If you don't go for the bang right away, you're not the fun guy she need in her life, If it hurts you did not date enough and if someone else rejection still annoy you the Game is probably not for you.
As far as I can remember the women who stayed around the most where the ones I banged first date(..)

damn, this motivates me to go for the bang on the first date again.. I did this in my 20s but somehow stopped in my 30s.. (at least when I'm not in vacation)..

too bad I don't have a bar nearby where I live.. however, the weather will be better so we can go for a walk where I live.. should be enough foreplay to go home..

Post: #28

(05-08-2018 03:12 AM)the Thing Wrote:  The whole dating thing is a false construct. If she perceives you as high value, she'll sleep with you on the first date just to get a shot at keeping you. If she perceives you as low value, she'll hold out as long as possible because she wants something in return.

As to the answer to the poll, I aggressively go for the close on the first date (hey so should you) so therefore I either get a 1st date bang or no bang. 2nd date bangs are few and far between.

Also;

(05-07-2018 05:34 PM)wonderman Wrote:  a girl says "sorry, not interested in you" after a date

If a girl ever says that, you text her the letter "K" delete her number and next her.

The letter "K" is important because it's the least effort way of dismissal. You hit one letter then hit send

95%+ of the girls who aren't into me just ghost. They rarely if ever send any kind of explanation or rejection text. Women are terrified of confrontation or a guy who will probe them after explaining.

Post: #29

(05-08-2018 04:53 PM)wonderman Wrote:  This indeed is a very big thing. I am actually interested too but only in psychological topics. I simply don't care what job they have and where they have been etc. I'm more into deeper philosophical discussions. Guess that is too much for most. They always tell me "you are too much in your head" etc.

I find it difficult to lead into deep talks with women while holding onto a romantic frame rather than taking an immediate detour into the friendzone. For some reason, going deep turns them on, but for others it destroys mystery and is too left-brain intellectual.

I find very little difference between a deep talk and the sort of talk one might have with a psycho-therapist. It's the kind of thing that's easy to do but I'm starting to dislike it more and more as romance/sex is really about experiencing the present and not constantly ruminating on past events.

Post: #30

Honestly, I just keep them all on Snapchat until they're ready for date 2. I'll ask and most of these girls put it off or stay busy...until they aren't. I just keep posting stories and living my life, and their hamster kicks in sooner or later. For me, its not a matter of if they come back around, but when.

Honestly, sometimes it takes months. But I've gotten 8's and 9's to come back around this way. It keeps a solid rotation going, and you get a fun little surprise every now and then.