Post: #1

Last night I met up with a girl I fucked once a few months ago, this was our second encounter. I had kinda forgot what she looked like but when she stepped out of her uber she legit looked stunning, very pretty face and perfect body, she's 21 and I'd give her a solid 8, all the hotel guys were ogling at her too which would be the theme for the rest of the night. Now I'm not a good looking guy, I'm average on a good day so this chick was clearly out of my league but she was so into me she held my hand and gave me a kiss right away. So we hit up a lounge place and have some beers and shots and we feeling good I'm making her laugh and the PDA starts intensifieng with every drink. I start noticing guys looking our way as if thinking what is that girl doing with that dude? Then I go to the bathroom and as I walk out there is a guy hitting on her and he leaves when I show up, then when she goes to the bathroom all these guys try to grab her hand as she's walking and when she comes back she says lots of guys are trying to hit on her and I just laugh it off like yeah well your the hottest girl here. So we hit up another bar and were pretty fucked up and were making out like crazy and she's pretty freaky so I lift up her dress and grab her ass infront of everyone shes wearing a hot g-string. Again I go to the bathroom and the guy next to us immediatly starts hitting on her but this time I catch her giving him her number, I pretended like I didn't notice when I came back and we start again with the PDA so I wasn't worried it's not like she was ignoring me or anything. Finally we hit up another spot and long story short another guy hits on her and I see her follow him into a secluded area in the back of the bar, shes there for like 5 minutes and comes back to my table and she tells me some guy asked her to give him a lap dance, prolly since that's what she was doing to me all night. I pretended like I didn't see anything and laughed it off and I really was not pissed or jealous since the PDA continued all night and she never ignored me, but I could tell she was texting one of the guys she gave her # too. So we end up going back to my hotel and we fuck all night , she even had some lingerie in her purse that she put on and looked sexy as fuck like a legit model. She also had this "clit sensitizer" gel in her purse that she rubbed on her pussy to make her cum..so as you could tell this bitch was pretty fucking freaky. Anyway I don't know what to make of her behavior it was pretty confusing since she was all over me but still giving guys her number and texting them, also wtf is up with all the guys hitting on her when she's clearly with a guy. Does this mean I give off beta vibes? I am 6'0 about 170lbs and in decent shape.

Post: #2

Get a tear tattoo under your eye. Most of those guys will disappear

Post: #3

Quote:Again I go to the bathroom and the guy next to us immediatly starts hitting on her but this time I catch her giving him her number, I pretended like I didn't notice

Never put a pussy before your own self-respect. If she was there to accompany you, on your dime, and your time, then that is where you draw the line and walk away when she disrespects you.

At the end of the night, you fucked her but that doesn't mean you made the right move. You made the beta move, showing you're willing to accept any behavior from a woman because you can't get any better. And that's a mistake because you're practically telling her and every other man at the bar that you're worth nothing. You should have went home alone.

As far as her behavior. You went out on a date with a whore and she continued being a whore in your presence because she didn't like you enough to change her behavior. It's the pain / pleasure/ leverage principle that most psychologist have talked about since Freud. Its is quite common actually.

On a side note, If having women and other men respect you at the club is at the top of your priorities, then hit the gym and fix your diet. At six foot and 170, you're too skinny for anyone to take you seriously at the club. Nightlife is a different game.

Post: #4

Well it was a weird dynamic between me and her like I knew she was a whore so I didn't take her seriously and looked at our encounter as just sloppy fun, nothing more nothing less. Also I didn't want to ruin my night and leave alone since
1. I honestly felt zero jealousy.
2. I didn't want to look like I got mad and "stormed off".
3. We were having lots of fun and i knew I was going to be fucking her later.
4. She never stopped giving me attention.

And I agree I don't think she truly liked me just saw me as fun guy to have a drunken night with and fuck. Which at then end of the day is all i was after anyway. I did appreciate the lingerie she brought, never had that done so.

What troubles me more is the fact that guys at every venue were hitting on her when it was clear she was with me already...almost as if they though they could pull her from me since she's out of my league, like they thought I wasn't good enough for her and she would be an easy target.

Post: #5

Why did you bounce to so many different places? How many drinks were you buying her?

This reminds of the thread were the guy split eight rounds with his chick, as if he's trying to drink her under the bloody table. That's what you do with your bros, not with your girl. Shows hesitation and lack of leadship on your part, so I'm not surprised she gave out her number to another dude.

For me it's one drink and bounce, I'll allow two max. Not spending all night on a girl, I have shit to do tomorrow.

As for the clit gel, she's clearly a slut. And yes you got the bang, but was it worth the ding to your self-respect? Maybe not, since you're posting on here about how upset you are, rather than the great sex you had. I'm not dissing you, just maybe think about that and the long-term consequences for your mental health.

Post: #6

(05-27-2018 01:49 AM)churros Wrote:  Why did you bounce to so many different places? How many drinks were you buying her?

This reminds of the thread were the guy split eight rounds with his chick, as if he's trying to drink her under the bloody table. That's what you do with your bros, not with your girl. Shows hesitation and lack of leadship on your part, so I'm not surprised she gave out her number to another dude.

For me it's one drink and bounce, I'll allow two max. Not spending all night on a girl, I have shit to do tomorrow.

As for the clit gel, she's clearly a slut. And yes you got the bang, but was it worth the ding to your self-respect? Maybe not, since you're posting on here about how upset you are, rather than the great sex you had. I'm not dissing you, just maybe think about that and the long-term consequences for your mental health.

Wait so you go to a club buy the girl 1 drink then say it's time to leave? Lol wtf..when I go out with a chick Its to party and get fucked up, do coke, smoke weed, etc. And I ain't got shit to do tomorrow.

Also I made it clear that I wasn't upset or jealous in my posts man c'mon. I aint having mental health issues over a whore being a whore, I didn't give a shit about her or who she gave her # too, this is the type of chick i would try to pass on to a homie like "bro you got to hit this". I just wanted to have my fun that night which I did. Like I said, what troubled me more was how other guys kept hitting on her all night.

And yeah the clit gel made me laugh to be honest, but believe me she was super fun on bed, glad I took a Viagra.

Post: #7

I absolutely second everything LINUX stated in his post! It's not good to be extremely arrogant, but I sincerely believe you're not giving yourself enough credit for landing such a Bad Bitch! She's clearly a Hoe... but still a Hoe you've been able land and Bang multiple time! However I suggest you next yourself because I believe you'll start catching feelings for this chick... and you don't want to do that since this chick is NOT on your level! You got it twisted you're out of her league LIFESTYLE wise! Load up your prospect list, and get yourself some other plates & let this one go unless you're a 100% sure you won't be catching feelings for her. When you get your confidence up the sky will be your limit!

Post: #8

Last summer my first night in Budva at 4 am i see this very hot girl crying on the street. I go to her and shes mumbling drunk/high out of her mind, she says her friends are at a club and someone just punched her or something senseless like that. I tell her come ill take you there (i half felt sorry and half wanted to fuck her).

We get there and there are no friends no nothing. Shes drunk as fuck and all these tall locals or serbs start talking to her. I think she gave her nb to 5 guys. I just stood at the bar. After one drink we bounced and fucked.

Moral of the story? I was out with a drunk slut. Who cares what she does.

Post: #9

(05-27-2018 02:32 AM)Beirut Wrote:  [...]

Moral of the story? I was out with a drunk slut. Who cares what she does.

This.

The only thing I believe you did wrong was that you extended the date a bit too much. One drink, two drinks, go home, she clearly wanted to f*ck. Especially after you noticed she was letting too many IOIs to other guys.

Post: #10

Well done holding frame and getting the bang with gel bro.

I'd have left that slut at the bar with her thirsty beggars.

I think your next date should be in a hotel room with a great view, huge spa bath and loads of supplies in the room - to avoid the manlets clawing away your slut from you.

Post: #11

I agree with RatInTheWoods and a couple of the other guys. 2 drinks max and bounce somewhere private, unless you or her are planning a gang bang.

But you handled it just fine, it didn't phase you, you saw with your own eyes what women really do and you had a good time in the end.

This was a win in every possible way and a great learning experience.

Post: #12

How did her clit become desensitized in the first place?

Post: #13

You're overthinking it.

You got the bang.

Only thing I'd change is pull her sooner (not so many bounces and drinks). Shows better leadership.

Attractive girls will always be hit on. Only thing is you got to see it in this case. I don't get AMOG'd too often, but when it does I also DGAF.

Post: #14

(05-27-2018 12:53 AM)LINUX Wrote:  On a side note, If having women and other men respect you at the club is at the top of your priorities, then hit the gym and fix your diet. At six foot and 170, you're too skinny for anyone to take you seriously at the club. Nightlife is a different game.

Post: #15

As long as you're in her bed at the end of the night who cares. Recently I was with a girl at her own birthday party and it was me, her and 5 guys. Every one of the the guys tried to move to her. Most were taller than me and some had more muscle. A guy who claimed he was a powerlifter tried to amog me, fast forward an hour later shes jacking me off in her bed. I guess I learnt that holding frame, being unreactive and most importantly - trusting the process is key.

Post: #16

(05-27-2018 02:11 AM)Axel99 Wrote:  

(05-27-2018 01:49 AM)churros Wrote:  Why did you bounce to so many different places? How many drinks were you buying her?

This reminds of the thread were the guy split eight rounds with his chick, as if he's trying to drink her under the bloody table. That's what you do with your bros, not with your girl. Shows hesitation and lack of leadship on your part, so I'm not surprised she gave out her number to another dude.

For me it's one drink and bounce, I'll allow two max. Not spending all night on a girl, I have shit to do tomorrow.

As for the clit gel, she's clearly a slut. And yes you got the bang, but was it worth the ding to your self-respect? Maybe not, since you're posting on here about how upset you are, rather than the great sex you had. I'm not dissing you, just maybe think about that and the long-term consequences for your mental health.

Wait so you go to a club buy the girl 1 drink then say it's time to leave? Lol wtf..when I go out with a chick Its to party and get fucked up, do coke, smoke weed, etc. And I ain't got shit to do tomorrow.

Also I made it clear that I wasn't upset or jealous in my posts man c'mon. I aint having mental health issues over a whore being a whore, I didn't give a shit about her or who she gave her # too, this is the type of chick i would try to pass on to a homie like "bro you got to hit this". I just wanted to have my fun that night which I did. Like I said, what troubled me more was how other guys kept hitting on her all night.

And yeah the clit gel made me laugh to be honest, but believe me she was super fun on bed, glad I took a Viagra.

Judging by her shoes, she is a cheap slut. A bottle of wine at your place should be enough investment.

I have been out plenty of times with women who are attractive and I know up front can be pretty slutty, and also women who on paper, for an outsider, can seem "out of my league", ie very tall, pretty, great body. Of course they are approached during the night here and there, but none dared ever to give a number to a guy in front of me or go with a guy somewhere for 5 minutes. When she knows you are a man, with charisma and a commanding presence, she wont do that shit, no matter how much slutty she is, unless she is a whore devoid of any values, which is another level of sluttiness, though these kind is normally found on the 5 and 6 range.
Really attractive women know how to deal with male attention, since it's a part of their daily lives.

Post: #17

Regarding AMOGs is best to find yourself in your most favorable position with your date.

I've got a wing's testimony, he's stays that if you buff-en up that's a good way to scare off some potential guys off.

She gave away numbers, well I am not sure how you view it if it's a loss or you don't really care. If your aim is to get a LTR material lady or just get a bang by the end of the night.

Post: #18

(05-27-2018 01:36 AM)Axel99 Wrote:  What troubles me more is the fact that guys at every venue were hitting on her when it was clear she was with me already...almost as if they though they could pull her from me since she's out of my league, like they thought I wasn't good enough for her and she would be an easy target.

I think you did well. You held your frame and got the bang.

I'm going to suggest an alternate understanding of what happened. Let me know if looking back this might fit what happened: Those guys were moving on your date because she was giving them signals when you were not around... eye contact, facial expressions... ect. She was doing this essentially to shit test you! She would have been super happy to see you fight a guy for her even if you didn't win. She also wanted to get a jealous reaction from you. She is coming back because you were fun and probably good in bed. She likely wants more from you, but doesn't feel like you are offering... so she is testing to see how you react to competition.

She knows for fact that if she wanted to fuck another guy that night... she could have grabbed any guy there. She didn't. She slept with you. What does that tell you? Do you think she was getting numbers from guys to fuck tomorrow or do you think she was testing you to see how you feel about her? Which of those options seems more likely?

Post: #19

I wouldn't take it personally, sloots gonna sloot.
She had every opportunity not to engage other guys but she took every opportunity to soak up the attention from multiple men like a sponge.
This has nothing to do with you, any girl that isn't fat can step outside and get sex within minutes. Apparently she hasn't realized this because she's acting like an incel that has 24 hours to experience models fighting to blow him anywhere he goes.

Appreciate her for what she is - a hot slut. Get your nut and get out, I guarantee you the other guys were thinking the same. You weren't amog'd/cucked, you were just under the mistaken impression that you had exclusivity to her twat.

Post: #20

This sounds like some real juvenile shit. OP where you from and how old are you? Where I am from guys rarely do disrespectful things like that (waiting for the dude to go to the toilet so they can hit on his chick). I've seen heads getting bashed for less. And her going with some other dude and giving her number and leaving you alone..I have no words. But you are the one who got the bang so..I guess thats what counts.

Post: #21

I just wanted to thank the OP for using a title that gave me a good laugh

Post: #22

(06-03-2018 05:56 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  

(05-27-2018 01:36 AM)Axel99 Wrote:  What troubles me more is the fact that guys at every venue were hitting on her when it was clear she was with me already...almost as if they though they could pull her from me since she's out of my league, like they thought I wasn't good enough for her and she would be an easy target.

I think you did well. You held your frame and got the bang.

I'm going to suggest an alternate understanding of what happened. Let me know if looking back this might fit what happened: Those guys were moving on your date because she was giving them signals when you were not around... eye contact, facial expressions... ect. She was doing this essentially to shit test you! She would have been super happy to see you fight a guy for her even if you didn't win. She also wanted to get a jealous reaction from you. She is coming back because you were fun and probably good in bed. She likely wants more from you, but doesn't feel like you are offering... so she is testing to see how you react to competition.

She knows for fact that if she wanted to fuck another guy that night... she could have grabbed any guy there. She didn't. She slept with you. What does that tell you? Do you think she was getting numbers from guys to fuck tomorrow or do you think she was testing you to see how you feel about her? Which of those options seems more likely?

She was definitly not testing me, she was being way too discreet and I only saw her give out her # because I would watch from afar after walking back from bathroom, she was going out of her way to not make me jealous. I'm 100% convinced she thinks I dont know she was giving out her #. The guys who approached her were all attractive, prolly like 3-4 points above me so I think she just thought they were hot and wanted to fuck them later.

(06-04-2018 11:09 AM)NikNik Wrote:  This sounds like some real juvenile shit. OP where you from and how old are you? Where I am from guys rarely do disrespectful things like that (waiting for the dude to go to the toilet so they can hit on his chick). I've seen heads getting bashed for less. And her going with some other dude and giving her number and leaving you alone..I have no words. But you are the one who got the bang so..I guess thats what counts.

I live in Los Angeles only been here for 2 years and guys are more aggressive here than other places I've lived. And yeah I could have gotten all pissy and stormed off holding my dick in my hand....or play it cool, hold frame and fuck her like I did. I definitively made the right choice, it was one of the best nights I've had this year.