Post: #101

(09-25-2013 11:19 PM)SuS Wrote:  I'm very big on dating outside my race, being a black person whose lived his life refusing to play by "the negro script" that society (both blacks and whites) have tried to force down my throat. I'm a little bit of a nerd when it comes to liking video games and Anime, but my identity (game) is more of the surfer/skater/MMA punk. And for that reason, I'm a bid believer in the principle of:

location, Location, LOCATION!

As for a summary, I say the more West you go, the better it gets, and once you get out of the United States, the world is yours. And not to make the vibe too stern, but I believe that most black men tend to resort to thuggin, bumming, and dumbing themselves down to impress hoodrats because they believe the world hates them and the inability to escape to white (or for that matter non-black women). And unfortunately for most of this country (especially in the East Coast and Midwest) this holds truer now more than ever. But most black men don't know about places where they can be normal damn being without having to compete for some scrap hoodrat ass. Need proof, tell me how many black-on-black crimes are there in places like San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Minneapolis, and Sacramento, places that are exceptionally accepting of black men gaming/dating outside their race.

As for the kind of white (or non-black) women who are into black men by category listed earlier:

Category 1: Let's just call them who they are: fatties and wiggets that most white men don't want anyway, I personally see these broads as punp-and-dump at best, and that's if they're some fuckable NOT FAT Kreayshawn looking chick. A lot of these broads can be seen in run down parts of SOME Midwest cities, some diverse hood West Coast spots like Oakland, Vallejo, and Tacoma, and increasingly in Southern states that are trying to move on from Jim Crow (NC, FL, VA, TX). Most of these types are going for the thugs and swagfags anyway, so unless they're hitting on me, I'm not wasting my time

Category 2: Most of these white (or Latina/Asian/other) women who are interested in at least trying out to date black men (or who will date any man with some damn charisma or game) are probably going to be most visible out West, (Southwest, West Coast, Pac NW, Mountain West, Hawaii, even Alaska). This has been my bread and butter, getting the most success with the least effort, sticking with the surfer/skater/gamer/outdoorsy/MMA game that's basically my personality to begin with anyway. You can also see these kind of women in select parts of the Midwest like Minnesota, Iowa, or college towns. All of you who complain about SEC cunts, just hit on broads from Big 12 schools, they have the Southern charm without the Southern racism. But I'd probably say the majority of white women like this are outside of the United States.

Category 3: The white bitches who refuse to fuck with black men are basically the same white bitches who probably led most white men to this website to begin with. These are the same cunts who probably gave white guys a lot of shit too back in the day, going after the jock, trust fund, redneck, or guido fucks. And these are the same kind of bitches who are doing all of the misandrist shit MRA groups talk about (divorce, alimony, etc). Most of this can be found in the majority of the South, Midwest, and, despite how people hype up this region, they're the most visible in the Northeast, especially the urban Bos-Wash corridor. And being from (and currently stuck in) DC, I deal with these cunts on a daily basis! This is honestly going to be somewhat of a vent, but after dealing with 25 years of this shit, DC needs to have it's card called out when it comes to these black-men hating ass white cunts! This is after getting much better vibes and much more ONS/dates/WTFever from white women when I went to college in Pittsburgh, the primary city of the "racist" Appalachian region.

The racism in DC (and it's trendy suburbs of Arlington, Alexandria, and Bethesda) not only to applies to the typical ACC/SEC soroiwhores and WASPy girls, but the "liberal" yuppie and hipster girls, who would be open to dating black men in Seattle and SF, are just as racist as well. And this isn't just white women. Asians, Indians, and other minorities (which I'm more attracted to than white or black women) are worse when it comes to shitting on black men; strike two on my ass. And being a clean-cut black man doesn't cut it neither; half of the whites will still see you as a crime-causing n*gger, and the other half will actually treat you even worse by them being threatened that a black man is educated and competent. Someone mentioned that mulatto looking black men get NO PLAY from white women, and that rings no truer than in DC; which makes strike three for me! You may see an occasional (dark-skinned) black dude (most likely a former athlete) dating a white chick, but better believe that it was a result of knowing each other from college or earlier. Places like Chicago, Philly, Boston, Ohio, Michigan, and the Deep South deserve judgment, but at least in those places, you only deal with whites who hate you. In DC, it's everyone, including the thug-worshiping black woman, against black men, especially if you don't "follow the negro script". Having DMV knowledge of the best and worst places, I'd shoutout places like Montgomery and Howard (MD) as well as Prince William, Fairfax, and Loudoun (VA) that are (or were) somewhat an exception to the rule, but are being ruined by Northeast and Midwest racist transplants moving to those suburbs in droves and bringing their racism with them.

Now you all can see why I cherish racially integrated places where I can do whatever, however, and most importantly, WHOever I want. The lack of freedom I've faced by being in DC has been more than detrimental to my game. It's been detrimental to my well-being, and anyone knows that in order to be on top one one's game, their health and well-being need to be top notch.

(09-22-2013 07:23 PM)YaManBT Wrote:  

(09-22-2013 07:09 PM)OkStudies Wrote:  ^ How different are east coast white girls receptiveness relative to west coast white girls?

I live on the west coast, and though I would'nt say it's a walk in the park, it's probably easier than other regions, with the exception of places like Oregon or Arizona where there's hardly any black guys but alot of chicks from those states definitely love chocolate lol.

Personally, I have come to hate the East Coast, and will probably never live here again if I can help it. That's just me. The only big city I'd recommend would be NYC, for the simple fact of sheer volume. There are so many people in NYC, and it is so massive, that you are bound to find what you're looking for somewhere. Other than that, social circle game in smallish towns like where I'm from would be the only other option. Cities like Philly and Boston have that racially tense historical aspect combined with the close-knit Irish-Catholic type families. I can't really speak on DC too much. I've been several times, but have never really tried to game there. Also, I haven't been to the West Coast yet, so I can't truly compare. However, from what I've heard, it seems like the grass is much greener over there.

DC can be thrown right in there with Philly and Boston as atrocious places for black men to game/date white (or even Latina and Asian) women. Along with the racially segregated past DC has, a majority of the transplants are the Philly/NJ/Long Island/Bawwwston Irish and Italian trash who get feel better about themselves by shitting on blacks, along with the Midwestern POS from Cleveland, Detroit, or Chicaaaago who think the same way as their Northeast brethren, as I laid out above.

great post.


I would like to add that non-followers of the "negro-script" get the same black-on-black hatred here in Philly as you do in DC. I can't count how many times I've been asked why I don't have any tattoos, why I don't have any kids, and why I "talk white" (that one kills me). Also, when I first moved here, people used to tell me I smiled too much.

Post: #102

(09-23-2013 03:16 PM)TheSlayer Wrote:  Even one of the best players on this board (Gio) has posted stories of him going out to malls and campuses and going 0/5 or 0/7 on bad days.

Shit, 4-5 years ago,I would have 0-20 or 0-30 days!

I never sweated it. I didn't expect it to be easy.

Just keep grinding.

(09-23-2013 03:16 PM)TheSlayer Wrote:  I seriously doubt any of these race trolls approach (just in pure numbers) say like a Gio or a Roosh.

I will say this..

Unless you have approached at least 100 girls of a particular race, then you really don't know what that race of women thinks about YOU!

You can not live by assumptions and stereotypes. You must live by your own real world experience and data collection.

One Black man might get rejected while another Black man might be accepted. There is so many factors and variables involved.

A have many Black friends who game here in Northern California. They say that California is the best place for a Black man looking to get with White girls.

My feeling is this..

Some girls will not like you
Some girls will not
Some girls will give you a chance
Some girls won't
Some girls have a fantasy/fetish for you
Some girls don't
Some girls will bang you on the low
Some girls wont
Some girls will date you
Some girls won't

You must find the ones who are open to you, will give you a chance, like your type, or have a fetish for you. The only way to find these girls is to talk to a lot of girls of whatever race you are going for.

Also, someone said something about Whites guys and Asians. I must say, I have Black friends who do well with Asians here in The Bay Area. They are generally pretty smooth and well dressed.

Post: #103

The west coast is good for black guys. This is why I'm so confused whenever I see black guys complaining about America. I guess my perception is a little off from the rest of the country since I've spent most of my life on the west coast.

Post: #104

^ Funny thing is, it doesn't really seem to matter in my case. I regularly for some reason, pull east coast girls (visiting or living in california). Pull one decent white chick from New Jersey, chick damn near molested me in the club.

But maybe its because:

a) I am very good looking
b) I have a limited (and maybe highly selective) sample. I often pull in places where chicks are known to troll for black dick. So maybe I am getting the chocoholic east coast chicks.

Post: #105

again all we can tlak about is finding a place where they are nicer and more receptive? How about some actual GAME talk. Because, I have pulled white girls in Texas, and georgia. Its a bitch, because the culture is annoying, but I think being better armed with game is more important than actually location. After all. we are all still drinking the same American cool-aid. Lets talk actualy GAME.

Post: #106

The TL;DR version is this:

Game is game no matter where you are, or the color of your skin.

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Hey what’s up guys,

I’ve been following this forum for about 1 year+, and just signed up a couple of months ago.

I guess that I might as well chime into this.

Background:

6ft3 Black guy. I’m lightskinned and probably have a resemblance between a bit of Chris Brown and Drake – if you put those two together, that’s *probably* what I’d look like.

Now that being said, I’m not claiming to be a male model or some celebrity look alike. But, that’s the comparison that I get whenever I’m with or around chicks.

I’m not “thuggish” in any type of way. I have more of a Barack Obama type personality that probably stems from growing up around successful business people and not really being involved in “black culture” very much. Mind you, there was a time period in my teenage years where ALL that I would listen to was rap, and I could quote any song on the radio perfectly.

However, I became more sophisticated and all I began to listen to was “classical music”. My personality shifted towards a more “artsy” vibe (not hipster. Think more Renaissance Man). I have ZERO interest in Skrillex, Deadmouse/Dead5 – whatever that dudes name is, and people like that. Whenever I’m at home, I’m usually blasting out some Beethoven, Bach, Mozart, Rachmaninoff, or some Vivaldi if I want to take it to the Baroque period.

I also taught myself how to play piano and I can play a lot of the “famous” pieces that most people recognize and go, “OMG, I KNOW THAT SONG!!!” If I don’t know it, then I can learn it in a week. Anyways…

Growing up, I lived in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania where there was pretty much zero racial tension (at least that I noticed). I went to a small private school, and since most of the other kids in my class were white, I guess I got attracted to white chicks over the rare occasional black chick that would pop up in our class from time to time.

I grew up in Black culture (AME Zion Church, Black people food – Collard Greens, Ox Tails, etc.), but as I grew older, I shied away from it little by little.

Never really had any experiences with Race up in Pennsylvania, and I was only about 14 at the time, and my game wasn’t fully developed, but I can just say that there wasn’t any really stigma towards race. Black chicks would like white dudes, and white chicks would like black dudes. So it was good. No ill will towards different colors.

Eventually, I moved down to Atlanta, Georgia and I REALLY experienced different things about race.

(Funny story, once our parents told us that we were moving to the South, I remember almost breaking out in tears because I had just watched a 5 hour long documentary on the History Channel about the KKK and I didn’t want to end up getting lynched or shot for being black in Atlanta. Haha, but I was 13 or 14 at the time and didn’t know what to expect).
Anyways, moving on….

Once I moved down to ATL, I saw that there was a strong mentality that if you are BLACK you are supposed to act “THIS” way, and if you are WHITE, you are supposed to act “THAT” way.

Since I was at a new school in a new city at a different part of the country, I tried to fall into that mold that was set by my black peers. However, it didn’t work out.

I’d often get chided by my black friends about not being “black enough”, not hanging around black people enough, and for my tendencies to want to “talk to white girls” more than black girls. It partially got to me since I was young, but eventually I just kinda grew past all of that.

In retrospect, a lot of these kids had parents who were “Children of the ‘60’s”. Basically, that meant that our parents grew up with Martin Luther King Jr. on their TV’s, they saw the passage of the Civil Rights Bill, and they had to deal with water fountains and bathrooms for “White people” and “Black People”. So basically, they were children who grew up in a racially segregated society.

On top of that, their parents or even their grandparents might have been slaves or they were sharecroppers. So, they grew up in THAT society which reinforced that “white men are superior to black men”.

Now that you see what type of society that I grew up in, it’s time that I move on…

Growing up, I was always a social kid, but I was inconsistent with chicks. Some chicks I could get, then other chicks I couldn’t. I just didn’t understand “game” in my early teenage years.

Eventually, once I started reading different stuff like David Deangelo, and a bunch of different authors, I started applying different things and certain things worked, and certain things didn’t.

But I guess it’s time that I address the main part of the thread for “Gaming women as a black guy”.

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Gaming White Women as a Black Guy

I’ve mainly been attracted to ONLY white chicks in my life. Latin chicks are great too. I haven’t had my share of enough Asian chicks to give a comment. And I’ve also had a fair share of black chicks in my life, but I’m not really attracted to black chicks probably because I grew up around them and they are too…edgy/hardcore for my tastes.

In Georgia (the South too), there is definitely racial tension, but since there’s a lot of mingling between both white people and black people, there a lot of interracial dating.

In my experience, I’ve seen that ANY chick will date a black dude – no matter what.

There’s definitely a category of three chicks:

1) Chicks who are inclined to fuck/date black guys.
2) Chicks who are open to fucking/dating black guys.
3) Chicks who will fuck/date a black guy in the right circumstance.

NOTE: My experience has shown that even in the most racist parts of the Southern USA, even the girls who say, “I’ll never date a black guy” or “I’ll never fuck a black guy” will fuck/date a black guy if the situation is right. They just probably have a lot of conditioning that needs to be overcome. This conditioning has been brought on by peers, family, and society. I’m not saying that it’ll be ‘easy’ to get these chicks, but there’s never a chick who will NEVER ever fuck a black guy in her life. Good game is good game whether black or white.

ADDITIONAL NOTE: I’ve seen circumstances where girls from blatantly racist families have hooked up with black dudes, and have had relationships regardless of their racist families. In fact, their families racism only FUELS the chick’s attraction and level of investment to the black dude. So it backfires for the family. And they either get to the point where they accept the interracial couple, or they “ex-communicate” them both. But yeah.

So I’ll breakdown my eperiences with the 3 types of white girls:

1) Chicks who are inclined to fuck/date black guys – these chicks ALWAYS pop up on my radar, no matter what. There are certain chicks like this who have a certain “vibe” to them. I can’t describe it, but if you put me in a room with 20-30 different chicks I’d be able to identify who is into black dudes. The way I can tell is that the interaction just has a different “feel” to it in a way. It’s almost as if though the chick is “attuned” into black culture enough to understand and vibe with a black guy very well. Even if we DON’T mention anything about mainstream black culture (the new rappers, dancing, celebrities, etc.), I can still point these chicks out and I just *know*.

These chicks may have a lot of black girlfriends, or black guy friends. Or, they might listen to some/a lot of rap music.

It’s easy to verify this by asking if they’ve ever dated/fucked a black guy, so yeah.

In my experience, these chicks are 10-20% depending on your location.

SOMETIMES, there is a quality problem with these chicks because they are a bit on the chub side. However, I’ve seen some fucking STUNNERS.

I’ll be in a club and I’ll look at a white hot blondie, and she’ll look straight back and me, and it’s almost as if though we just “know” that each other are into the other race.

Conversely, if I’m hanging out with another black dude, I can tell probably within 5 minutes or so if he’s the type of dude who will date white chicks. This is probably funnier than the chicks because sometimes I’ll be talking with certain dudes and they are VERY similar to me in their own respective ways and I’ll just straight up ask, “Hey, do you date white chicks?” and they’ll be like YEP. So it’s funny. It’s just one of those things that I just “know”.

Anyways. Next category.

2) Chicks who are open to fucking/dating black guys – I’d say that the majority of chicks fall into this category. These are chicks whose parents might have not had ANY racial influence on their kids (meaning that race wasn’t an issue for these kids growing up). Even though they might not have “tasted the chocolate”, they never faced any issues with racial mixing in their upbringing.

These girls are pretty cool and open to hang out with.

One of my favorite screening questions is this:

I’ll have a girl standing right in front of me. Attraction is there, things are going well, she’s probably about a couple of inches away from my face, and I’ll ask her, “When’s the last time that you’ve kissed a black guy?”

And she’ll say, “…never…”

Proceed to make out and/or pull.

I don’t know how many chicks this has happened with, but it’s too many to count.

I’d say that this chicks are anywhere from 50-70% of all chicks.

3) Chicks who will fuck/date a black guy in the right circumstance – other dudes have put this into the category of “Chicks who will ignore a black guy” or “Chicks who will not fuck a black guy”. In my experience, that’s not an accurate statement.

YES, certain chicks are more inaccessible than other chicks, but a lot of it has to do with situation/circumstance/location, etc.

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NOTE: I’ve seen this “Black guys have no chance at pulling an SEC Sorority Girl” stuff mentioned quite a bit, so let me elaborate on that….

In 2009, I turned down an opportunity to attend Harvard University in order to attend a “party school”. It was going to basically be a matter of me filling out the application for Harvard then sending it in for an acceptance and a full-scholarship. Well, my priorities were no longer working in corporate culture, they were aligned with hitting up chicks, going out, and mastering this thing people called “Game”.

I ended up going to the University of Georgia in Athens, GA. At the time, it was ranked the number 1 party school in the USA by Playboy Magazine. So my timing was perfect.

Athens has a great nightlife for a pure-college town. And I found myself being really successful with the GDI (non-greek) chicks. For some reason, I couldn’t break into the sorority groups as well as I thought. I’d have good interactions in classes with these chicks, but I couldn’t get them out with me because they were 1) too busy with sorority sisters or 2) getting hit up by frat bro’s.

My Game was “good”. IT was better than a lot of other guy’s game, but there was still much for me to learn. But I didn’t have any success with these SEC sorority chicks.

But that was me at the age of 19 with very little money, a miserable college student who wanted to drop out and pursue entrepreneurial interests, and not wanting to continue my education.

I ended up dropping out against my parent’s wishes, but I started making money in different ways, so it was all good.

Anyways, fast forward 3-4 years.

Between then and now, I: traveled different parts of the country and some of the world, became successful in different business ventures, had “adventures” with many, many girls, and my Game had risen above Power Level 9000.

I went back to Athens, GA because there was a 4 year anniversary for my classmates. Many of them would be graduating in a couple of days.

I literally showed up like a “ghost” because everyone thought that I had disappeared and/or died. I didn’t keep in touch with anybody, but I would occasionally hop on facebook from time to time.

Well, I was in Athens for a couple of days, and I proceeded to smash 3 top sorority chicks from the “racist” sororities. Only 1 of them was a chick of mine who I knew before, the other 2 were chicks who I had just met in the couple of days that I was there. And these weren’t bottom tier sorority chicks, more along the lines of KD, KKG, and something else. They were sororities that had ZERO minorities in them, so yeah.

So I just give that story to say that…it doesn’t matter whether you’re black or white. Game is COLORBLIND.

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Moving on…

The 3rd type of chick just needs the right circumstances. I’m not saying that you’ll get that chick the same night. It might take some persistence over a couple of days, weeks, or months, but eventually she’ll cave because your awesomeness overrides her social conditioning system.

I’ve had a Russian lady friend who told me 4 years ago that she’d, “Never date or have sex with a black guy”. In my mind I was like, “yeah…we’ll see how that turns out…”

Well, I saw her at that little reunion, and she proceeded to tell me that she’s been torn open by 3 or 4 BBC’s, so yeah…

There’s no girl that WON’T date/fuck a black guy. There just has to be the correct levels of investment, game, and just understanding that it’s a PROCESS that’s going to take time.

If I meet a chick in the 3rd category, I have to remind myself that it’s not the GIRL who I’m dealing with, it’s her conditioning, and fear of social repercussions about race.

But I don’t really view race in the same way as other people, so I don’t even think about it.

These girls are in the 5-15% category depending on where you live. Again, it’s very location independent. And this revolves around a girls upbringing more than anything.

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With all that being said, there are a couple of points I’d like to personally address.

-Civil War and Slavery

-American girls vs. Non-American Girls:

-Black Clubs

-“Black Guy Game”

-Things I like to say to white people/white girls

-Stereotypes

-Why I don’t like black chicks.

-What White Girls think about race.

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-Civil War and Slavery – this is the ONLY reason why race is an issue in the US. Eckhart Tolle talks about how each country has its own “Pain Body” where a raw nerve is hit whenever racism is brought up or whenever it happens. I personally think that the US society is trying to make up for what it “did” to black people in the 1700-1960’s.

-Things I like to say to white people/white girls:

If a girl is not responsive, I’ll just ask straight up, “Are you racist?” And she will explain for about 2-5 minutes how she is NOT racist and how she has TONZ of black friends, and how understanding and accepting she is of white people. Again, like I said before, no one wants to be labeled as a racist, and no one wants to openly hang around a racist.

“I’m black, this is just how we do things in my culture” – certain girls are NOT very physical. So whenever it comes to escalation, I’ll get stuff like, “Oh you’re really touchy” or “You touch me a lot”. This is just a BS excuse, but it works.

“Let’s play reverse slavery…I’m the slavemaster and you’re my slave” – so much fun to do this because it’s so fucked up, lol.

“This is payback for the Civil War” – one of my favorite things to say to white people for ANYTHING. If I cut someone in the cover line, and I get an object like, “OMG dude, you can’t do that”, then I’ll just say that. This sentence doesn’t make ANY sense at all, but (American) white people understand what I mean by it. Technically, the sentence should be, “This is payback for all you white people did to black people during the slavery period”. However, that just doesn’t have the same ring to it, lol. They understand what I mean by it.

Think about it:

1) Celebrities call gay people faggots (Alec Baldwin) and no one really calls. However, Paula Deen said the N-word 40 years ago and she gets DROPPED like a fly from all her sponsorships. The truth is, in America, NO ONE wants to be associated with a racist (at least openly).

2) The USA is one of the few places that I know I can get a full scholarship to an Ivy League for having good grades, being a “good person”, and getting an above decent SAT score. The “Under Represented Minorities” as College Admissions Officers call them get special privilege. Why? Because of “diversity”, but I think that it all stems from slavery and the civil war.

3) From what I understand, Germans (most) are the same way about Nazism. They do NOT stand for it in 2013. It’s the same thing about Racism in the USA. Even though this shit happened hundreds of years ago, no one wants to be called a racist or be openly associated with racism. For example, I’m sure that that sorority in Alabama probably got DOZENS of complaints in the past about how black members weren’t able to get access to the “white only” sororities. However, since it’s 2013 and EVERYTHING goes through social media, this complaint got “taken seriously” and we’ll probably see 5 new black sorority sisters in Rush 2014.

-American girls vs. Non-American Girls: Out of the chicks I’ve banged, I’d say that 60% were American and the other 40% were foreign-ish (either foreign born and/or raised). The 40% have been foreign exchange students, or chicks who were visiting in some capacity. I’d say that foreign chicks really want to taste the chocolate because they don’t get the opportunity to do so. However, to them, it’s not really racially based, it’s just “different” or “exotic”. It’s not what they’re getting on a regular basis.

-Black Clubs: Some guys I know have said that they don’t think that I would do well in a black club. However, nothing could be farther from the truth. I actually DESTROY it more in a black club than anywhere else. Mainly because the chicks have never met a guy who is as well-spoken/articulate is me AND is cool/fun/chill. They are used to dealing with thugs.

However, I don’t pull/date African American chicks anymore, but I will hit them up and just talk for fun.

I’m the type of guy that if I go to a black club, I’ll talk to everyone, but I’ll only get sexual/pull the (attractive) white chicks from there.

I have a lot of white girlfriends who have never been to black clubs but are DYING to go to one just for the experience. So I’ll roll 4 (attractive) white chicks deeps into a BLACK club. Needless to say, they get eyefucked and I get eyefucked like crazy. Nothing funnier than seeing 4 snowbunnies and me standing in a line surrounded by a sea of chocolate.

So, I’ll be in a black club surrounded by 4 attractive white chicks, and whatever other white girls are in the club will see that I’m “preselected” so they will naturally be open whenever I go up to hit them or they might head over to me, so it depends.

I remember once this Model Blondie Snow bunnie was getting dragged off by 5 of her black guy friends, but she kept running over to me to “chat” because I was “cool”.

But I mention all of that to say that, white people in a black club are like aliens in time square…you don’t see them. And whenever you do, it’s a spectacle.

-“Black Guy Game” – In my opinion, most black guys have shitty game. ****Now, the black members on this forum probably have GREAT game, so they do NOT fall into this category****. However, I’m pretty confident to say that somewhere between 70-90% of black dudes might do well with chicks for whatever reason, but they have WEAKSAUCE GAME. However, black dudes are some of the most social dudes I know, and they are fun to be around, and they DO get chicks. However, I think that white people overestimate how “good” the average black guy is. Needless to say, there are some legitimate fucking players out there who are straight up awesome dudes and pimps, but they are too far in between. White people greatly exaggerate the game skill of black dudes. And that is because of this next category….

-Stereotypes: Society does a great job of putting images of black people saying that they are: rich gangsters, great athletes, great musicians, and fun/social/energetic people to be around. And those are true.

However, there is a lot of shit spread on the news about black people being: murderers, bank robbers, car jackers, rapists, etc. So eh…

-Why I don’t like African American chicks.

They are too angry, bitter, and some are very loud/ghetto. It’s a big turn off for me. Some are very crude and unrefined. However, not all, but enough of them for to spoil the bunch.

I’m open to dating different African chicks of non-American heritage (African-English, African-Canadian, African-French, etc. ), but since I’m in the States right now, I don’t come across chicks like that very often.

-What White Girls think about race.

It might be an “exotic” thing for them subconsciously. But too many of them are able to look past the superficial BS and just see the guy for the guy. I’ve heard pretty much every chick tell me that she SEES a black guy whenever she looks at me, but she doesn’t see me ONLY as a black guy whenever she looks at me. Black is just the color of my skin. It’s not “who I am”. And chicks look past this easily (some of them more quickly than others), so yeah.

That’s my 2 cents about everything.

Cheers.

Post: #107

LOLLLL. That post was a little bit longer than I thought it would be. But hey, I guess that's what happens whenever you type 120 WPM on a DVORAK keyboard....

Anyways.

The TL;DR version is this:

Game is game no matter where you are, or the color of your skin.

Post: #108

Is this white chic a category 2 or 3? I'd bet she's a 3.





I like her vibe. And I rarely say that about American white women, but she seems like the type of gentle, feminine white woman you might find from a smaller city in the midwest. No valley girl talk, no vocal fry, no snark, soft-spoken, nice clear skin and long hair, no slutty vibe. and I bet she has no tattoos. She just seems like she'd be a sweetheart. These type of white girls are becoming more and more rare. Compare her to Miley Cyrus.

Post: #109

Probably category 2? Why do you think she is category 3?

Post: #110

(09-26-2013 11:45 PM)CEOArob Wrote:  The TL;DR version is this:

Game is game no matter where you are, or the color of your skin.

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Hey what’s up guys,

I’ve been following this forum for about 1 year+, and just signed up a couple of months ago.

I guess that I might as well chime into this.

Background:

6ft3 Black guy. I’m lightskinned and probably have a resemblance between a bit of Chris Brown and Drake – if you put those two together, that’s *probably* what I’d look like.

Now that being said, I’m not claiming to be a male model or some celebrity look alike. But, that’s the comparison that I get whenever I’m with or around chicks.

I’m not “thuggish” in any type of way. I have more of a Barack Obama type personality that probably stems from growing up around successful business people and not really being involved in “black culture” very much. Mind you, there was a time period in my teenage years where ALL that I would listen to was rap, and I could quote any song on the radio perfectly.

However, I became more sophisticated and all I began to listen to was “classical music”. My personality shifted towards a more “artsy” vibe (not hipster. Think more Renaissance Man). I have ZERO interest in Skrillex, Deadmouse/Dead5 – whatever that dudes name is, and people like that. Whenever I’m at home, I’m usually blasting out some Beethoven, Bach, Mozart, Rachmaninoff, or some Vivaldi if I want to take it to the Baroque period.

I also taught myself how to play piano and I can play a lot of the “famous” pieces that most people recognize and go, “OMG, I KNOW THAT SONG!!!” If I don’t know it, then I can learn it in a week. Anyways…

Growing up, I lived in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania where there was pretty much zero racial tension (at least that I noticed). I went to a small private school, and since most of the other kids in my class were white, I guess I got attracted to white chicks over the rare occasional black chick that would pop up in our class from time to time.

I grew up in Black culture (AME Zion Church, Black people food – Collard Greens, Ox Tails, etc.), but as I grew older, I shied away from it little by little.

Never really had any experiences with Race up in Pennsylvania, and I was only about 14 at the time, and my game wasn’t fully developed, but I can just say that there wasn’t any really stigma towards race. Black chicks would like white dudes, and white chicks would like black dudes. So it was good. No ill will towards different colors.

Eventually, I moved down to Atlanta, Georgia and I REALLY experienced different things about race.

(Funny story, once our parents told us that we were moving to the South, I remember almost breaking out in tears because I had just watched a 5 hour long documentary on the History Channel about the KKK and I didn’t want to end up getting lynched or shot for being black in Atlanta. Haha, but I was 13 or 14 at the time and didn’t know what to expect).
Anyways, moving on….

Once I moved down to ATL, I saw that there was a strong mentality that if you are BLACK you are supposed to act “THIS” way, and if you are WHITE, you are supposed to act “THAT” way.

Since I was at a new school in a new city at a different part of the country, I tried to fall into that mold that was set by my black peers. However, it didn’t work out.

I’d often get chided by my black friends about not being “black enough”, not hanging around black people enough, and for my tendencies to want to “talk to white girls” more than black girls. It partially got to me since I was young, but eventually I just kinda grew past all of that.

In retrospect, a lot of these kids had parents who were “Children of the ‘60’s”. Basically, that meant that our parents grew up with Martin Luther King Jr. on their TV’s, they saw the passage of the Civil Rights Bill, and they had to deal with water fountains and bathrooms for “White people” and “Black People”. So basically, they were children who grew up in a racially segregated society.

On top of that, their parents or even their grandparents might have been slaves or they were sharecroppers. So, they grew up in THAT society which reinforced that “white men are superior to black men”.

Now that you see what type of society that I grew up in, it’s time that I move on…

Growing up, I was always a social kid, but I was inconsistent with chicks. Some chicks I could get, then other chicks I couldn’t. I just didn’t understand “game” in my early teenage years.

Eventually, once I started reading different stuff like David Deangelo, and a bunch of different authors, I started applying different things and certain things worked, and certain things didn’t.

But I guess it’s time that I address the main part of the thread for “Gaming women as a black guy”.

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Gaming White Women as a Black Guy

I’ve mainly been attracted to ONLY white chicks in my life. Latin chicks are great too. I haven’t had my share of enough Asian chicks to give a comment. And I’ve also had a fair share of black chicks in my life, but I’m not really attracted to black chicks probably because I grew up around them and they are too…edgy/hardcore for my tastes.

In Georgia (the South too), there is definitely racial tension, but since there’s a lot of mingling between both white people and black people, there a lot of interracial dating.

In my experience, I’ve seen that ANY chick will date a black dude – no matter what.

There’s definitely a category of three chicks:

1) Chicks who are inclined to fuck/date black guys.
2) Chicks who are open to fucking/dating black guys.
3) Chicks who will fuck/date a black guy in the right circumstance.

NOTE: My experience has shown that even in the most racist parts of the Southern USA, even the girls who say, “I’ll never date a black guy” or “I’ll never fuck a black guy” will fuck/date a black guy if the situation is right. They just probably have a lot of conditioning that needs to be overcome. This conditioning has been brought on by peers, family, and society. I’m not saying that it’ll be ‘easy’ to get these chicks, but there’s never a chick who will NEVER ever fuck a black guy in her life. Good game is good game whether black or white.

ADDITIONAL NOTE: I’ve seen circumstances where girls from blatantly racist families have hooked up with black dudes, and have had relationships regardless of their racist families. In fact, their families racism only FUELS the chick’s attraction and level of investment to the black dude. So it backfires for the family. And they either get to the point where they accept the interracial couple, or they “ex-communicate” them both. But yeah.

So I’ll breakdown my eperiences with the 3 types of white girls:

1) Chicks who are inclined to fuck/date black guys – these chicks ALWAYS pop up on my radar, no matter what. There are certain chicks like this who have a certain “vibe” to them. I can’t describe it, but if you put me in a room with 20-30 different chicks I’d be able to identify who is into black dudes. The way I can tell is that the interaction just has a different “feel” to it in a way. It’s almost as if though the chick is “attuned” into black culture enough to understand and vibe with a black guy very well. Even if we DON’T mention anything about mainstream black culture (the new rappers, dancing, celebrities, etc.), I can still point these chicks out and I just *know*.

These chicks may have a lot of black girlfriends, or black guy friends. Or, they might listen to some/a lot of rap music.

It’s easy to verify this by asking if they’ve ever dated/fucked a black guy, so yeah.

In my experience, these chicks are 10-20% depending on your location.

SOMETIMES, there is a quality problem with these chicks because they are a bit on the chub side. However, I’ve seen some fucking STUNNERS.

I’ll be in a club and I’ll look at a white hot blondie, and she’ll look straight back and me, and it’s almost as if though we just “know” that each other are into the other race.

Conversely, if I’m hanging out with another black dude, I can tell probably within 5 minutes or so if he’s the type of dude who will date white chicks. This is probably funnier than the chicks because sometimes I’ll be talking with certain dudes and they are VERY similar to me in their own respective ways and I’ll just straight up ask, “Hey, do you date white chicks?” and they’ll be like YEP. So it’s funny. It’s just one of those things that I just “know”.

Anyways. Next category.

2) Chicks who are open to fucking/dating black guys – I’d say that the majority of chicks fall into this category. These are chicks whose parents might have not had ANY racial influence on their kids (meaning that race wasn’t an issue for these kids growing up). Even though they might not have “tasted the chocolate”, they never faced any issues with racial mixing in their upbringing.

These girls are pretty cool and open to hang out with.

One of my favorite screening questions is this:

I’ll have a girl standing right in front of me. Attraction is there, things are going well, she’s probably about a couple of inches away from my face, and I’ll ask her, “When’s the last time that you’ve kissed a black guy?”

And she’ll say, “…never…”

Proceed to make out and/or pull.

I don’t know how many chicks this has happened with, but it’s too many to count.

I’d say that this chicks are anywhere from 50-70% of all chicks.

3) Chicks who will fuck/date a black guy in the right circumstance – other dudes have put this into the category of “Chicks who will ignore a black guy” or “Chicks who will not fuck a black guy”. In my experience, that’s not an accurate statement.

YES, certain chicks are more inaccessible than other chicks, but a lot of it has to do with situation/circumstance/location, etc.

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NOTE: I’ve seen this “Black guys have no chance at pulling an SEC Sorority Girl” stuff mentioned quite a bit, so let me elaborate on that….

In 2009, I turned down an opportunity to attend Harvard University in order to attend a “party school”. It was going to basically be a matter of me filling out the application for Harvard then sending it in for an acceptance and a full-scholarship. Well, my priorities were no longer working in corporate culture, they were aligned with hitting up chicks, going out, and mastering this thing people called “Game”.

I ended up going to the University of Georgia in Athens, GA. At the time, it was ranked the number 1 party school in the USA by Playboy Magazine. So my timing was perfect.

Athens has a great nightlife for a pure-college town. And I found myself being really successful with the GDI (non-greek) chicks. For some reason, I couldn’t break into the sorority groups as well as I thought. I’d have good interactions in classes with these chicks, but I couldn’t get them out with me because they were 1) too busy with sorority sisters or 2) getting hit up by frat bro’s.

My Game was “good”. IT was better than a lot of other guy’s game, but there was still much for me to learn. But I didn’t have any success with these SEC sorority chicks.

But that was me at the age of 19 with very little money, a miserable college student who wanted to drop out and pursue entrepreneurial interests, and not wanting to continue my education.

I ended up dropping out against my parent’s wishes, but I started making money in different ways, so it was all good.

Anyways, fast forward 3-4 years.

Between then and now, I: traveled different parts of the country and some of the world, became successful in different business ventures, had “adventures” with many, many girls, and my Game had risen above Power Level 9000.

I went back to Athens, GA because there was a 4 year anniversary for my classmates. Many of them would be graduating in a couple of days.

I literally showed up like a “ghost” because everyone thought that I had disappeared and/or died. I didn’t keep in touch with anybody, but I would occasionally hop on facebook from time to time.

Well, I was in Athens for a couple of days, and I proceeded to smash 3 top sorority chicks from the “racist” sororities. Only 1 of them was a chick of mine who I knew before, the other 2 were chicks who I had just met in the couple of days that I was there. And these weren’t bottom tier sorority chicks, more along the lines of KD, KKG, and something else. They were sororities that had ZERO minorities in them, so yeah.

So I just give that story to say that…it doesn’t matter whether you’re black or white. Game is COLORBLIND.

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Moving on…

The 3rd type of chick just needs the right circumstances. I’m not saying that you’ll get that chick the same night. It might take some persistence over a couple of days, weeks, or months, but eventually she’ll cave because your awesomeness overrides her social conditioning system.

I’ve had a Russian lady friend who told me 4 years ago that she’d, “Never date or have sex with a black guy”. In my mind I was like, “yeah…we’ll see how that turns out…”

Well, I saw her at that little reunion, and she proceeded to tell me that she’s been torn open by 3 or 4 BBC’s, so yeah…

There’s no girl that WON’T date/fuck a black guy. There just has to be the correct levels of investment, game, and just understanding that it’s a PROCESS that’s going to take time.

If I meet a chick in the 3rd category, I have to remind myself that it’s not the GIRL who I’m dealing with, it’s her conditioning, and fear of social repercussions about race.

But I don’t really view race in the same way as other people, so I don’t even think about it.

These girls are in the 5-15% category depending on where you live. Again, it’s very location independent. And this revolves around a girls upbringing more than anything.

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With all that being said, there are a couple of points I’d like to personally address.

-Civil War and Slavery

-American girls vs. Non-American Girls:

-Black Clubs

-“Black Guy Game”

-Things I like to say to white people/white girls

-Stereotypes

-Why I don’t like black chicks.

-What White Girls think about race.

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-Civil War and Slavery – this is the ONLY reason why race is an issue in the US. Eckhart Tolle talks about how each country has its own “Pain Body” where a raw nerve is hit whenever racism is brought up or whenever it happens. I personally think that the US society is trying to make up for what it “did” to black people in the 1700-1960’s.

-Things I like to say to white people/white girls:

If a girl is not responsive, I’ll just ask straight up, “Are you racist?” And she will explain for about 2-5 minutes how she is NOT racist and how she has TONZ of black friends, and how understanding and accepting she is of white people. Again, like I said before, no one wants to be labeled as a racist, and no one wants to openly hang around a racist.

“I’m black, this is just how we do things in my culture” – certain girls are NOT very physical. So whenever it comes to escalation, I’ll get stuff like, “Oh you’re really touchy” or “You touch me a lot”. This is just a BS excuse, but it works.

“Let’s play reverse slavery…I’m the slavemaster and you’re my slave” – so much fun to do this because it’s so fucked up, lol.

“This is payback for the Civil War” – one of my favorite things to say to white people for ANYTHING. If I cut someone in the cover line, and I get an object like, “OMG dude, you can’t do that”, then I’ll just say that. This sentence doesn’t make ANY sense at all, but (American) white people understand what I mean by it. Technically, the sentence should be, “This is payback for all you white people did to black people during the slavery period”. However, that just doesn’t have the same ring to it, lol. They understand what I mean by it.

Think about it:

1) Celebrities call gay people faggots (Alec Baldwin) and no one really calls. However, Paula Deen said the N-word 40 years ago and she gets DROPPED like a fly from all her sponsorships. The truth is, in America, NO ONE wants to be associated with a racist (at least openly).

2) The USA is one of the few places that I know I can get a full scholarship to an Ivy League for having good grades, being a “good person”, and getting an above decent SAT score. The “Under Represented Minorities” as College Admissions Officers call them get special privilege. Why? Because of “diversity”, but I think that it all stems from slavery and the civil war.

3) From what I understand, Germans (most) are the same way about Nazism. They do NOT stand for it in 2013. It’s the same thing about Racism in the USA. Even though this shit happened hundreds of years ago, no one wants to be called a racist or be openly associated with racism. For example, I’m sure that that sorority in Alabama probably got DOZENS of complaints in the past about how black members weren’t able to get access to the “white only” sororities. However, since it’s 2013 and EVERYTHING goes through social media, this complaint got “taken seriously” and we’ll probably see 5 new black sorority sisters in Rush 2014.

-American girls vs. Non-American Girls: Out of the chicks I’ve banged, I’d say that 60% were American and the other 40% were foreign-ish (either foreign born and/or raised). The 40% have been foreign exchange students, or chicks who were visiting in some capacity. I’d say that foreign chicks really want to taste the chocolate because they don’t get the opportunity to do so. However, to them, it’s not really racially based, it’s just “different” or “exotic”. It’s not what they’re getting on a regular basis.

-Black Clubs: Some guys I know have said that they don’t think that I would do well in a black club. However, nothing could be farther from the truth. I actually DESTROY it more in a black club than anywhere else. Mainly because the chicks have never met a guy who is as well-spoken/articulate is me AND is cool/fun/chill. They are used to dealing with thugs.

However, I don’t pull/date African American chicks anymore, but I will hit them up and just talk for fun.

I’m the type of guy that if I go to a black club, I’ll talk to everyone, but I’ll only get sexual/pull the (attractive) white chicks from there.

I have a lot of white girlfriends who have never been to black clubs but are DYING to go to one just for the experience. So I’ll roll 4 (attractive) white chicks deeps into a BLACK club. Needless to say, they get eyefucked and I get eyefucked like crazy. Nothing funnier than seeing 4 snowbunnies and me standing in a line surrounded by a sea of chocolate.

So, I’ll be in a black club surrounded by 4 attractive white chicks, and whatever other white girls are in the club will see that I’m “preselected” so they will naturally be open whenever I go up to hit them or they might head over to me, so it depends.

I remember once this Model Blondie Snow bunnie was getting dragged off by 5 of her black guy friends, but she kept running over to me to “chat” because I was “cool”.

But I mention all of that to say that, white people in a black club are like aliens in time square…you don’t see them. And whenever you do, it’s a spectacle.

-“Black Guy Game” – In my opinion, most black guys have shitty game. ****Now, the black members on this forum probably have GREAT game, so they do NOT fall into this category****. However, I’m pretty confident to say that somewhere between 70-90% of black dudes might do well with chicks for whatever reason, but they have WEAKSAUCE GAME. However, black dudes are some of the most social dudes I know, and they are fun to be around, and they DO get chicks. However, I think that white people overestimate how “good” the average black guy is. Needless to say, there are some legitimate fucking players out there who are straight up awesome dudes and pimps, but they are too far in between. White people greatly exaggerate the game skill of black dudes. And that is because of this next category….

-Stereotypes: Society does a great job of putting images of black people saying that they are: rich gangsters, great athletes, great musicians, and fun/social/energetic people to be around. And those are true.

However, there is a lot of shit spread on the news about black people being: murderers, bank robbers, car jackers, rapists, etc. So eh…

-Why I don’t like African American chicks.

They are too angry, bitter, and some are very loud/ghetto. It’s a big turn off for me. Some are very crude and unrefined. However, not all, but enough of them for to spoil the bunch.

I’m open to dating different African chicks of non-American heritage (African-English, African-Canadian, African-French, etc. ), but since I’m in the States right now, I don’t come across chicks like that very often.

-What White Girls think about race.

It might be an “exotic” thing for them subconsciously. But too many of them are able to look past the superficial BS and just see the guy for the guy. I’ve heard pretty much every chick tell me that she SEES a black guy whenever she looks at me, but she doesn’t see me ONLY as a black guy whenever she looks at me. Black is just the color of my skin. It’s not “who I am”. And chicks look past this easily (some of them more quickly than others), so yeah.

That’s my 2 cents about everything.

Cheers.

I like how this cat dropped some real stuff(GAme) and everyone is quiet. I get the impression that alot of guys here just wanna run to the supposed pussy paradise as opposed to actually learning to game and growing. I understand there is racism out there especially in parts of the western world but this was a good post and noone even responded.
I just think its interesting....
+1 from me, you sound like a smart cat.

Post: #111

^^^ I'm not sure how but I missed this guy's long posting. Yeah it was good. Though my main difference is that I rarely bring up race in conversation if I don't have to. Whereas he seems to like joking about it or incorporating it into this game. I feel like if I'm talking to a white or Latin chic, I just try to avoid interjecting any mention of race as I feel little good can come of it. Can't think of the last time I've even been around a white girl and mentioned race in any way. But that's just my preference, not saying either of us is right or wrong there. Good post and hope that guy sticks around.

Post: #112

(10-01-2013 12:46 AM)elabayarde Wrote:  I like how this cat dropped some real stuff(GAme) and everyone is quiet. I get the impression that alot of guys here just wanna run to the supposed pussy paradise as opposed to actually learning to game and growing. I understand there is racism out there especially in parts of the western world but this was a good post and noone even responded.
I just think its interesting....
+1 from me, you sound like a smart cat.

Thx Bro.

I think that after a post gets so many responses, certain things get missed. It's all good though.

And I agree about the Paradise thing. For example, I've been reading alot of sheets that have popped up most recently about Austin, TX (the city I've most recently lived in for an extended period of time), and I'm reading how certain guys are trying to find the "best" or "easiest" spots to find chicks.

Granted, certain spots are more conducive to pulling than others - without a doubt. But like you said, on the larger scale, alot of guys are trying to run as opposed to just "making it work", boosting their game, and learning/growing/having fun.

Of course, it's good to be black. It's just a cool thing - like having red hair, being tall (or a midget), having grey eyes, etc. In some parts of the world it's common, in some it's not.

(10-01-2013 01:49 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  ^^^ I'm not sure how but I missed this guy's long posting. Yeah it was good. Though my main difference is that I rarely bring up race in conversation if I don't have to. Whereas he seems to like joking about it or incorporating it into this game. I feel like if I'm talking to a white or Latin chic, I just try to avoid interjecting any mention of race as I feel little good can come of it. Can't think of the last time I've even been around a white girl and mentioned race in any way. But that's just my preference, not saying either of us is right or wrong there. Good post and hope that guy sticks around.

Ah, I can see how I might've come across that way.

Talking about race is not something that I incorporate into my game 100% of the time - or even 50% of the time. It's actually less than 5%. I'm sure there might be some mentionings by me where I might have said that I "do it alot", but in my mind, that's alot.

Race isn't something that I talk about on a daily basis because to me, race is just something that I view the same way as anything else. I don't put special meaning on it, it's just something "cool" and "different".

I just threw alot of the stuff that I talk about out there for fun.

However, I *ALWAYS* ask a chick who I'm about to seal the deal with, "when was the last time you kissed/had sex with a black guy". This is something that is 100% in the interaction where I'm about to pull or in the process of pulling - it might not be same night as I'm making out with her, it might be something I ask after sex, but it's just mainly to gauge what "category" (previously talked about) this chick might be in and other things like that.

But I don't go asking that to any chick, only chicks I'm pulling/have pulled.

On a side note, I feel like today's American culture doesn't care about race that much really. It's just another thing. Race doesn't mean the same thing it did in the 1960's, or hell, even the 1860's.

I know that certain parts of the world DEFINITELY still have stigmas/beliefs about people of certain skin colors, but I think that those parts of the world will get more open-minded with time. So it's all good.

But it's good to be black.

Post: #113

^yea, agree with ya man. Funny you say that race doesn't matter much in the this generation, because to be honest, 99.9% of the time I forget that I am black. And that's also the case for pretty much everyone I know who is black. Maybe I live in a bubble? Idk

But anyways, that said. I agree with the OP, but I haven't been with a non-asian chick in so long that I don't even think I can contribute. (American) White chicks look old by the time they're 25, they're pretty slutty on a whole, and they need way too much re-assurance. Why not just make the switch to asian chicks?

But yea man, agreed. It's good to be black

Post: #114

^yea, agree with ya man. Funny you say that race doesn't matter much in the this generation, because to be honest, 99.9% of the time I forget that I am black. And that's also the case for pretty much everyone I know who is black. Maybe I live in a bubble? Idk

But anyways, that said. I agree with the OP, but I haven't been with a non-asian chick in so long that I don't even think I can contribute. (American) White chicks look old by the time they're 25, they're pretty slutty on a whole, and they need way too much re-assurance. Why not just make the switch to asian chicks?

But yea man, agreed. It's good to be black

Post: #115

What kind of physiques do you guys have? do you think its more important to be in shape and muscular as a black man? what about more bulky muscular look in comparison to a low BF% look as a black man?

Post: #116

Just seeing CEOArob's post. Made a lot of the same points I made about keeping an open mind and going after what you want. Nothing is impossible and many chicks don't really know what they want so you have to give it to them.

CEOArob - my cousin went to UGA. It's a small world there with black males so we probably know some of the same people I'm sure. I know all his boys and frat bros from there.

Also, funny you brought up Harvard. My other cousin (UGA's brother) went to Stanford to get the hell out of Georgia and never returned. Not too hard to do when you live in the south and get good grades, have some esoteric interests, and are an underrepresented minority.

Good post man.

Post: #117

For everyone who says "game is game" and "I forget that I'm black", I'm not calling BS, but answer me this:

-Where do you live (even if it's just the country and state/territory)?
-Where do you spit the most game?

Because where I am (as stated earlier), it's a whole 'nother ball game.

Post: #118

^Atm, living in California it makes a difference. But I've lived in the south, east coast, south america. Imagine a guy with acne scars on his face...he can still get the same girls so long as he isn't fixated on himself.

Maybe you should work on getting out of where you are currently.

Post: #119

(10-02-2013 11:11 AM)SuS Wrote:  For everyone who says "game is game" and "I forget that I'm black", I'm not calling BS, but answer me this:

-Where do you live (even if it's just the country and state/territory)?
-Where do you spit the most game?

Because where I am (as stated earlier), it's a whole 'nother ball game.

Location is always half the battle. Not just with race, but anything. Employment, real estate, nightlife, lifestyle, whatever. Not to say you can't do well in a less than ideal location, but living in a place where the location suits your aims will just make your life so much easier. I'm lazy, I don't want to have to work my ass off. I get why some white guys will just go to Peru or the Philippines where you don't need any game to laid like crazy. Can't blame 'em. But if you're a brotha living in Mobile, AL and want to game dixie girls of 7 or above, you better have matrix-level game, or some mini-celebrity status. Who the fuck wants to work that hard for mediocrity? Get out of dodge.

Post: #120

Graduated from UGA a few years back. I agree with CEOarob; sorostitutes from the classical greek groups were hard to break into, but more independent white girls were def. my bread and butter, as well as foreign exchange chicks.

Post: #121

(09-24-2013 12:44 AM)choichoi Wrote:  ^
Don't forget downtown Decatur too. Good Lord they've got some nice snow bunnies over there

Yes! I count that as the Eastside. With the all-girls college a couple of blocks from Decatur station...it's the promise land.

Post: #122

(10-02-2013 02:57 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(10-02-2013 11:11 AM)SuS Wrote:  For everyone who says "game is game" and "I forget that I'm black", I'm not calling BS, but answer me this:

-Where do you live (even if it's just the country and state/territory)?
-Where do you spit the most game?

Because where I am (as stated earlier), it's a whole 'nother ball game.

Location is always half the battle. Not just with race, but anything. Employment, real estate, nightlife, lifestyle, whatever. Not to say you can't do well in a less than ideal location, but living in a place where the location suits your aims will just make your life so much easier. I'm lazy, I don't want to have to work my ass off. I get why some white guys will just go to Peru or the Philippines where you don't need any game to laid like crazy. Can't blame 'em. But if you're a brotha living in Mobile, AL and want to game dixie girls of 7 or above, you better have matrix-level game, or some mini-celebrity status. Who the fuck wants to work that hard for mediocrity? Get out of dodge.

I think it was bill gates who said,
"I always give the hardest jobs to the lazy people, because they always figuere out an easier way to do it."

Post: #123

Has anyone else noticed that the white girls that really like black dudes tend to be disproportionately blonde? I see way more blondes with black guys than I do brunettes. This seems to be the case regardless of country.

I, for example, heard black dudes who go to Scandinavia have to beat the local girls off with a stick lol.

Post: #124

(10-05-2013 04:37 PM)OkStudies Wrote:  I, for example, heard black dudes who go to Scandinavia have to beat the local girls off with a stick lol.

NOOOOO! INB4 Global Baller.

Post: #125

Where the snow bunnies?