Post: #1

What advice would you give for getting laid in London when you:

1. don't have your own apartment but are in central London all the time due to studies/work

2. don't have a car (don't think it's an issue but wanted to provide full info)

3. don't drink, don'ts smoke

4, Mediterranean looking, slim, not tall

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Post: #2

Read the forum.

Post in the newbies section.

Sort out your logistics.

Post: #3

(09-07-2018 06:33 PM)Alexandros Wrote:  What advice would you give for getting laid in London when you:
4, Mediterranean looking, slim, not tall

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Ask HankMoody for advice, and start figuring out where you want your tattoos.

Post: #4

Tattoos do help indeed, and I do enjoy looking at them in others, but I'm quite happy with my body as it is (LOL)

Logistics - precisely part of the question. When I was in other countries, I would rent in convenient locations and that was big part of logistics - meet close to home, good excuse to bring her home, final move. That is precisely why I am asking for help now that I don't have my own place.

Newbies section - can someone tell me how to find that?

Post: #5

(09-08-2018 04:35 AM)Alexandros Wrote:  Tattoos do help indeed, and I do enjoy looking at them in others, but I'm quite happy with my body as it is (LOL)

Logistics - precisely part of the question. When I was in other countries, I would rent in convenient locations and that was big part of logistics - meet close to home, good excuse to bring her home, final move. That is precisely why I am asking for help now that I don't have my own place.

Newbies section - can someone tell me how to find that?

Its a sub-forum for the Game Forum. It's right on top of this forum:

Click Here

Post: #6

Thank you!

Post: #7

Hi Guys, just hijacking this thread because I can't make my own thread at the moment.

Just looking for general tips, advice and support on getting back out there and finding another girl who would be 7-8 (similar to my ex).

I'm Australian and I moved to the London to be with my ex gf. Essentially she dumped me for a work colleague (which hurts pretty fucking bad).

Obviously she meant alot for me to move countries, at the same time I realise that she was definitely not the one for me. That being that she is disloyal, a liar and jealous, all things that would kill any relationship.

At this stage I'm looking to get back out there, In summary this is me
- Average in looks (maybe 6 or girls say 7) but I am very chatty and confident especially when I am out. I am Caucasian mixed and am semi ginger.
- Also I sing quite well and play at open mics which helps me meet people.
- My online dating game is non-existant, I find it extremely depressing especially since from what I have seen its rubbish.
- I live in Brixton hill which is close enough to some bars.

I am struggling to find girls interested in me and willing to date (they say yes when they are drunk but then ghost me when we text, even after we have kissed at a nightclub).

Things that I am looking at doing are:
- New wardrobe going for an Indie look.
- Travel to Eastern European countries where the girls are less stuck up.
- Improve my Instagram.
- Move to Shoreditch or Camden.
- Networking with girls trying to get girlfriends who can maybe set me up on dates.
- I also thought about trying a trip to the US and touring some small college towns.

I know these plans are a bit all over the place. But my goal is just to get out there and realise that there are other women out there. As I keep feeling really down about my ex gf and it's quite tough.

Thanks if anyone responds to this.

Post: #8

Are you in a hotel or Airbnb or hostel?

Post: #9

I'm in a share house with some older people (around 25-30), here until April at least.

Post: #10

(09-07-2018 06:33 PM)Alexandros Wrote:  What advice would you give for getting laid in London when you:

1. don't have your own apartment but are in central London all the time due to studies/work

2. don't have a car (don't think it's an issue but wanted to provide full info)

3. don't drink, don'ts smoke

4, Mediterranean looking, slim, not tall

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Best advice: travel elsewhere.

Post: #11

(02-05-2019 10:00 AM)Cman Wrote:  even after we have kissed at a nightclub

A kiss is a kiss, who cares about a kiss? You got digits, kissed but didn't close that night, next her, keep her on the side and send a text around major holidays to see if you can swing a holiday fuck.

(02-05-2019 10:00 AM)Cman Wrote:  Travel to Eastern European countries where the girls are less stuck up.

I'd advise you focus on London, once you crack London, you can crack anywhere. Also EE countries aren't full of less stuck up girls.

Post: #12

(02-05-2019 12:17 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(09-07-2018 06:33 PM)Alexandros Wrote:  What advice would you give for getting laid in London when you:

1. don't have your own apartment but are in central London all the time due to studies/work

2. don't have a car (don't think it's an issue but wanted to provide full info)

3. don't drink, don'ts smoke

4, Mediterranean looking, slim, not tall

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Best advice: travel elsewhere.

I posted something similar in a different thread the other day. After spending 2 years away and especially after visiting SE Asia for the first time at the end of last year, I completely agree.

I share your vertical challenges and thanks to my Italian and Greek ancestry, probably your racial characteristics as well. Although, I hit the weights hard 4x a week (definitely something you could start doing to improve yourself).

I can honestly say that I had the time of my life in the Philippines. Filipinas are tiny, sexy, bubbly and have a feminine energy that women here have long lost. After spending 2 weeks there, it completely changed my perspective.

Post: #13

(02-05-2019 12:44 PM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  

(02-05-2019 12:17 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(09-07-2018 06:33 PM)Alexandros Wrote:  What advice would you give for getting laid in London when you:

1. don't have your own apartment but are in central London all the time due to studies/work

2. don't have a car (don't think it's an issue but wanted to provide full info)

3. don't drink, don'ts smoke

4, Mediterranean looking, slim, not tall

?

Best advice: travel elsewhere.

I posted something similar in a different thread the other day. After spending 2 years away and especially after visiting SE Asia for the first time at the end of last year, I completely agree.

I share your vertical challenges and thanks to my Italian and Greek ancestry, probably your racial characteristics as well. Although, I hit the weights hard 4x a week (definitely something you could start doing to improve yourself).

I can honestly say that I had the time of my life in the Philippines. Filipinas are tiny, sexy, bubbly and have a feminine energy that women here have long lost. After spending 2 weeks there, it completely changed my perspective.

Going to the Phils is probably not going to help you whatsoever in London; in fact, I would say that it’s more detrimental than helpful to your quest. Asia can make a man feel lazy, unjustifiably entitled, and rusty in the psychological aspects that will play a more prominent role in your interactions with NW European women.

One thing that took me a little time to get used to again was in the choice of words and idioms that’s suddenly at my disposal when back in the West. Whereas in Asia, you have to keep most every thought communicated at an absolute minimal common denominator at all times, lest she’ll feel shy and less comfortable. If I start leaving out prepositions and commit all the other usual grammatical sins, one might be perceived as dim, which is a perception that pays no dividends for Caucasians, although for other races it could very well help their chances.

I come through London for work from time to time, and as an outsider from a place unlikely to generate much fanfare with English women, I see the meeting local chicks situation there as akin to a bootcamp obstacle course. Yes, there’s better value most anywhere else, and you might even get offended by how crude and annoying your interactions play out, but it seems to help me keep my wits sharp and to always fine tool and refine my technique.

And there’s also something comforting about knowing that dealing with overweight Caucasian women who pride themselves on their sarcasm, snark, and sassiness is about as bad as it can possibly get. It has the effect of realising a little more appreciation for the good natured girls that eventually come into your life. We ought to know this better than anyone.